I need to improve my dating life!

Google the book of pook.

Its freeware. So you can find it very easy. It will give you the basic understanding of dating. Flirting and girls in general :)
 
There's a lot of info out there, but you're best bet, especially if you're unattractive, is to pretend you're rich (and say you're a doctor if you think you can pull it off). Fill your wallet with hundred dollar bills (even if you have to empty your savings account). Get expensive clothes, expensive wallet, expensive shoes, expensive phone, expensive sunglasses. Don't worry about wearing a watch. No one does anymore. Also, even if you have a shit car, carry around BMW keys or Mercedes keys (or key fob as that's what new ones use). Ask a girl on a date, and while on the date, make sure that she sees the wad of 100s and the keys. She will be so turned on from the thought of all that money she won't be able to stop herself from jumping on your dick :)
 
Aimingforthetop;651600 said:
Google the book of pook.

Its freeware. So you can find it very easy. It will give you the basic understanding of dating. Flirting and girls in general :)

I am on this! Thanks Brother!
 
ShadedSam;651622 said:
There's a lot of info out there, but you're best bet, especially if you're unattractive, is to pretend you're rich (and say you're a doctor if you think you can pull it off). Fill your wallet with hundred dollar bills (even if you have to empty your savings account). Get expensive clothes, expensive wallet, expensive shoes, expensive phone, expensive sunglasses. Don't worry about wearing a watch. No one does anymore. Also, even if you have a shit car, carry around BMW keys or Mercedes keys (or key fob as that's what new ones use). Ask a girl on a date, and while on the date, make sure that she sees the wad of 100s and the keys. She will be so turned on from the thought of all that money she won't be able to stop herself from jumping on your dick :)


Im sorry but this is the typical new age male thinking.

Trying to fill out an unnatural believe about woman. Ye there is gold diggers. But they know that giving pussy isnt going to give them the wedding ring. However teasing you with the pussy. Ohh boy.

Now dont get me wrong im not rich rich.

I do however make 3 times more than pretty much all my friends do.

And i never tell a girl about it.

What do women like?

Men.

What is man?

Strenght. Confidence. Adventure.
Artist. Protector.

Basicly all the good values.

If you want to up your game. Start by reading the book i linked you. It is my favorit book. I read it to my ex girlfriend who was a sex therapist and she agreed this was a most read for all men.

Not only is it so well written and funny.

When you read it it just makes fucking sense.

But you think the money is gonna get you laid?

You will get married. So she can have half. And then she will fuck the handsome gartner!

You can get a marriage based on money. But you will never tame the feminine energy of her just by dough!

That will always look for male energi. And either she finds it somewhere else or she will shut down. Get depressed etc.
 
doublelongdaddy;651833 said:
Just downloaded it!

Cheers. Enjoy! It is so well written and funny. It is one of my all time favorit books read it 7 times. Still read it occationally. As it just gives me the laughs.
 
Sorry playboi, but shadedsam has the better attitude. Vampirism tactics! If not SCREWDRIVER TACTICS!
 
Aimingforthetop;651872 said:
Im sorry but this is the typical new age male thinking.

Trying to fill out an unnatural believe about woman. Ye there is gold diggers. But they know that giving pussy isnt going to give them the wedding ring. However teasing you with the pussy. Ohh boy.

Now dont get me wrong im not rich rich.

I do however make 3 times more than pretty much all my friends do.

And i never tell a girl about it.

What do women like?

Men.

What is man?

Strenght. Confidence. Adventure.
Artist. Protector.

Basicly all the good values.

If you want to up your game. Start by reading the book i linked you. It is my favorit book. I read it to my ex girlfriend who was a sex therapist and she agreed this was a most read for all men.

Not only is it so well written and funny.

When you read it it just makes fucking sense.

But you think the money is gonna get you laid?

You will get married. So she can have half. And then she will fuck the handsome gartner!

You can get a marriage based on money. But you will never tame the feminine energy of her just by dough!

That will always look for male energi. And either she finds it somewhere else or she will shut down. Get depressed etc.

