case study extremely big problem. HELP SOMEBODY PLEASE....

somehow ive ended here after battling this injury for al most 6 months. im in my 40's . i had jelqed off and on and pumped for a month or 2. nothing serious. felt better, and hung better it seemed. no real serious gains expected. just wanted better bloodflow and quality.

one day, i jelqed a bit harder than i had been, but no pain, and jsut for a minute. next day i pumped and accidentally went more than i wanted. no pain. immediately released and red along the base of the shaft. within the day it was gone. several days later i woke up with a shrunken unit and slight numbess on the shaft. had all hard flaccid symptoms.

was scared, so continued making my self have sex,. after a month or so, it seemed it was subsiding. i still woke up in the morning with a chub. but everything shrank to nothing during the day.then it started seeming like if we had sex more than once a week, it would traumatize everything and destroy my libido and size again.

very sensitive glans with burning /cooling feeling. shrunk all day. no erections. no night erections. then it would come back a week later with her, and we'd have sex again. eventually i figured out we had to quit for awhile. 6 months later, here i am. we just went a month of nothing. i still walk around all day shrunk to nothing. we had sex 2 days ago and it was great, but now it seems to be overly sensitive again. only time i hang normally , is if i lay down in bed awhile. but soon after i get up, its all gone again.

sensitivity/nerve damage, seems likely, but not sure. nothing feels like me down there unless im hard. it doesnt seem like i did anything too hard/painful to cause this, but i obviously did. not sure if this will heal ever, but i cant take any more panic attacks and anxiety. its hard to make it to bedtime every day. its the only relief i get.

it feels like i have half what i did on a normal day now, with no arousal. ive also noticed a constant pressure moreso while shrunken, in my rectum /perenium area,that tightens when i flex my penis. i get decent morning/night erections sometimes, and sometimes not as much. but im sure my anxiety day to day is effecting that . i cannot masturbate to get hard since the 2nd month of this, due to it irritating the nerves it seems on the head. actual sex doesnt irritate it as much, but it still does.

i always have the numbness/sensitivity issue to some degree, but its super bad when its shriveled up and burns. im just not sure the nerves will heal, and i dont know what to do now. im mentally exhausted and depressed. i can barely force myself to work or do anything that involves moving. it lets me know every step of every day what ive lost.
 
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My brother you have tapped into incredible support. As I said remain positive and consistent and we WILL figure this out.
 
im trying. this is so complicated to even try to understand to fix . it works. yet is completely crap. woke up last night feeling my erection. i flexed it against the covers. never really felt it until i actually touched it . then noticed my glans did not respond to kegels at all again. full erection otherwise. glans wasnt empty or anything. just didnt move whatsoever. next time i woke, i had another one. this time it swelled up like it should when flexed. i dont know. this keeps happening ever so often
 
Your body is a blessed and complex organic machinery. If we can understand it all, we wouldn't be asking professionals to perform expensive search and repair processes. We can just jump into a healing capsule and voi la, total healing. But we are not there yet.
 
notmeanymore said:
woke up last night feeling my erection. i flexed it against the covers. never really felt it until i actually touched it . then noticed my glans did not respond to kegels at all again. full erection otherwise. glans wasnt empty or anything.
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This is an indicator there's something or somekind of blockage. When your body is naturally laying flat, blood pressure normalizes across the body. Same with testosterone loading. It elevates and maximizes to the point where your body optimizes for a good erection. During the day, your blood pressures are all over the place. Whatever is near the pelvic region causing the symptoms, it's there, hiding. This is what you're feeling.

notmeanymore said:
just didnt move whatsoever. next time i woke, i had another one. this time it swelled up like it should when flexed. i dont know. this keeps happening ever so often
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Exactly just that. The symptoms are manifesting, but the source of the issues is hidden far deep inside. You can feel it at the pelvic floor. You can sense it's there. You can't get to it just yet. Now, we have to rule out one thing at a time. Be diligent and perform the various approaches we discussed previously.
 
