woman cumming vs. Orgasim

[sweets]

When women comez is this the same as orgasiming( gee I hope I spelled this right). I have a girlfriend, I swear she must have premature ejaculation( this being wonderfull, as I used to suffer from this? I have not a clue why I don't anymore,(well I do, and can/try to explain this if anyone wants, and can compare it to a recent tread on the newposts) but YEaH, she comes like in 2 minutes, and then 5 minutes again( after a 10-15 min break) and then again in an other 5 minutes! Fucking my lord, HE does do miricales, I think I must have to be with this girl, for she has what I want, and I can make her cum with out even trying. (I usually come between her 2nd and just bone for her 3rd!, but I doubt any0ne really cares)-

My question iz as follows, t their a difference or is it the same thing, as she put it !?! I have a slight feeling their is a big difference and this is what so many women claim they have never experienced!

Any feed back is welcome!

 

[MakeItHappen]

my girl cums like that too over and over and over again... the most in one night has been 15... she says there orgasms and im pretty sure shes not lieing... idk man i guess were just the lucky ones...

 

[bluerock53]

It took my wife 15 years to learn to do that. Now she can do it three to five times per session. Her big fear was that she always thought she was going to pee. Finally, I coaxed her into just relaxing and letting it come. Now she's an old pro and can't get enough.

 

[AlreadyPackin']

Some women are sort of uptight about sex, or have issues with it, and that leads to problems. A lot of women simply don't know haw to make the most of their sexuality. I had to work hard to convince my wife that she could come more than once. She won't let me get her going more than twice, though. I've made it a habit of getting women to come at least three times a session with my past gf's.

 

[velimirovich]

So guys, whats the trick/tip/advice you can give me to making her cum while fucking, anything you can tell me, anything at all?

 

[AlreadyPackin']

What you do leading up to the fucking is far more important. I was able to please even the first girl I was with simply because I paid attention and took the extra time to warm her up. See what actions get the reactions you want, and go from there.

 

[EVO]

to put it simply - some girls cum easily through penetrative sex and some dont. ive been with several girls who cum easily (say within 5 mins) and some that would take 30 mins hard core bashing. if you are with a girl that doesnt cum easily try using other appendages

 

[ggogeta]

Like really soft touch sliding on the spots where it tickles...

 

[Rude_God]

As far as I always thought, orgasm and coming/cumming is the same thing. But apparently not so for women. My ex was a squirter. She considered orgasm to be the climax of sexual excitement, but cumming to be when she actually expelled fluid. She could have an orgasm without actually squirting every time. So for example I might say 'did you come' and she'd be like, 'no, but I had an orgasm.' Other times there would be a huge wet patch on the bed definite paydirt. I guess for us guys orgasm and ejaculation are virtually synonymous, unless you're practising some tantric stuff.

 

[sikdogg]

As far as I always thought, orgasm and coming/cumming is the same thing. But apparently not so for women. My ex was a squirter. She considered orgasm to be the climax of sexual excitement, but cumming to be when she actually expelled fluid. She could have an orgasm without actually squirting every time. So for example I might say 'did you come' and she'd be like, 'no, but I had an orgasm.' Other times there would be a huge wet patch on the bed definite paydirt. I guess for us guys orgasm and ejaculation are virtually synonymous, unless you're practising some tantric stuff.

Your girl is not the norm... for most women, cumming and orgasm are one and the same.

 

[Rude_God]

Yeah I know, she's the only girl I've ever experienced who did it. It was a pain having to change the bedsheets so often but it was pretty rewarding Quite gutted that I don't have it anymore

 

[sweets]

YEah, I think I might be going thru the same thing,...... the thing is, that my girl is 35, and I'm 24(turning 25), and that's darn near 30.,(well sorta)and the thing is, she's got two kids, which she really needs is a man to "Represent" her or take care of her security frills. I'm upset at the moment and tell her to wait for me, she's sorta going thru some ruff times, I wish theirs more I could do for her, but I am young, I do love her, and she loves me, she says I'm to young. Isnt sorta weird though, all this time when I say I wish I could do more for her, it really falls on me being a man, I think if I was a "bigger" man, this might comfort her, but the reality of it is I might not be right for her, although I'd hate to think that, cuz I got much to offer her, but her kids is her life and that are to more obsticles she has to satisfy before she can even fell comfortable with sharing her life with me,
guess I'll keep you guys posted,
cheers!

 

[Pandora]

Have u lick her pussy yet done oral.

 

[sweets]

Your An Idiot

 

[Pandora]

Your An Idiot

well have u and ur the iDOIT

 

[sweets]

Well what the fuck is " have you lick her pussy yet done oral", my last response was about my girlfriend breaking off our relationship, dumbass;(

 

[ggogeta]

ok ok foul language dudes

 

[Pandora]

oh ok guess i am the idoit

 

[ggogeta]

oh ok guess i am the idoit

yeah starting with your spelling...

hopefully that was intended, and I felt into your trap

 

[Pandora]

yeah starting with your spelling...

hopefully that was intended, and I felt into your trap

no i cant spell lol i was crap at english

 

[bluerock53]

For my woman, orgasm is like a menu, sometimes she wants a clitoral orgasm, sometimes vaginal. Each type is different, but both involve orgasm. She cannot cum with my cock, so I have to use my fingers. Go figure. Women are too complicated.

 

[Beloved13]

Orgasms vary in power too but, I think an orgasm and cumming are different. My girlfriend didn't start cumming until after we had sex a few times and the first time was with my finger. SHe usually orgasms, cums, and then orgasms or cums again. It really depends on what you do and how you do it. I'm sure the girl plays a huge part too. I told her to relax and let go cause she was also afraid of pissing. I also make sure she pisses before sex.

 

[blackice]

Quick update, my dominican bird flew to Atlanta with her two kids last summer She has visited once or twice back in NY, and we had some
"reconciliation" sex, pretty good. Don't see much of a future for us, I think although she cared for me, I feel like I was just a sex toy:O not like she had to twist my arm or anything. She might move back to NY next year so possible we can be boyfriend/girlfriend again.