Questions after circumcision (torn frenulum)

[Limpy]

I had tore my frenulum using the length master and had to get cut. I have a couple questions an and was wondering if anyone had any answers. First off it’s been 6 weeks but my penis is missing like an 1.5-2in when I’m fully hard?? ( doctors didn’t give after care and says it’s mental block and it’s not really like that but I have measurements! lol) also when did you guys start to do PE again after circumcision? I want to get right back into it. I also don’t don’t if frenulum was detached like it should’ve been if anyone has answers.

 

[huge-girth]

Your penis looks OK. Just don't do anything for at least 3 months. Now that you are cut, the length master and bandage will both work perfectly for you.

 

[oldandlively]

I had tore my frenulum using the length master and had to get cut.

I'm a bit confused on the timeline of surgical procedure. Which one comes first? Frenulum tear or foreskin removal?

If foreskin is removed, so does the frenulum in general to prevent skin irritation or skin pulling.

There is of course a request where frenulum is left in place, and only a small amount of the excessive foreskin is removed to expose the glans, with the frenulum in tack. Of course, there should be quite a bit of foreskin remains if that happens. I'm just scratching my head that the foreskin seems very tight, seeing that the penis in the photo is 80% to 90% erect?

I have a couple questions an and was wondering if anyone had any answers. First off it’s been 6 weeks but my penis is missing like an 1.5-2in when I’m fully hard?? ( doctors didn’t give after care and says it’s mental block and it’s not really like that but I have measurements! lol)

When the foreskin is removed, and the stitching of the foreskin becomes tight, it does cause the penis to "retract" because the skin is attempting to rebind and shrink to a safer elasticity. Imagine if you can when you get a third degree burn on some part of the body, with a portion of the skin is burnt off. The doctors didn't use any donated skin (from stomach, thigh, or under arms) to graft onto, but instead, decided to pull the skin closer and tighter together during the stitching. When that happens, the burnt and stitched area appeared smaller, or warped.

In this case, your penis foreskin is chopped, and pulled together during the stitching. The foreskin that meant to allowed the stretching of the penile shaft got shorten. The skin appeared very tight in the photo. This indicates an over removal of the foreskin during the stitching. When that happens, the full length you have does appear "shortened" because of the tight foreskin. The only to get the prior length back is to slowly stretch the tight skin back out and regain part of the elasticity of the old foreskin back. Do ease back in and go easy like we discussed before. Too fast of a pull will rip your scarred skin from the stitched site apart.

also when did you guys start to do PE again after circumcision? I want to get right back into it. I also don’t don’t if frenulum was detached like it should’ve been if anyone has answers.

Commonly, after 12 weeks minimum. You want to make sure the skin full attached and strengthen before slowly stretching them apart. It's like comparing stretching a whole piece of fabric vs stitched piece of fabric. Whole piece will go a lot further in terms of elastic strength. Stitched pieces depends on the strength of the strength of the binding site. Take your time and ease in. Desperate measures to regain the length will rip the skin apart.

 

[DLD]

Losing your frenulum is a pretty good thing, as you probably already noticed.You gained a little bit in length. I removed my frenulum twenty years ago and I remember right after it happened, I gained a very quick inch in length

 

[Limpy]

Your penis looks OK. Just don't do anything for at least 3 months. Now that you are cut, the length master and bandage will both work perfectly for you.

Ok cool. Wait 3 month from now or from surgery date?

 

[Limpy]

Losing your frenulum is a pretty good thing, as you probably already noticed.You gained a little bit in length. I removed my frenulum twenty years ago and I remember right after it happened, I gained a very quick inch in length

I actually haven’t healed and my erect length is 1.5-2 inches shorter than usual I’m hoping to grow in some lol. How long did you wait dld?

 

[Limpy]

I'm a bit confused on the timeline of surgical procedure. Which one comes first? Frenulum tear or foreskin removal?

If foreskin is removed, so does the frenulum in general to prevent skin irritation or skin pulling.

There is of course a request where frenulum is left in place, and only a small amount of the excessive foreskin is removed to expose the glans, with the frenulum in tack. Of course, there should be quite a bit of foreskin remains if that happens. I'm just scratching my head that the foreskin seems very tight, seeing that the penis in the photo is 80% to 90% erect?