i have no clue what to approach. it feels so wrong all day long. im afraid its just how it is even though i cant give up. i hate to say it, but the weird blocked feeling i get when i kegel sitting down feels good to me now cause its been this way so long. and it feels better than any other time, since its at least a feeling. sigh
 
This is where the mixed signal tends to be. For example, earlier in the week, or rather, two weeks ago, there's a feeling of pain sitting down. In the recent days, you indicated there's a "feels good" sensation while doing light kegel sitting down. This is where the true investigation approaches come into play. Doctors cannot help you on this as it's your own body that you have to make observation notes on:
  • Kegel: When you perform kegels, what kind of kegels? Active kegels by tightening up the pelvic floor, reverse kegels where you push against the pelvic floor as if you're taking a dump, or a combo of both active and reverse kegels? Frequency of the kegels, such as how fast you change from one to the other, or kegel sets in between a certain amount of rest?
  • Rest phases comparing to lack of rest phases: this has been discussed about in may posts, but rest is critical. It's essential. How much rest do you have? When did you notice the erection vs non-erectile period after a certain amount of rest? What's the quality of the rest? Detail logs like brother Haursen create a trend analytic you can get your teeth behind to mull over the info.
  • Emotion and psychological trend: as DLD and other brothers indicated, metal stability is the vast majority of PE, or rather a major role in your life in various areas. What was the influence of emotional and psychological issues in the prior day(s) that cause your erection quality to drop or rise during the night/early morning hours?
  • Blockage: you keep using the word and we echo it back to you. But, where is the feeling of the blockage. Don't guess. Trace it, or them, to the closest area of blockage(s). Without knowing where the blockage occur, it's like tossing a rock into a large lake it pray that it hits a fish on the way to the bottom. Don't play guess work, focus on tracing it/them. If the medical professionals know where to investigate, you are one step closer to finding the source(s) to deal with them directly and get rid of the symptoms.
  • Routines: you indicated you do kegel. But what about other routines? Example is prostate massage. Yes, straight guys don't do this, but do you know that we suffer a hidden ailment that could have been prevented? Do I do them? You bet. I started when I was in my mid 30s. How often? Every other day. Using what? Battery operated tools, manual tool, and even bare hands. It doesn't take long. If you can masterbate in a 5 to 15 minutes session, you can perform prostate massage within that time to achieve the same masturbation result, and at times, much more intense outcome. But what other routines are you doing or are you just sitting around and complain to increase your woes?
  • Medication? Supplements? Lifestyle changes? If you just hope and hope and hope and pray, you're not doing your part to heal. Prayers and hopefulness provide one level of healing. It requires you to be proactive in both pursuing the healing and discovering the sources of the problem.
 
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no, no. lol. its a light pain. i just mean im getting so used to it . it doesnt feel good. its just that its an actual feeling response to a kegel. its the only time i can feel an actual feeling.
i dont do kegels per se. i just do them all throughout the day peridoically just cause i cant help it cause something is wrong. lol

i get plenty of rest. its my new passtime. 8-10hrs a day

emotional hasnt seemed to effect night erections. even my worst emotional days made good nights somehow

Blockage feels like its in my Butthole and up to my penis . or tightness rather

i have done a few prostate massages with therawand with no differences. massaged everything in there actually
ive tried various vitamins, supplements, etc. all seems like snake oil. lifestyle is as clean as i can get. gluten free, water,juice only. zero caffeine. low sugar, zero alcohol,or smoking, drugs, etc ,etc
 