He already is strength, confidence, adventure as can be seen by him saying I want to fuck a bunch of hot women. Now he just needs to be rich or attractive. Sure you can focus on being more masculine, but that's a lot more difficult than just pretending you're rich.
 
The Book of Pook is worth the read, I suggest men seek it out on Google and read through it.
 
ShadedSam;652108 said:
He already is strength, confidence, adventure as can be seen by him saying I want to fuck a bunch of hot women. Now he just needs to be rich or attractive. Sure you can focus on being more masculine, but that's a lot more difficult than just pretending you're rich.

and what does it do to a mans self worth when he convinces himself that he needs to lie to date women?

and what will his attitude towards women in general be. when he gets knocked into his head with 7 inch nails that woman only will date him when he pretends to have money?

im not saying my method is the easiest one. but it is the one that works best. and the one that will take him above this stuff.

which is reallly not healthy
 
Aimingforthetop;652393 said:
and what does it do to a mans self worth when he convinces himself that he needs to lie to date women?

When I was younger I used to do this all the time, lie after lie just to get them in bed. I feel terrible today about that. I would never misrepresent myself ever again, I am what I am like it or not.
 
One personal trick I have used since high school is have an atom of mystery about you. That stuff is like magnet and it NEVER gets old.
Girls love what they don't understand. They find mysterious guys intriguing, its like a puzzle they must crack! Just don't over do it, or you might look like a weirdo.
Be neat, well dressed, composed and the single most important thing NEVER pay any girl too much attention, A simple straight faced hello is more than enough.
She'd be mad at first at how everyone is falling head over heels for her, and yet you ignore her. And later she'd try to get closer and find out more about you.
Not a cool thing but I fucked 3 HOT interns (friends) at work using this one simple trick. Not too far out of their age group too so that helped :cool:
 
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johnny-wang;654045 said:
One personal trick I have used since high school is have an atom of mystery about you. That stuff is like magnet and it NEVER gets old.
Girls love what they don't understand. They find mysterious guys intriguing, its like a puzzle they must crack! Just don't over do it, or you might look like a weirdo.
Be neat, well dressed, composed and the single most important thing NEVER pay any girl too much attention, A simple straight faced hello is more than enough.
She'd be mad at first at how everyone is falling head over heels for her, and yet you ignore her. And later she'd try to get closer and find out more about you.
Not a cool thing but I fucked 3 HOT interns (friends) at work using this one simple trick. Not too far out of their age group too so that helped :cool:

Excellent advice, something I used to do years ago but forgot about. Thanks for the reminder!
 
Your method is to pretend to be someone you're not. Mine is to pretend to have something you don't. Not saying one is better than the other, but one definitely isn't more "moral". All women will pretend to be something they're not to make people like them, and they are proud of it, so you shouldn't feel guilty about doing the same thing.
 
You're on point shadedsam fucktheworld is what I always say. At the end of the day they don't owe me anything, and neither I so fuck em. We are all sinners and fall short of his glory.

@johnny-Wang I discovered that technique by accident it works on lots of females bro its like they want that they can't have (its the same with me too), I used to pay little mind to girls I thought were never going to look at me. Now I do that with everyone, and it works quite nicely.
 
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IDN, I would just tell the truth. But I am not looking for a one night stand, I am looking for wifey material.
 
ShadedSam;654130 said:
Your method is to pretend to be someone you're not. Mine is to pretend to have something you don't. Not saying one is better than the other, but one definitely isn't more "moral". All women will pretend to be something they're not to make people like them, and they are proud of it, so you shouldn't feel guilty about doing the same thing.


man your mind is tangled up in some serious negative beliefs about the world. i hope you find hope and happiness. i think you need it (no homo)

and i don't tell people to be something they are not. im telling them to move out of their shell and try and do their best.

person is not defined on his beliefs but on his actions. by changing his actions he is changing who he will become. basicly he is taking charge of his own life.

but ye i guess i see the world in another light. i don't see pussy as an archivement that has to be conquered.

i just fucking love to have sex. and im completely calm and down to earth about it.