When the foreskin is removed, and the stitching of the foreskin becomes tight, it does cause the penis to "retract" because the skin is attempting to rebind and shrink to a safer elasticity. Imagine if you can when you get a third degree burn on some part of the body, with a portion of the skin is burnt off. The doctors didn't use any donated skin (from stomach, thigh, or under arms) to graft onto, but instead, decided to pull the skin closer and tighter together during the stitching. When that happens, the burnt and stitched area appeared smaller, or warped.

In this case, your penis foreskin is chopped, and pulled together during the stitching. The foreskin that meant to allowed the stretching of the penile shaft got shorten. The skin appeared very tight in the photo. This indicates an over removal of the foreskin during the stitching. When that happens, the full length you have does appear "shortened" because of the tight foreskin. The only to get the prior length back is to slowly stretch the tight skin back out and regain part of the elasticity of the old foreskin back. Do ease back in and go easy like we discussed before. Too fast of a pull will rip your scarred skin from the stitched site apart.



Commonly, after 12 weeks minimum. You want to make sure the skin full attached and strengthen before slowly stretching them apart. It's like comparing stretching a whole piece of fabric vs stitched piece of fabric. Whole piece will go a lot further in terms of elastic strength. Stitched pieces depends on the strength of the strength of the binding site. Take your time and ease in. Desperate measures to regain the length will rip the skin apart.

No I got the tear and it would heal but immediately tear again with activity and was ongoing for over a year and I just recently got circumcised(6weeks ago).

The weird thing is the frenulum still looks like it’s there and still feels tight ( but it all feels tight bc of recovery)

Woowwww you telling me I lost inches on my dick because my doctor didn’t perform correctly? I was expecting to grow back into it over time. No way the doc made me lose almost two inches.

 

[oldandlively]

No I got the tear and it would heal but immediately tear again with activity and was ongoing for over a year and I just recently got circumcised(6weeks ago).

Got it. The frenulum, once torn a bit, should be torn completely for your overall benefits. Frenulum doesn't provide the benefit unless you are competing with dozens of males in scooping their semen like the wild animals. Mine got torn on a zipper once, trying to heal it afterwards each time it was tearing was a pure madhouse. Since you have it fully removed, it will be much better for you.

The weird thing is the frenulum still looks like it’s there and still feels tight ( but it all feels tight bc of recovery)

That's just due to the stitching scar. I have it too. Everyone who had the frenulum cut or stitched after the surgery will always have that strange thick line that feels like it's tight. It's not. It's just a scarred line.

Woowwww you telling me I lost inches on my dick because my doctor didn’t perform correctly? I was expecting to grow back into it over time. No way the doc made me lose almost two inches.

This is why circumcision should be done when you're a child and not as an adult. As your penile skin grows and becomes elastic, it prevents this kind of problem in the latter days of an adult. But do be hopeful since you can regain it all back as your skin stretches again.

 

[DLD]

I actually haven’t healed and my erect length is 1.5-2 inches shorter than usual I’m hoping to grow in some lol. How long did you wait dld?

I waited about a month till I got back to it and I came back very easy but progressively. Time and intensity have always been my way and i've grown more greatly because of it. Don't worry about the lost size it's all part of the process.And when you're healed enough, you can get back those gains almost immediately.

 

[galactech10]

Just the posting I was looking for i am about 8 weeks out from my circumcision and can't use the bathmate because it pulls the head down instantly cant even do 30% of what i used to.

I was already informed by some members not to pump until 3-4 months post op and if I do to take it very very easy. I have not tried since (about 2 weeks or so).

As far as stretching should i also just wait and do no PE at all? I been doing PE for around 12 years or so not very consistent at all in the begining but avid bm/stretch/jelq/clamp for about 5 years. I feel lost not being able to get the boost i used to but I know once all healed it will be better which is why I finally did it wish I did it before when I got frenulum removed 2 years back but I thought thats all I needed.

Sorry for the ramble but if anyone else who went thru circumcision started back PE has tips of what we can do not while we wait to get back to our routines. All I am doing now is some red light therapy from the srt package and massage around the scarring to make it more malleable.

