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Not at the same time though! So I gathered through some sleuthing, IE paying closer attention to my cock (surprising as I thought I was already!) that it's not a skin irritation issue so much as a bruise. I say this because after not PEing for a bit, everything looking fine, RIGHT after I finished Jelqing \ SSJing the marks were there again; which indicated to me that it's a bruise. SOOOOOO, with that lengthy explanation said, is there anything that can be done \ advice \ etc regarding that?!

Second, thanks to more consistent kegeling, at least during my manuals, I think I'm upping my edging game, if I'm even understanding edging correctly... Long explanation short, for ten-ish minutes after my manuals, I slowly massage \ jerk myself to the PONR; the feelings augmented by my prostate control, and lots of precum as a nice result. Now maybe this is where I'm getting lost, imagine, but how close to y'all get to the PONR? And when you're doing this, are you 100 percent hard? I only ask because I back off when the prostate \ orgasmic energy gets high enough I think I might cum, and noticed I'm also not fully erect.

Then what I do when I'm ready is, I'll kegel really tight and keep jerking and get to and then over PONR, holding that kegel tight! I would say this easily extends the traditional orgasm to a strong ten-ish seconds so far. I'm also able, at least depending, to stop myself from cumming... Maybe a little precum still, but no official loads. SO, with all that said, like, is this edging? Will this help with stamina? What can I do to fix \ change \ improve things? Will we have flying cars soon?

We already have flying cars :happy-1: Yes to all you final assumptions. You will gain stamina and you will gain size. Edging is one of the best ways to control ejaculation. I have a FleshLight that feels just like the real thing, edging with it is difficult but when you master it you become the master ion the bedroom!

 

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[arkailija]

Hey there!

Orgasm and ejaculation are two different things, but we often come to the conclusion they are "the same", as usually both happen at the same time.

With that said; orgasm without ejaculation is a possibility. However, I do suggest blowing your load every now and then, so that there's no build-up which can cause "clogging."

About edging; I think even in sex your erection quality does vary a bit, so not being 100% hard is fine. I'd think if you range between 80 - 100 % you'll be alright. So, it does count as edging as long as you keep alert about your arousal and PONR.

Strong pelvic floor muscles can indeed either hold back your ejaculation or launch it to the Milky Way. :-D

Lastly, the first thing you asked, about bruising. Hirudoid Forte (Hirudin) does help with bruises. There's also Arnica ointments. Both these products should be applied only on intact skin. So as long the skin isn't broken (just a bruise), these products should be safe to use.
Internally there's Bromelain that could help a bit with bruising. A decent multivitamin is a nice booster as well.
Happy healing!

 

[DLD]

Hey there!

Orgasm and ejaculation are two different things, but we often come to the conclusion they are "the same", as usually both happen at the same time.

With that said; orgasm without ejaculation is a possibility. However, I do suggest blowing your load every now and then, so that there's no build-up which can cause "clogging."

About edging; I think even in sex your erection quality does vary a bit, so not being 100% hard is fine. I'd think if you range between 80 - 100 % you'll be alright. So, it does count as edging as long as you keep alert about your arousal and PONR.

Strong pelvic floor muscles can indeed either hold back your ejaculation or launch it to the Milky Way. :-D

Lastly, the first thing you asked, about bruising. Hirudoid Forte (Hirudin) does help with bruises. There's also Arnica ointments. Both these products should be applied only on intact skin. So as long the skin isn't broken (just a bruise), these products should be safe to use.
Internally there's Bromelain that could help a bit with bruising. A decent multivitamin is a nice booster as well.
Happy healing!

Great answer!

 

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[DLD]

has anyone actually kegeled while in someone else? I’ve read that that is quite the time for both parties, but clearly I’m not sure.[/QUOTE]

Always as it expands you penis to its maximum size.

 

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[iGrowSteady]

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I just read arkailija that the boards have been a little wonky lately, so I'll bump this thread in case someone replied but it didn't show up.

We are updating to new software over the last few days. I will try to bump all threads so they get priority again. Right after we installed this version we decided on a more stable platform. Should be up soon, in the mean time thanks for your patience!

 

[iGrowSteady]

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The towel raises are a monster workout, your floor muscles will become strong and heck. As far as pumps go I am a huge fan of the BathMate but for air pumps we carry a very nice quality and price with all needed included in kit. go to https://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html and scroll down the page you will see the MOS Mity Pump.

 

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There’s a routine in the Newbie Routine That is a really kick ass Kegels routine. Using a washcloth soaked with water is going to build those muscles very quickly using the work out I suggested.. And strengthening the pelvic floor muscles is such an important thing in PE. Having a bigger dick without the ability to hold blood will give you a very poor erection quality. Kegels are very important to erection quality and endurance building

 

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[REDZULU2003]

has anyone actually kegeled while in someone else? I’ve read that that is quite the time for both parties, but clearly I’m not sure.

We will all do that to some extent, including the women when intercourse takes place, but doing it consciously, yes I have done it on many occasions, and it feels great.

The vaginal walls would contract against the expansion, and gently massage the shaft. Your partner would usually know what was happening, because I could literally kegel out a few tunes if you know what I mean, and she would then begin her kegels.

I recall one female who clenched me so tight as I was pulling out that I couldn't pull out anymore, and as I looked at her face she smiled and said "Where you going" but nowadays I dont have sexual relationships, and haven't done so for the past 8 years - its a spiritual lifestyle choice, but I have great memories.

Recommend all to try out a kegel session while inside there partners, and let them know so you can both engage with this. Do patterns, be rhythmic with it. Build up the power and intensity, hold off ejaculation. This all works out to a form of edging, but your actually doing the sexual act with said person, and looking over your first questions on the PONR, yes you were at the right part to hold off, and in time stamina is built, but as well something psychologically must be strengthened to maintain better form in the future ... you become conditioned to last longer, but its so easy to get "greedy" and go for it before your time

And certainly ... ejaculation and orgasm always get placed together with men, many think you cant have one without the other, but its a medical fact you can, as its known as a dry orgasm, and as you have more, they become stronger in intensity to finally when you do fire it is insane ... I recall being so intense with the final orgasmic ejaculation that I would shudder, and roar out in pleasure ... incredible intensity, more if you can do it at the sametime with partner .. OMG that is spine tingling ... I had that occur on occasions and felt like passing out, its a feeling of such strong pleasure that you lose complete sense of time and where you are for what must be 30 seconds, and shes moaning in bliss, her pussy shaking around your shaft, while it twitches inside her. I spent time after then kissing her slowly and deeply, while looking at her ... built up immense connection.

Now I connect to the Universe

 

[DLD]

Excellent response and you seriously blew my mind

 

[iGrowSteady]

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Wait, what? First, that's a thing?

????

 

[REDZULU2003]

Excellent response and you seriously blew my mind

Dont trust him

 

[DLD]

Has this issue cleared up for you?

 

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[DLD]

@REDZULU2003 - But it's like, could you friggin imagine?! Would love to see if she could do that with my tongue!

@doublelongdaddy - Yes it has, it's not even that noticeable when I do manuals \ use the X30... (Though clearly I still have issues here and there.) At least to me, to someone else who isn't use to a guy's glans looking like that, well I'll have to have a good reason lined up; whether it's a lie or the truth! I remember when I first posted about this a bit back, or somewhere in between, someone said something about alligator skin... Well he ain't lyin!

Good to hear that it’s cleared up.