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and ive most likely discussed this previously. if i indeed messed nerves up like i feel like i did, could i have went 6 weeks or more without having any numness or loss of feeling? cause that is how it went. i just noticed i was smaller initially, and didnt have any arousal. nor could i kegel and get a mental erection. id still get hard with foreplay, and manually. and super hard at night. it was after that, i started getting sensitive, etc.which pregressively went to numbness, etc
 
this week has been weird and some days i wish it would just kill me already. ive layed back and relaxed a lot. i got a little different feeling from it after getting up and walking. i really feel almost nothing. it feels like my dick is wet with a fan on it almost. yet not sensitive or burning. its not a great feeling , i dont have much of those any more. but its not burning ...yet when its like this, the glans tends to want to stick to my leg . yesterday was pure hell with shrinkage and numbness. I got off this morning cause i was so stressed, and nothing feels like it matters . it felt so good, yet im feeling so rough from it now. my package felt decent for all of 30 min afterwards. then it all shrinks up to this new size i seem to have forever. my glans doesnt feel that bad if i touch it through clothes,. yet it feels nonexistant yet really tender and burny in clothes sitting still or walking. i used to hang aroused and fat several months ago off and on. around 5.5 and it felt great. im lucky to have 3.5-4 now, and super thin. even hourglassed at times. and glans feels dead to go with it.


im so angry i followed a tutorial on how to kill my self in 3 minutes or less. i dont think this can ever go away. i probably sound like a broken record, but this has destroyed my brain on how to even think anything through anymore. it really seems like my glans has gotten a more dead rubbery feel to it the last month or so. which cant be good. for a long time ,its lacked light feeling, and a showerhead doesnt feel totally right on it.
the thing is though.

id be ok with those feelings if i had a drive,size or Any kegel response other than when im half asleep. half the night last night i had a good chub, and it really felt relatively decent all around. i guess whatever feeling that got killed has destroyed my physical sex drive parts. the size ive lost most of the day is unreal. and there are zero moments i get any size increase unless i try to make it happen
 
notmeanymore said:
this week has been weird and some days i wish it would just kill me already. ive layed back and relaxed a lot. i got a little different feeling from it after getting up and walking. i really feel almost nothing. it feels like my dick is wet with a fan on it almost.
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This is something new. Okay, got to gain some clarification. When you feel the "dick is wet with a fan on it", does it means feeling clammy and cool like you sweat a lot and have an evaporative cooling effect? Or it's dry but having that cool feeling like a wet penis being blown by wind?

This is a lack of blood flow, regardless of how you put it. But the clamminess/wetness will be something to evaluate. If it's dry, then it's nothing out of the ordinary comparing to the lack of blood flow.

notmeanymore said:
yet not sensitive or burning. its not a great feeling , i dont have much of those any more. but its not burning ...yet when its like this, the glans tends to want to stick to my leg .
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Sticking to your legs is another flag. Does the penis feel sticky and wet, or does your crotch feels sticky and wet? This is something you want to define properly. Why? Two different symptoms aside from penile issues are manifesting.

notmeanymore said:
yesterday was pure hell with shrinkage and numbness.
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Shrinkage and numbess are symptoms not born out of nerves, but it's actually caused by frictious pain. Your nerve is not the culprit causing the shrinkage, but we finally figured out something else at 90%. Our brother @TCDreamer brought up in the recent days. Hard Flaccid Syndrome (HFS) covered the exact same manifestation we're reading from your reports. We're all pounding our heads, and check the boxes and scribbling our interactive doodle pads to see where you're leading us. Those doodle pads look like bad plates of sphagetti.