 

[oldandlively]

Just the posting I was looking for i am about 8 weeks out from my circumcision and can't use the bathmate because it pulls the head down instantly cant even do 30% of what i used to.

If pumping causes skin tensioning that pulls the head down, perform SSJ and jelqs to relax the overall skin tensions. Internal expansion helps to alleviate skin tensions, while pumping maximizes skin stretching. Ease in, and don't go crazy.

I was already informed by some members not to pump until 3-4 months post op and if I do to take it very very easy. I have not tried since (about 2 weeks or so).

Always allow at least 90 days of post-surgery before engaging PE. Commonly, 6 weeks minimum time to have 50% healing. 12 weeks are minimal for expected full healing.

As far as stretching should i also just wait and do no PE at all? I been doing PE for around 12 years or so not very consistent at all in the begining but avid bm/stretch/jelq/clamp for about 5 years. I feel lost not being able to get the boost i used to but I know once all healed it will be better which is why I finally did it wish I did it before when I got frenulum removed 2 years back but I thought thats all I needed.

Standard jelqs and light stretching is fine. Think of it as newbie stretches for the new penile conditions to readopts the PE routines ahead. Just very light basic newbie routine, between 30 to 60 minutes a day at at this point. No rigorous PE routines.

Sorry for the ramble but if anyone else who went thru circumcision started back PE has tips of what we can do not while we wait to get back to our routines. All I am doing now is some red light therapy from the srt package and massage around the scarring to make it more malleable.

RLT is a great way to expedite healing. Combined with very light SRT routine to promote blood flow and basic skin stretching to make your penile tissues pliable. But also add in heat compresses to provide pliability and malleability. Heat compresses should be done every 5 minutes, or in between every few exercises.

 

[DLD]

If pumping causes skin tensioning that pulls the head down, perform SSJ and jelqs to relax the overall skin tensions. Internal expansion helps to alleviate skin tensions, while pumping maximizes skin stretching. Ease in, and don't go crazy.



Always allow at least 90 days of post-surgery before engaging PE. Commonly, 6 weeks minimum time to have 50% healing. 12 weeks are minimal for expected full healing.



Standard jelqs and light stretching is fine. Think of it as newbie stretches for the new penile conditions to readopts the PE routines ahead. Just very light basic newbie routine, between 30 to 60 minutes a day at at this point. No rigorous PE routines.



RLT is a great way to expedite healing. Combined with very light SRT routine to promote blood flow and basic skin stretching to make your penile tissues pliable. But also add in heat compresses to provide pliability and malleability. Heat compresses should be done every 5 minutes, or in between every few exercises.

Excellent post

 

[galactech10]

If pumping causes skin tensioning that pulls the head down, perform SSJ and jelqs to relax the overall skin tensions. Internal expansion helps to alleviate skin tensions, while pumping maximizes skin stretching. Ease in, and don't go crazy.



Always allow at least 90 days of post-surgery before engaging PE. Commonly, 6 weeks minimum time to have 50% healing. 12 weeks are minimal for expected full healing.



Standard jelqs and light stretching is fine. Think of it as newbie stretches for the new penile conditions to readopts the PE routines ahead. Just very light basic newbie routine, between 30 to 60 minutes a day at at this point. No rigorous PE routines.



RLT is a great way to expedite healing. Combined with very light SRT routine to promote blood flow and basic skin stretching to make your penile tissues pliable. But also add in heat compresses to provide pliability and malleability. Heat compresses should be done every 5 minutes, or in between every few exercises.

Thanks oldandlively really appreciate the effort you put in to answer my questions and all of it makes perfect sense I will do some very light things to see how things feel and go very slow up until 12 weeks which is only few weeks away

 

[oldandlively]

Thanks oldandlively really appreciate the effort you put in to answer my questions and all of it makes perfect sense I will do some very light things to see how things feel and go very slow up until 12 weeks which is only few weeks away

No problem, brother. We are here for you, especially providing safe guidance for your PE journey.

 

[huge-girth]

Ok cool. Wait 3 month from now or from surgery date?

From surgery date.

