So this new chick I'm sorta seeing mentions she has daddy issues. I always thought that thing was a joke. But she has started to call me daddy and very submissive to wanting to make me happy and not dissapointed.she also seems to wanted to be punished or disciplined. I don't mind the role play , but Its not something I've done a lot especially like this . So those with experienince with these kinda girls what are things I can say or do to keep her happy?
She has daddy issues. How to keep her happy.
Aimingforthetop
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keep her chasing your acknowledgement. and pretty much let her fight for your attention and she will stick to you.
however. in my opinion this is bad karma. taking advantage of a girl with issues is... i don't know.
besides is this what you want?
basicly this is the odepheus complex.
you will look for some sort of resemblance of your other gender parent.
if dad was beating up his daughter. there is a 99% chance that girl will find someone who beats her up aswell.
a dad that neglected her daughter. and she will look for someone to neglect her.
it's just how it works really.
as long as it's just kinky stuff in the bed room i will say it is cool.
but i don't need to tell you that this is gonna be a unhealthy relationship if you aren't allowed to show your appreciation and love for her. do i?
however. in my opinion this is bad karma. taking advantage of a girl with issues is... i don't know.
besides is this what you want?
basicly this is the odepheus complex.
you will look for some sort of resemblance of your other gender parent.
if dad was beating up his daughter. there is a 99% chance that girl will find someone who beats her up aswell.
a dad that neglected her daughter. and she will look for someone to neglect her.
it's just how it works really.
as long as it's just kinky stuff in the bed room i will say it is cool.
but i don't need to tell you that this is gonna be a unhealthy relationship if you aren't allowed to show your appreciation and love for her. do i?
ma999;658583 said:
Very touchy situation and one that can end very badly, so be careful. When I met Jen she had daddy issues and if you look at any of her posts here she would refer to me as Daddy. This role became a huge issue as time went on. She started to blame me for things that she had issues with long before she met me. As much as I love her I had to let her go. The relationship was not sustainable with her issues of her Father and her past. Mal, be careful and discourage the role of Daddy as much as possible.
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templnite
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If all she wants to do is please you then why worry about keeping her happy? Just love her, and that's it
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templnite
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But love trumps all mike. I know if my girl came damaged I would only love her more for it. That girl just wants you to take care if her like any other chick would man. Just be good to her.
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templnite
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I thought the daddy issues were a type of subconscious impulse, if they purposely role play like that its not right in my eyes.
templnite;659124 said:
Yeah, it can get messy and love can be lost in these unreal roles. The best advice I can give is to nip it in the bud and have a sit down and discuss it. I would love to see you have a fruitful, realistic relationship than having you play a role that will leave you heartbroken in the future.
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templnite
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Oh its like ed Kemper fucking up all those girls because he hated his mom *high-five X*
templnite;659436 said:
Very much so. Jen (my ex) expected me to punish her, tell her what to do and when to do it, I mean everything that a Father would do for their daughter. It just kept getting worse and worse until I was the one responsible for all of her past issues.
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templnite
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Ephesians 5:33
However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
I know the man precedes the woman so I guess high-five either way *allahu akbar*
However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
I know the man precedes the woman so I guess high-five either way *allahu akbar*
That's not daddy issues that's being submissive. Good job sounds like she is pretty funma999;658583 said: