Time Commitment and Management .

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cyberken53

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So I'm the kind of person who has a lot on his plate, I have a soon to be 7 year old special needs autistic son, chronically ill wife live' on the same property as my aging and ailing parents and battling sleep apnea myself you can imagine time management is a big problem for me, my biggest concern is not having enough time for PE, but an even bigger concern is with the issues I'm facing daily not falling into deep depression, once that happens all bets are off and my motivation and whatever time management fly out the window, that reminds me of one my favorite modern bands Lincoln Park song lyrics from, "In The End"
"Time is a valuable thing
Watch it fly by as the pendulum swings
Watch it count down to the end of the day
The clock ticks life away "
Watch the time go right out the window " sadly and ironically the lead singer Chester Bennington took his life after learning of the death on another great rock singer friend Chris Cornell of Soudgarden took his own life, it's really true what they say one life touches another, sorry I realize I'm going off topic but depression and suicide is a very serious issue and I think it's especially true if you have too much on your plate or just can't deal with everyday life, but the reason I brought up the song is the time issue, not everyone manages time the same, and those of us who have little of it are the ones who are struggling the most with being able to meet just everyday goals never mind our short or long term ones. So this brings me to a question is anyone here going through something in their life that steals their time and makes time management very hard to to do. if so how are you managing your time and finding the motivation to stay on track with your goals especially PE.? As my old English teacher used to say "Time Is My Worst Enemy" and now I know why. If you feel this post would be better in a different area, please move it the appropriate area. Thanks
 
I have struggled with depression and suicidal tendencies for the past 20 years. I’ve been in the hospital about half that time. Many times I’m posting from the hospital because I’m not well enough to be home. No one here judges anyone for a mental disability as we all have our struggles. As far as PE goes I would look at it not so much is gaining right now but moreover as a way to deal with your stress of the sickness in your family because it is a great thing to take your frustrations out on. I’m going to pray for you every single day and to your situation becomes better. God bless you my brother!
 
doublelongdaddy said:
I have struggled with depression and suicidal tendencies for the past 20 years. I’ve been in the hospital about half that time. Many times I’m posting from the hospital because I’m not well enough to be home. No one here judges anyone for a mental disability as we all have our struggles. As far as PE goes I would look at it not so much is gaining right now but moreover as a way to deal with your stress of the sickness in your family because it is a great thing to take your frustrations out on. I’m going to pray for you every single day and to your situation becomes better. God bless you my brother!
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Wow, that's a lot of shit to have to have to go through, so many of us struggle with depression and sometimes thoughts of doing ourselves in, I appreciate you know where I'm coming from, yes anything that helps deal with stress is going to be something I will gravitate towards, my only saving grace right now is prayer and meditation and working out whether it's muscle building or PE, thanks so much for the kind words brother!
 
Honestly, sometimes you have to take two steps back and look at what's most important to you. I have a full plate here as well. I'm not in your shoes, but I have a full time job, wife, daughter, that life, my Malehanger business and customer related issues, etc.

I don't currently do any penis work. It's not currently a priority. I will return to it soon, but it's on the back burner for now.
This stuff can be done at any point in your life. Time with loved ones can't always be gotten back to at another date.
 
stillwantmore2 said:
Honestly, sometimes you have to take two steps back and look at what's most important to you. I have a full plate here as well. I'm not in your shoes, but I have a full time job, wife, daughter, that life, my Malehanger business and customer related issues, etc.

I don't currently do any penis work. It's not currently a priority. I will return to it soon, but it's on the back burner for now.
This stuff can be done at any point in your life. Time with loved ones can't always be gotten back to at another date.
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You have some valid points there, I can't disagree with that, the only thing this is that when your family is steadily disintegrating like mine is loved ones start becoming less loved ones if that makes any sense.
 