HFS can come out of the blue. It's not due to PE. It's a manifestation that we have yet to trace and track down on. It can be as simple as odd interactive diet, aging, bad physiological conditions, or exposed to a cocktail of manmade chemicals. More and more males and females are coming forward with the same HFS issues. It's no longer rare. It's alarming.

notmeanymore said:
I got off this morning cause i was so stressed, and nothing feels like it matters . it felt so good, yet im feeling so rough from it now. my package felt decent for all of 30 min afterwards. then it all shrinks up to this new size i seem to have forever. my glans doesnt feel that bad if i touch it through clothes,. yet it feels nonexistant yet really tender and burny in clothes sitting still or walking. i used to hang aroused and fat several months ago off and on. around 5.5 and it felt great. im lucky to have 3.5-4 now, and super thin. even hourglassed at times. and glans feels dead to go with it.


im so angry i followed a tutorial on how to kill my self in 3 minutes or less. i dont think this can ever go away. i probably sound like a broken record, but this has destroyed my brain on how to even think anything through anymore. it really seems like my glans has gotten a more dead rubbery feel to it the last month or so. which cant be good. for a long time ,its lacked light feeling, and a showerhead doesnt feel totally right on it.
the thing is though.

id be ok with those feelings if i had a drive,size or Any kegel response other than when im half asleep. half the night last night i had a good chub, and it really felt relatively decent all around. i guess whatever feeling that got killed has destroyed my physical sex drive parts. the size ive lost most of the day is unreal. and there are zero moments i get any size increase unless i try to make it happen
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Once again, it's not PE. If you believe PE is the cause, we can take that into advicement as PE extreme measures can indeed kill your penis in 3 minutes or less. This is why safety is at the forefront at all time. I am that sounding board. However, what you're experience is a nexus to something else bigger. It's like a person dying from a cold, yet have connection to COVID, or a person died suddenly during flight and later discovered there's a brain hemmorhage. Each example has far-reaching back stories than just the apparently symptoms and correlations. We are still on your case brother.
 
oldandlively said:
This is something new. Okay, got to gain some clarification. When you feel the "dick is wet with a fan on it", does it means feeling clammy and cool like you sweat a lot and have an evaporative cooling effect? Or it's dry but having that cool feeling like a wet penis being blown by wind?

This is a lack of blood flow, regardless of how you put it. But the clamminess/wetness will be something to evaluate. If it's dry, then it's nothing out of the ordinary comparing to the lack of blood flow.
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dry with a wet feeling from what i can tell.

oldandlively said:
Sticking to your legs is another flag. Does the penis feel sticky and wet, or does your crotch feels sticky and wet? This is something you want to define properly. Why? Two different symptoms aside from penile issues are manifesting.
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definitely the glans sticky when it occurs
oldandlively said:
Shrinkage and numbess are symptoms not born out of nerves, but it's actually caused by frictious pain. Your nerve is not the culprit causing the shrinkage, but we finally figured out something else at 90%. Our brother @TCDreamer brought up in the recent days. Hard Flaccid Syndrome (HFS) covered the exact same manifestation we're reading from your reports. We're all pounding our heads, and check the boxes and scribbling our interactive doodle pads to see where you're leading us. Those doodle pads look like bad plates of sphagetti.
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my whole head is spaghetti. for sure. i understand. ive researched a lot on HF though as well. except mine mostly is just really flaccid/limp. shrunk
oldandlively said:
HFS can come out of the blue. It's not due to PE. It's a manifestation that we have yet to trace and track down on. It can be as simple as odd interactive diet, aging, bad physiological conditions, or exposed to a cocktail of manmade chemicals. More and more males and females are coming forward with the same HFS issues. It's no longer rare. It's alarming.


Once again, it's not PE. If you believe PE is the cause, we can take that into advicement as PE extreme measures can indeed kill your penis in 3 minutes or less. This is why safety is at the forefront at all time. I am that sounding board. However, what you're experience is a nexus to something else bigger. It's like a person dying from a cold, yet have connection to COVID, or a person died suddenly during flight and later discovered there's a brain hemmorhage. Each example has far-reaching back stories than just the apparently symptoms and correlations. We are still on your case brother.
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i hope its not PE, yet i really feel it started this . my glans feeling seems to feel that way too. so. going up to post #648, what are your thoughts there? im extremely out of my head every day with this. i honestly dont really see straight most days anymore. i miss my wife so much it hurts. a lot
 
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