 

[Limpy]

Got it. The frenulum, once torn a bit, should be torn completely for your overall benefits. Frenulum doesn't provide the benefit unless you are competing with dozens of males in scooping their semen like the wild animals. Mine got torn on a zipper once, trying to heal it afterwards each time it was tearing was a pure madhouse. Since you have it fully removed, it will be much better for you.



That's just due to the stitching scar. I have it too. Everyone who had the frenulum cut or stitched after the surgery will always have that strange thick line that feels like it's tight. It's not. It's just a scarred line.



This is why circumcision should be done when you're a child and not as an adult. As your penile skin grows and becomes elastic, it prevents this kind of problem in the latter days of an adult. But do be hopeful since you can regain it all back as your skin stretches again.

Sorry I’ve been sick for the past few days. I hope it will be better that’s the reason I was going for lol. Thank you so much for the detailed response! Answered all my questions yeah I figure it won’t be hard to gain back

 

[Limpy]

I waited about a month till I got back to it and I came back very easy but progressively. Time and intensity have always been my way and i've grown more greatly because of it. Don't worry about the lost size it's all part of the process.And when you're healed enough, you can get back those gains almost immediately.

A month??? I still have stitches dude you are crazy! Lmao you love the sport. Got to respect it.

 

[Limpy]

From surgery date.

Ok thank you. I see red light therapy works to help recover though?

 

[DLD]

If pumping causes skin tensioning that pulls the head down, perform SSJ and jelqs to relax the overall skin tensions. Internal expansion helps to alleviate skin tensions, while pumping maximizes skin stretching. Ease in, and don't go crazy.



Always allow at least 90 days of post-surgery before engaging PE. Commonly, 6 weeks minimum time to have 50% healing. 12 weeks are minimal for expected full healing.



Standard jelqs and light stretching is fine. Think of it as newbie stretches for the new penile conditions to readopts the PE routines ahead. Just very light basic newbie routine, between 30 to 60 minutes a day at at this point. No rigorous PE routines.



RLT is a great way to expedite healing. Combined with very light SRT routine to promote blood flow and basic skin stretching to make your penile tissues pliable. But also add in heat compresses to provide pliability and malleability. Heat compresses should be done every 5 minutes, or in between every few exercises.

Excellent post

A month??? I still have stitches dude you are crazy! Lmao you love the sport. Got to respect it.

Ohh, I thought you already got the stitchers out.Sorry for the misunderstanding

 

[oldandlively]

Ok thank you. I see red light therapy works to help recover though?

Depending on the device rating, most upper-end devices provide advanced healing compared to the lower-end weaker radiance level. The lower the light travels below the skin layers, the greater the chance the cells receive the benefits from the red light spectrum for the cellular activities.

 

[Limpy]

Excellent post

Ohh, I thought you already got the stitchers out.Sorry for the misunderstanding

No worries I’m getting worried they are taking too long to come out but they said about 2 months.

 

[Limpy]

Depending on the device rating, most upper-end devices provide advanced healing compared to the lower-end weaker radiance level. The lower the light travels below the skin layers, the greater the chance the cells receive the benefits from the red light spectrum for the cellular activities.

I have the mosred light so that’s what I’d be using. Do you think this light is high quality enough for this?

 

[galactech10]

No worries I’m getting worried they are taking too long to come out but they said about 2 months.

Oh wow I got a stapler circumcision they started coming out about 2 weeks and almost all by 4 weeks and doctor removed the rest on followup apt 1 month

 

[Limpy]

Oh wow I got a stapler circumcision they started coming out about 2 weeks and almost all by 4 weeks and doctor removed the rest on followup apt 1 month

Yeah I honestly was so nervous that they weren’t coming out at first. I got dissolvable and then some just come out fully. I saw you posted about massaging the tissue. Does that help? I try just to use paraffin gauze for part of the day and then freeball the rest of day.

 

[oldandlively]

I have the mosred light so that’s what I’d be using. Do you think this light is high quality enough for this?

Yes. It may be small, but the unit is on par with BioMax 600, but with less LEDs and less surface coverage.

 

[galactech10]

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Yeah I honestly was so nervous that they weren’t coming out at first. I got dissolvable and then some just come out fully. I saw you posted about massaging the tissue. Does that help? I try just to use paraffin gauze for part of the day and then freeball the rest of day.

