8InchMIKE said:
So let me see if i got this right...
I answered that I AM NOT ATRACTED TO SHE_MALES so your saying that i am either gay (homo) / Bisexual or lying. Dude you think you know me but let me tell ya...you sure don't bud.
Now get this through your head, DO NOT MAKE STATEMENTS YOU CANNOT AFFORD TO PROOVE especially if you are not making them in my face. What i mean is, DO NOT LABEL ME OK ? I have answered that no, i do not get turned on by guys with lipstick or silicone tits and some mascara and this is WITH OR WITHOUT A Penis EnlargementNIS, fake pussy or whatever, they are still men, they still have big hands, large cheek bones, weird hormonal inbalances, a male inside structure and a male brain although a feminized one. If you think you are a bigger man because you like their feminine outershell then YOU have some issues to resolve.
So try to get things right next time cause life aint binary dude, there is much more than just 0's and 1's aight ??
You have really pissed me off with your coments and i prefer to leave things at this cause someone who sprays this kind of BS is surely unable to compreend a 33 yo man's views on life.
PS. i have had quite a big number of women in my life, still do cuz...never had any gay encounters and never will, never crossed my mind and never will brotha...
I'm insecure ?! Dude, if you were as secure as i am about my sexuality you would be smilling all day and all night.
Learn not to label people inside your closed mindset of selfmade rules and suppositions and you'll be a much better man.
Mike
:O lol
1) You take things WAY too personally and WAY too seriously.
2) You said "So try to get things right next time cause life aint binary dude, there is much more than just 0's and 1's aight ??" .... and that was exactly my point in BOTH of my posts and will again be my point in this one. It's much more complicated than YOU made it seem in your post and much more complicated than the thread and poll clarified.
The question and the options to answer provided by the poll leave plenty of room for various interpretation. Hence the reason why I quantified my answer to the poll and then followed up with another post that picked apart some of the vagueness of the thread and poll and the possibility for various interpretations to something that should be more "binary" as you say.
Your whole post comes from the view that you KNOW for sure that the person is a shemale. I'm not arguing that somebody who is born a man that styles themself life a female and creates the facade of a female with or without a penis/fake pussy is stilla man internally. But, it doesn't mean that you would know they are a man from
hanging out with them in public dress code, or even half naked with at least with something covering up the groin area, and possibly even with them completely naked if they had a well done post-op result and you weren't clever enough to figure that out or too wasted. Natural females have various size and texture hands and the same with the natural guys. Cheek bones vary with men and women too. You cannot be sure that you can identify the difference of a natural female and male with cheek bones, hands and certainly not their hormones because you're not giving them a proper medical examination when you meet these people. BY THE WAY, all humans are initially female in the womb which is something very interesting to consider when trying to approach this topic as fair and thoughtful as possible.
I didn't mean to exclusively imply that you must be gay, bi, or a liar to answer that you are not attracted to shemales if you are a guy ... because there is still room for varying interpretation and I touched on that in BOTH of my posts as well. The FACT is, SOME shemales look enough like the most attractive females anyone has ever seen that any straight or bi guy would be lying, not thinking things through enough, being naive or whatever if they alleged that 1) they can tell every shemale from a female and 2) that they would not be attracted to the shemale that they thought was a female because they were not aware of the dick yet. The reason why I posted "There's Something About Miriam" was to prove that point. You can allege that you would have known for sure Miriam was a shemale from the start if you were in the place of those guys on the show, or even suspected it had you not been told that the show was "
There's something about Miriam", instead of being in the place of the viewer let in on the scheme ... but I'll remain extemely skeptical of such an assertion because most logic doubts it.
How you possibly missed this point and turned my post into a personal attack against you that caused you rage leading to stabbing your keyboard with in preparation for subitting your e-warrior post to express your extremely judgemental anger and contempt for me with no critical thinking for the variables is funny to me. I think you need to chill.
I don't think I am the "bigger man" for thinking like this and expressing my thoughts. I think I am thinking things through a bit more and expressing that in a very honest manner. The question to why I would do that and somebody else wouldn't could have various different answers. I did mention insecurity with sexuality and homophobia, not because it is the only possible reason but, because it is the most natural thing for straight guys like us to have some trouble overcoming ... especially because of societal influence. You tried to make it very clear that you would not be afflicted by this very natural yet strong biological and social challenge, and some of your points ... which I have addressed mostly relative to whether or not one knows a shemale for a female by somebody telling them or by figuring it out for themself ... played along these lines. However, when it came to the whole sexuality and homophobic thing you kinda proved my point even though we could probably debate this for a year and it's not something that I want to do.
The fact that your whole viewpoint came from asserting and or assuming that you'd KNOW the person was a shemale could be argued as sign that plenty of guys who are terrified of doing anything that could give anyone a reason to call them bi or gay like to assume: that they are so straight that they have "gaydar" and "transgendar" or whatever ... like you could absolutely NEVER be incorrect about whether or not a guy is gay or bi or whether or not a person is a shemale. This has alsready been proven wong many times in society. You don't have magical "gaydar" and "transgendar" powers just because you vehemently want everyone to know you're straight because you're terrified of anyone having any room to freely think that you may be otherwise. But, like I said, maybe the way you were thinking about the question was that it was asking if you would be attracted to somebody that you KNOW is a shemale ... in which case the whole variable of various interpretation comes into play. So, next point.
You said:
"i have had quite a big number of women in my life, still do cuz...never had any gay encounters and never will, never crossed my mind and never will brotha..."
This more specifically proved my point of your vehemently wanting everyone to know you're straight because you're terrified of them having any room to freely think that you may be otherwise.
You could argue which one of the three satements in that snippet is more to the point than the other, but they all pretty much fall into the same category. Probably the "never crossed my mind and never will" was the most telling though. It gives the impression that you'd be scared of people thinking that you even had a nightmare that woke you up in fearful sweats and shivers because some guy was shoving his dick in your mouth or even resting his hand on your dick. Forget your very straight reaction to the dream, you give the impression that you'd be afraid of being considered gay or bi for even having the nightmare.
Your personal attacks towards me did not offend my sexuality, intelligence or integrity despite your attempt. Mine were never and still aren't intended to offend your sexuality, intelligence or integrity but rather to discuss this as openly and thoughtfully as I felt like doing in my boredom ... so even though you took it that way from my previous posts it would be best if you didn't take it that way with this post and reconsidered your reaction to my previous posts.
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