Hey guys im back if you remember me and i need some advice.

[Chris23]

I havent did much lately but worked and havent really gone out or anything because i never feel like going out and i usely look down on myself.I been out a few times but i hardly never get any girls trying to talk to me or anything.Also i think i have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and i never thought nothing about it untill i saw it on tv and i was like i do the same stuff but i havent went to the docter about it and im not.I just know i sometimes do stuff more than one time because i think if i dont something will happen or if i dont do it it will bug me and stress me out untill i do do it.I usely get depressed easy to so that doesnt help.I was wondering if you guys would help me with some stuff on how to dress right and stuff becuase im not that good with picking out cloths and stuff and im going out of town in spring.Here is a pic of me but its not that good because my eyes look wicked because the cam my friend had made me have red eye.Im the guy in the white shirt.
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[Shithead]

first off, i can almost guarantee you that you don't have obsesive compulsive disorder. i've studied psychology for a fair while now and i've seen hundreds of people who think they have obsesive compulsive disorder when all they really have is habits.

umm, as for clothes, i don't really know much about that, pretty much if the clothes look pretty new then they look good on ya. i swear, its weird with me coz everytime i buy a new t-shirt i seem to pick up, but after the 2nd or 3rd wear, its lost its mojo.

pickin up chicks... im not an expert at it, but the main thing is confidence, which is shit coz its the hardest thing to get.

 

[pullups]

Ayt man a couple things. I'm majoring in Psychology so i might be able to help a little bit. First with the obsessive complusive disorder...it's own a disorder if it interfers with your life for example becasue of your alleged obsessive compulsive disorder you keeping checking to see if you locked your door and as a result ur late for work and you get fired or something, etc. so basically once it interfers with your life substantially then you have a problem. Now on to the serious part, the women. Now I would say I am hardly a expert but i'll tell you what little i know . Cologne and aftershave seem to help alot, i would suggest Polo Sport or Aqua de Gio or something like that, smell is the longest sense tied to memory so its important. Secondly, get a good pair of shoes. Shoes are important for some reason girls love a guy with shoes. As for the clothes, shit I dunno, having your clothes match seems to be big but other then that just dont always wear like sweat pants and shit and try to shave often. As for picking up girls its gets a little tricky but hes right confidence is key and my buddy told me about this 3 second rule. You should go up to the girl and say something anything within 3 seconds just to start a conversation. And Finally, about the depression thing. That could just be all cognitive. You probably think depressing things and thats making you depressed. So basically if you just feel better about yourself and you start telling yourself good things then i think you'll feel better. Well thats all man, I am by far no expert I am just trying to lend a helping hand remeber be confident and think positively pece

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[Chris23]

Thanks im really glad yall try to help.I have did that before about locking the door but this stuff comes and goes like one min thats all im doing and i to do stuff so many times etc then if im not thinking about it it dont do the stuff so its weird.What shoes do you think are good.I saw these phatfarms that i thought about getting and they was all white.Can anyone move this into the dateing section because i think its better off in there.

 

[Chris23]

Come on guys give me some ideas.

 

[pullups]

yo man basically any new shoe will do. Timberlands seem to be ayt, dada's are fine but they gotta be black or white and not like a basketball sneaker. Phat Farm is fine too. Listen man your worrying to much, and remeber your gonna have to apporach them and if they tell you to F off then screw em theres buncha other girls out there

Im2manly