I am massaging the scar but after the staples came out. im not sure what to do with stitches maybe try taking baths and soaking i did that towards the end to help the staples loosen more

 

[DLD]

If pumping causes skin tensioning that pulls the head down, perform SSJ and jelqs to relax the overall skin tensions. Internal expansion helps to alleviate skin tensions, while pumping maximizes skin stretching. Ease in, and don't go crazy.



Always allow at least 90 days of post-surgery before engaging PE. Commonly, 6 weeks minimum time to have 50% healing. 12 weeks are minimal for expected full healing.



Standard jelqs and light stretching is fine. Think of it as newbie stretches for the new penile conditions to readopts the PE routines ahead. Just very light basic newbie routine, between 30 to 60 minutes a day at at this point. No rigorous PE routines.



RLT is a great way to expedite healing. Combined with very light SRT routine to promote blood flow and basic skin stretching to make your penile tissues pliable. But also add in heat compresses to provide pliability and malleability. Heat compresses should be done every 5 minutes, or in between every few exercises.

Excellent post

A month??? I still have stitches dude you are crazy! Lmao you love the sport. Got to respect it.

Ohh, I thought you already got the stitchers out.Sorry for the misunderstanding

No worries I’m getting worried they are taking too long to come out but they said about 2 months.

Two months is not bad and i'm sure you can do some of the easier passive exercises that do not affect where your stitches are. But if I were you, I would just wait until the stitches.Come out and ease your way back in to PE. Bacitracin it's very helpful in healing much quicker. I used it when I ripped my friendlum and it was incredibly painful.I could do nothing.But I started to use that cream, or should I say ointment?I quickly recovered in a month.

 

[Limpy]

Yes. It may be small, but the unit is on par with BioMax 600, but with less LEDs and less surface coverage.

Perfect I will be using that to heal then! Thank you for the response.

 

[Limpy]

I

I am massaging the scar but after the staples came out. im not sure what to do with stitches maybe try taking baths and soaking i did that towards the end to help the staples loosen more

Sounds good I guess I’ll have to draw up a bath all this week?

 

[Limpy]

Excellent post

Ohh, I thought you already got the stitchers out.Sorry for the misunderstanding

Two months is not bad and i'm sure you can do some of the easier passive exercises that do not affect where your stitches are. But if I were you, I would just wait until the stitches.Come out and ease your way back in to PE. Bacitracin it's very helpful in healing much quicker. I used it when I ripped my friendlum and it was incredibly painful.I could do nothing.But I started to use that cream, or should I say ointment?I quickly recovered in a month.

Yeah I am currently using that but I can’t keep it on because the wrap apparently constricts blood flow

 

[oldandlively]

I am massaging the scar but after the staples came out.

No worries if the staples came out. Just make sure the sites are clean and not infected. Primary focus. You can use VitE to fast track the healing process and soften up the skin to prevent rough skin-connection healing.

im not sure what to do with stitches maybe try taking baths and soaking i did that towards the end to help the staples loosen more

Most stitches used for the penile, or any exposed skin layers, are absorbable type. They'll break on their own after around 7 to 14 days. Just remove them from your skin since some part of the thread can remain for months. Just use a twizer and gently remove the leftover segments. Again, keep the stitched sites clean, disinfected, and prevent any kind of infection. Infections will be your worst nightmare.

 

[Limpy]

No worries if the staples came out. Just make sure the sites are clean and not infected. Primary focus. You can use VitE to fast track the healing process and soften up the skin to prevent rough skin-connection healing.



Most stitches used for the penile, or any exposed skin layers, are absorbable type. They'll break on their own after around 7 to 14 days. Just remove them from your skin since some part of the thread can remain for months. Just use a twizer and gently remove the leftover segments. Again, keep the stitched sites clean, disinfected, and prevent any kind of infection. Infections will be your worst nightmare.

Thank you again for a great response. I tried to pull them out and they are thoroughly in there, it’s painful to pull. I’m going to try to keep massaging them in with bacitracin and vitamin e. Doc said it’s not an issue till after about 2 months I’m just over 7 weeks