when you need to lie to yourself to get pussy. man fuck that. it is some messed up shit.

that you can even argue for this idea is some messed up shit right there. and it will always give a backlash eventually.

most guys now a days just need a little push. that 1 inch of confidence to go up and say hi to a girl.

as they do that they get in conversations with girls and realize that women are actually kind of cool.

and they actually become cooler with age.

at 35 alot of the women are divorced and not ready for another marriage. so they just wanna fool a little around while they are single.

you can get so much pussy but you just need to get your head out of the bush.

besides most of the chicks that i have sex with is rarely a 1 time deal. we meet up a few times after that and have sex once in a while.

i mean you can't do that when you try to convince them that you got a porche in the driveway
 
doublelongdaddy;654239 said:
IDN, I would just tell the truth. But I am not looking for a one night stand, I am looking for wifey material.

Good for you mike, I also want to be married like KINGOFGIRTH:O. Honesty is really the only way to find the woman of your dreams, because you will find out if she's the one.
 
@aimingfor the top, bro I wish you wouldn't talk about my friend that way(calling him hopeless, and unhappy) the truth is that the world isn't all sunshine and rainbows like some people fantasize. Maybe you're life is made from caramel, but you don't know what others have been through to generalize like that.
 
templnite;654299 said:
Good for you mike, I also want to be married like KINGOFGIRTH:O. Honesty is really the only way to find the woman of your dreams, because you will find out if she's the one.

I know but I can't wait, I miss intimacy so much. Sex I miss too, but it is the LOVE that I miss the most.
 
templnite;654316 said:
@aimingfor the top, bro I wish you wouldn't talk about my friend that way(calling him hopeless, and unhappy) the truth is that the world isn't all sunshine and rainbows like some people fantasize. Maybe you're life is made from caramel, but you don't know what others have been through to generalize like that.


no my life is not made of caramel. and im not trying to trash talk your friend. im trying to push his beliefs in a healthy directions.

i sincerely believe that what he is doing is so bad about yourself.

mate. he is talking about lying simply to meet the opposite sex.

just think about what that does to your own self worth?

no hard feelings against your friend or anything. i really hope for the best for him. and if what i said was understood as a direct attack on him and not his concepts im sorry. nothing personal.

however!
you will never hear me tell you something is nice when i believe the opposite. i respect different opinions. but this.

we had a guy here on the forum. who confessed he had used other guys pictures on the net. it's the same concept.

lying about yourself man. that is just sad.
try and be honest and see what happens
 
Proverbs 15:17
Better a small serving of vegetables with love than a fattened calf with hatred.

I'm glad you want to encourage more positive values, but the way to do it is with lots of love:)
 
templnite;654422 said:
Proverbs 15:17
Better a small serving of vegetables with love than a fattened calf with hatred.

I'm glad you want to encourage more positive values, but the way to do it is with lots of love:)

So true and beautiful!
 
ShadedSam;652108 said:
He already is strength, confidence, adventure as can be seen by him saying I want to fuck a bunch of hot women. Now he just needs to be rich or attractive. Sure you can focus on being more masculine, but that's a lot more difficult than just pretending you're rich.

I agree with having a wallet full of cash (even if it's all the money you own lol) because when women see you pull out alot of cash to pay for something it triggers their security emotion. Money is security.

Confidence is king but along with confidence, it helps to have cash baby!

For anyone lacking confidence (like I used to) here is a lesson. My buddy is UGLY ... he is 58 and tells bitches he's 42. He dresses nice, always has cash and is the most confident dude I have ever met but he is ugly and he has no build at all. He hits on the hottest women and he is relentless and he doesn't give a shit how many times he gets shot down. He doesn't give a shit what anyone thinks especially some cunt who has nothing to offer but her pussy ... and that's how you have to look at it .. YOU are superior to women ... never put women or pussy on a pedestal.

Following his example, I have more hot women after me than ever ... from 21 years old up to 50 years old. I'm 46 years old and I'm only 5'6" though I am good looking and in shape. I never had this kind of pussy after me until I saw my friend in action and said "fuck it .. I'm taking what I wan"t. I used to be very introverted but when you don't give a shit and make it nothing but a game, you can become more aggressive and make it fun.