I get it, but if it's too stressful on top of everything else to worry about when to do penis enlargement.....I guess that's my main point. Life is stressful enough.
 
cyberken53 said:
So I'm the kind of person who has a lot on his plate, I have a soon to be 7 year old special needs autistic son, chronically ill wife live' on the same property as my aging and ailing parents and battling sleep apnea myself you can imagine time management is a big problem for me, my biggest concern is not having enough time for PE, but an even bigger concern is with the issues I'm facing daily not falling into deep depression, once that happens all bets are off and my motivation and whatever time management fly out the window, that reminds me of one my favorite modern bands Lincoln Park song lyrics from, "In The End"
"Time is a valuable thing
Watch it fly by as the pendulum swings
Watch it count down to the end of the day
The clock ticks life away "
Watch the time go right out the window " sadly and ironically the lead singer Chester Bennington took his life after learning of the death on another great rock singer friend Chris Cornell of Soudgarden took his own life, it's really true what they say one life touches another, sorry I realize I'm going off topic but depression and suicide is a very serious issue and I think it's especially true if you have too much on your plate or just can't deal with everyday life, but the reason I brought up the song is the time issue, not everyone manages time the same, and those of us who have little of it are the ones who are struggling the most with being able to meet just everyday goals never mind our short or long term ones. So this brings me to a question is anyone here going through something in their life that steals their time and makes time management very hard to to do. if so how are you managing your time and finding the motivation to stay on track with your goals especially PE.? As my old English teacher used to say "Time Is My Worst Enemy" and now I know why. If you feel this post would be better in a different area, please move it the appropriate area. Thanks
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I feel for you, I really do. This thread has things in common with myself. I too have an autistic spectrum disorder, and I have never managed it in a positive manner! over the weeks, and months on these forums I intend to write allot more on not just penis enlargement, but mental health, and my own life ... so others can learn from my intense fuck ups and ostrich head in the sand moments.

Remember Linkin Park back in 2000 :) tear in my eye - happy days - that song was powerful, and I was upset when Chester died. LPs last album, actually when you listen to it, the lyrics, song titles all point to that direction he was heading towards.

Okay, well. Still has put excellent advice down, but I presume you want to do something. It would need to be very brief, so maybe ADS could be useful, these are devices that attach to the penis, and then usually to the leg with the intention to stretch it all day hence the name all day stretcher.

You could always do a basic routine consisting of two exercises: simple stretches by hand while flaccid, and some jelqs using baby oil as lube. These could all be done in 30 minutes somewhere private.

Another idea, is wear a cock ring or cable clamp-like device around your package, with a light constriction, so through the day as it engorges that expansion stays, in time it helps with girth.

Extenders could be another idea, but personally I think something very light and quick would help.

Have you ever tried meditation? that helps with the mind allot.

I will post more in the relevant section on spiritual, meditation such matters but for now a simple sitting straight in chair with eyes closed, breathing normally while following that breath and not getting distracted by anything else, would help.

Life can be very difficult, albeit we sometimes are our own worst enemies, its best to reduce the load where possible. I have ageing parents, and many times I feel regret and shame for my past decisions in life, but I have to look forwards and not become swamped down by the past. Guilt is another powerful emotion, but ultimately it destroys you, so it needs to be dug up like a weed and removed.

It wont be easy, but you can take small steps towards the final large goal you seek.
 
stillwantmore2 said:
I get it, but if it's too stressful on top of everything else to worry about when to do penis enlargement.....I guess that's my main point. Life is stressful enough.
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It certainly is and bringing all this into a PE routine is a recipe for discouragement. Stress is tough but everyone needs to understand that it is what it is, getting a mess over it will prolong the suffering. Let go of it, give it to God! Set yourself free from it all and put your face to a bright future.
 
I can relate to your situation brother. I have a 9 year old boy on the spectrum(thankfully healthy, but still a challenge) and a wife with long-standing chronic health issues. It's a challenge. I often find myself feeling guilty for spending time on PE when I could be doing more to care for or help my family.

But recently I realized I was so neglecting myself that I was showing up as a pretty shitty partner and dad. It is important and selfLESS to care for ourselves. When I do, I feel like I am a better person to my kids and spouse. For me, it was adding back in PE, Drumming, and exercise.

I am not suggesting this is a panacea or in any way diminishing the real effects of depression(my wife has suffered this for her whole adult life) - but just bringing ONE thing of enjoyment or passion into the mix has made exponential leaps in my life.

Feel free to reach out and HTH...

MCBLZ
(Matt)
 
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