Welcome to MOS, c1ngjazz

[DLD]

Welcome to the Brotherhood, @c1ngjazz, I am @DLD. I encourage you to get involved and start making gains by reading through these two important threads, The Newbie Routine and the SRT Routine. The goal is to create a routine, If you need help in writing a routine let me know.

Once you decide upon a routine, start a Routine and Process Log stating all your beginning measurements, your goals, your routine and any other information. This is what we encourage new members to do.

How big are you now and how big do you wanna get? We’re here to help make it happen. If you need help with anything, just ask.

 

[c1ngjazz]

Hi, I never really thought I had a "problem" until I found out that I am the smallest my wife has ever been with.
I'm definitely a "grower not a shower" which I don't care too much about, but I really feel like I'm lacking in all other areas.

I purchased a bath mate in October of 2018. I used it daily and religiously for at least 6 months and saw zero improvement. I went in phases after that of every other day to everyday. At least another 6 months of that. Since then I would say I go in spurts of everyday but I haven't done long stints of it anymore. I just don't see the results.

This is all really weighing on my confidence, which I feel stupid about but it is.

My wife's sex drive went from super intense to non existent and I can't help but feeling like if I had more she'd want more.

I'm looking for something to give me actual results.

Any help is appreciated for sure!!

It's been a long time since I've measured but according to the bathmate I'm around 5-5 1/2 inches on a good day. I don't recall the girth.

 

[DLD]

Hi, I never really thought I had a "problem" until I found out that I am the smallest my wife has ever been with.
I'm definitely a "grower not a shower" which I don't care too much about, but I really feel like I'm lacking in all other areas.

I purchased a bath mate in October of 2018. I used it daily and religiously for at least 6 months and saw zero improvement. I went in phases after that of every other day to everyday. At least another 6 months of that. Since then I would say I go in spurts of everyday but I haven't done long stints of it anymore. I just don't see the results.

This is all really weighing on my confidence, which I feel stupid about but it is.

My wife's sex drive went from super intense to non existent and I can't help but feeling like if I had more she'd want more.

I'm looking for something to give me actual results.

Any help is appreciated for sure!!

It's been a long time since I've measured but according to the bathmate I'm around 5-5 1/2 inches on a good day. I don't recall the girth.

Thanks for coming for help and I appreciate it. First, how do you find out you were the smallest and how did she determined that measurement? I would not take this personal at all to the point you are because you’re destroying yourself and your confidence. I understand that you have found a secret and from this point forward you can get any size do you want to get.

The reason you probably did not make growth using your BM is most likely you were using it incorrectly as most people do. To make extremely incredible growth using the BM you need to use it in the SRT 5×5×3. This will bring girth very quickly.

what is your size right now and what size would you like to be? Are you interested in both length and girth? How much time can you invest in a routine every day? Let me know some of these answers and I can help you on your way to putting a routine together that will actually work.

In the meantime get back into the habit of having sex with your wife and attending to her needs. It makes no difference the size you are right now because you can become as big as you want to be so don’t waste time, don’t worry in your relationship, go and take care of your sexual duties as a husband as you grow to where you want to be.