Yeah, extenders are pretty much impossible to hide wearing it, unless you’re wearing a skirt/dress or something. But even then it might show through.
You just have to find some free time, if possible, to wear it. Luckily enough I ain’t got no family to worry about in that regard, only my dog, and she could not care less about what I do as long as I treat her good.😂
When it comes to wearing the extender I have it straight down when walking around and it points straight out when sitting down. Keeping it simple that way and letting the extender work it’s magic.