For all you younger guys out there, get out there and be aggressive ... don't waste your young years! I wish I had learned this shit 20 years ago. Don't waste it ... time flies by!!!!!!!

YOU are the one with the cock .... all the bitch has is a hole ... YOU have the appendage hanging between your legs. Don't let society try to spin shit around that the woman has the power ... that is BULLSHIT!
 
Absolutely agree women are defective, and misbegotten. I PE for myself mainly brahs because one day I'm gonna have a wife that actually loves me XD, and I want to take care of her. That's what the male does he takes care of shit.
 
templnite;662613 said:
Absolutely agree women are defective, and misbegotten. I PE for myself mainly brahs because one day I'm gonna have a wife that actually loves me XD, and I want to take care of her. That's what the male does he takes care of shit.

Good man right here^^^^^
 
Tearitup;662612 said:
I agree with having a wallet full of cash (even if it's all the money you own lol) because when women see you pull out alot of cash to pay for something it triggers their security emotion. Money is security.

Confidence is king but along with confidence, it helps to have cash baby!

For anyone lacking confidence (like I used to) here is a lesson. My buddy is UGLY ... he is 58 and tells bitches he's 42. He dresses nice, always has cash and is the most confident dude I have ever met but he is ugly and he has no build at all. He hits on the hottest women and he is relentless and he doesn't give a shit how many times he gets shot down. He doesn't give a shit what anyone thinks especially some cunt who has nothing to offer but her pussy ... and that's how you have to look at it .. YOU are superior to women ... never put women or pussy on a pedestal.

Following his example, I have more hot women after me than ever ... from 21 years old up to 50 years old. I'm 46 years old and I'm only 5'6" though I am good looking and in shape. I never had this kind of pussy after me until I saw my friend in action and said "fuck it .. I'm taking what I wan"t. I used to be very introverted but when you don't give a shit and make it nothing but a game, you can become more aggressive and make it fun.

For all you younger guys out there, get out there and be aggressive ... don't waste your young years! I wish I had learned this shit 20 years ago. Don't waste it ... time flies by!!!!!!!

YOU are the one with the cock .... all the bitch has is a hole ... YOU have the appendage hanging between your legs. Don't let society try to spin shit around that the woman has the power ... that is BULLSHIT!

:cool: Wisest words ever
 
Tearitup;662612 said:
I agree with having a wallet full of cash (even if it's all the money you own lol) because when women see you pull out alot of cash to pay for something it triggers their security emotion. Money is security.

Confidence is king but along with confidence, it helps to have cash baby!

For anyone lacking confidence (like I used to) here is a lesson. My buddy is UGLY ... he is 58 and tells bitches he's 42. He dresses nice, always has cash and is the most confident dude I have ever met but he is ugly and he has no build at all. He hits on the hottest women and he is relentless and he doesn't give a shit how many times he gets shot down. He doesn't give a shit what anyone thinks especially some cunt who has nothing to offer but her pussy ... and that's how you have to look at it .. YOU are superior to women ... never put women or pussy on a pedestal.

Following his example, I have more hot women after me than ever ... from 21 years old up to 50 years old. I'm 46 years old and I'm only 5'6" though I am good looking and in shape. I never had this kind of pussy after me until I saw my friend in action and said "fuck it .. I'm taking what I wan"t. I used to be very introverted but when you don't give a shit and make it nothing but a game, you can become more aggressive and make it fun.

For all you younger guys out there, get out there and be aggressive ... don't waste your young years! I wish I had learned this shit 20 years ago. Don't waste it ... time flies by!!!!!!!

YOU are the one with the cock .... all the bitch has is a hole ... YOU have the appendage hanging between your legs. Don't let society try to spin shit around that the woman has the power ... that is BULLSHIT!

Good advice.
 
Good advice! I am still not ready for a girl though, soon. Once I reach 180 I am off on the hunt, I am too heavy right now to feel confidence in that way.
 
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