Newbie wanting muchos advice

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DownNDirty

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Hi Guys, hope your all well.
I’m Dan, 39 and currently 7 3/4” x 6 1/4”
I stumbled across this site and thought it would teach me what I need to know about enlargement etc.
I have a few issues I’d like help with:
3 years ago I suffered a back injury resulting in a herniated disk as was almost house bound for 2 years resulting in not getting intimat with my wife. I’m now 90% healed and still haven’t slept with my wife 3 yrs on, my erections are rare, weak and go at unwanted times, I know it affects her but we’re still strong and I need to get back to my younger self.
I’ve always suffered with losing some erection mid intercourse, could be down to the beta blockers I’m on for blood pressure.

Any info on sorting my erections and getting strong erections that last would be awesome, I’m currently 28stone and 6’ 7” tall so over weight, going to gym daily and eating well so maybe that will help a sniff.

The next thing.
Started with my 100 jelqs a day and after first 100 I’m noticing purpling round base of head.
Am I doing to to hard ? How hard should I squeeze ?

Please help guys.
I’d love to be able to get an erection as and when I need to, have mates who sleep about and I always think, how do they do it, just getting hard like that but then again I’m really shy so wouldn’t be able to with people I don’t know anyway.

Anyway any help I’d appreciate guys
 
Glad you are here and hopefully, we all can help.

I'm married and I hope to be an encouragement to you.

First...What stood out to me was when you stated that it has been 3 years without sex with your wife...Have you ever tried mutual masturbation or oral sex to give her satisfaction at all? Anything at all to keep your connection?
 
To be honest we haven’t, we’ve never been adventurous or been that confident, we’re both large people so that’s maybe why. I think if there’s things I can do to get my erections back strong and I’ve read there’s things you can do to get closer to getting one as and when, just need good advice and I know it’s here ...

Thanks for your reply mate
 
DownNDirty said:
To be honest we haven’t, we’ve never been adventurous or been that confident, we’re both large people so that’s maybe why. I think if there’s things I can do to get my erections back strong and I’ve read there’s things you can do to get closer to getting one as and when, just need good advice and I know it’s here ...

Thanks for your reply mate
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Thanks for your honesty. I wouldn't let size be a factor. There is a wonderful world of sex toys that can help keep you two intimate and if you work on oral sex skills, you can take her to the moon.

Let me know if you need resources. I can help. :)
 
Haursen said:
Thanks for your honesty. I wouldn't let size be a factor. There is a wonderful world of sex toys that can help keep you two intimate and if you work on oral sex skills, you can take her to the moon.

Let me know if you need resources. I can help. :)
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Yeah I know but really want to get myself back up and running, I’m sure it’s because it’s been out of use so long and needs a kick start, I’ve read threads about pumps improving erection quality.
I have my heart set on sorting my erection issues and then just surprising her.
Plus since I’ve been ill she has put a lot of weight on and unsure she wants to get intimate while she’s like this, she has started to do thing about it like I have so want to be ready when she is if u get me.
 
Welcome DND, glad you are here and posting questions.

I think you and the wifey are more normal then not but Haursen is giving you some great topics that you may want to discuss with the wifey.
At I minimum, I would highly encourage you to schedule some make out time together. If, if that is uncomfortable then bare minimum, starting now, make sure she gets at least one very passionate kiss from you a day.
You will be surprised what a difference something so minor can be.

As for your question, I know it is cliche’ but we all react so differently to PE.
If you start with Step 1 on the Newbie program you most likely will see positive EQ results.
This would be the safe recommendation....

My none safe recommendation would be slightly altered for your specific request,
I would recommend getting a Mitivac or a similar high quality pump with a gage and:
3x a week
50 Kegels
Then pump to -4”Hg for 10 min with a heat pad wrapped around the cylinder
Followed by 50 jelqs, 50% erections and medium/firm grip-not a full sqeeze

As you get used to this and start seeing positive results (start noticing morning wood etc.) I would then add a second set of the same.

The one other point I will mention is while doing this, know and expect positive results.

That would be my $0.02 and I am sure to follow will be some other vets with great advice, like I said, we all really do react differently to PE.

Good luck and welcome to MoS!
 
DownNDirty said:
Yeah I know but really want to get myself back up and running, I’m sure it’s because it’s been out of use so long and needs a kick start, I’ve read threads about pumps improving erection quality.
I have my heart set on sorting my erection issues and then just surprising her.
Plus since I’ve been ill she has put a lot of weight on and unsure she wants to get intimate while she’s like this, she has started to do thing about it like I have so want to be ready when she is if u get me.
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That’s pretty cool do you think about it you preparing for her and she’s preparing for you that’s love! The pump is a great thing to help with each year especially when you use it in the spirit of SRT using the 5×5×3. We have just released the best pump on the market which is a dual Hydro/air pump. It is very reasonably price and will bring size so much quicker. Check out the MityVac below:

 
Mike03016 said:
Welcome DND, glad you are here and posting questions.

I think you and the wifey are more normal then not but Haursen is giving you some great topics that you may want to discuss with the wifey.
At I minimum, I would highly encourage you to schedule some make out time together. If, if that is uncomfortable then bare minimum, starting now, make sure she gets at least one very passionate kiss from you a day.
You will be surprised what a difference something so minor can be.

As for your question, I know it is cliche’ but we all react so differently to PE.
If you start with Step 1 on the Newbie program you most likely will see positive EQ results.
This would be the safe recommendation....

My none safe recommendation would be slightly altered for your specific request,
I would recommend getting a Mitivac or a similar high quality pump with a gage and:
3x a week
50 Kegels
Then pump to -4”Hg for 10 min with a heat pad wrapped around the cylinder
Followed by 50 jelqs, 50% erections and medium/firm grip-not a full sqeeze

As you get used to this and start seeing positive results (start noticing morning wood etc.) I would then add a second set of the same.

The one other point I will mention is while doing this, know and expect positive results.

That would be my $0.02 and I am sure to follow will be some other vets with great advice, like I said, we all really do react differently to PE.

Good luck and welcome to MoS!
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Thankyou so much for your advise.

DLD said:
That’s pretty cool do you think about it you preparing for her and she’s preparing for you that’s love! The pump is a great thing to help with each year especially when you use it in the spirit of SRT using the 5×5×3. We have just released the best pump on the market which is a dual Hydro/air pump. It is very reasonably price and will bring size so much quicker. Check out the MityVac below:

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Do you ship to UK ?? and how much is shipping pal
 
Mike03016 said:
Welcome DND, glad you are here and posting questions.

I think you and the wifey are more normal then not but Haursen is giving you some great topics that you may want to discuss with the wifey.
At I minimum, I would highly encourage you to schedule some make out time together. If, if that is uncomfortable then bare minimum, starting now, make sure she gets at least one very passionate kiss from you a day.
You will be surprised what a difference something so minor can be.
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^^^ This...

Even doing massages for her (sensual or non-sensual) can help with the connection.
 
DownNDirty said:
Do you ship to UK ?? and how much is shipping pal
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Yup, MoS Shop does ship to many countries. It's best to just fill the cart and check which rates you get.
There's a chat function as well if you need assistance.

You have received very good tips already, I don't have much to add, not in sense of relationship tips anyway.
With PE you want to start relatively slow and easy, build up the force as time goes by. Changes in our bodies or minds don't often happen overnight, it takes time and patience.
Three D's for a bigger dick (and life as well), Determination, discipline and dedication. (Shout out to @Big Schwanz Acht ! :) )

Read on the newbie routine and SRT if you haven't already. Be sure to implement Kegels to your routines.
I wish you the best of gains and good recovery!
 
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