I have less tolerance for "bull-shit" from people nowadays.

I have realized that after joining MOS and been doing PE for some time, my life has become more focused. The energy I put out to my environment/people are also more focused and more clear. I don't worry as much as before, if something needs to be done, I just start and then do it. Or get the help resources I need in order to do it.

With this follows that I have less tolerance for men in my life, that are wasting my time (and their own) and try to use me for their own benefit. I can see bull-shit people, from far away.

I realized that I ended up with (men) people at school (group projects), that had no drive to do anything and just talked shit instead of working hard (I did all the work). If you are a man this is a strange behavior.
I should not think about this any more, I just get stressed and extremely unhappy when I think about it.

But to make a long story a short one; A project that is due soon, and I realized that the person I'm working with have not done anything on this project. I don't understand how I could have missed this. It's like I need to be this man's parent and make him do things, this is really tiring to keep up.

It's like he do not even care if we fail, or make bad result in this assignment/project. He are indirectly putting all the pressure on me.

He wrote to me in a message, when I wrote to him, that we have only 24 days left, and we need to increase the output;

You don't need to stress, we do what we can.

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After this, I realized what he was doing. He put all the pressure on me.

I can't stand dealing with these people any longer. Be aware of these people. They are no fun to hang around with, even at a party they are boring to be around.

They have a loser kind of mindset. But with that said I do not judge people. But if they try to use me for their own benefit, without not doing it in a respectful manner towards me..I start to boil with anger. I may not say anything but I will know what they are all about.

I'm more strong know then before I joined MOS. My "bull-shit" radar is stronger.

I will not tolerate these kind of behaviors anymore. I have a strong wall of boundaries I will not tolerate people to disregard. Even showing up at my doorstep not planned, is crossing the line.

These 24 days will be really intense. And he will have gained nothing from me, because I'm ditching him, and doing this project by myself.

Sorry for the long rant.

— Anyone else that feels something similar as this I'm describing?

— Do you think I'm to intense?

I do not associate socially with anyone but the forum and family. After Jaz died I have felt negative about making new friends.

DLD said:

I do not associate socially with anyone but the forum and family. After Jaz died I have felt negative about making new friends.

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We are similar in this way. I have never felt like I have fit in, in the normal ways of being.
I can be extremely social but it's energy draining for me. It's like my thinking pattern is so diffrent from everyone else, I think that's the reason.

I have pretty much been alone my entire life. I'm good with that.

squirt_inducer_man said:

We are similar in this way. I have never felt like I have fit in, in the normal ways of being.
I can be extremely social but it's energy draining for me. It's like my thinking pattern is so diffrent from everyone else, I think that's the reason.

I have pretty much been alone my entire life. I'm good with that.

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I'm still getting used to it

There's something that evolves (slowly) when we, as men have focus and drive. Using PE as the vehicle, the transformations you're making to your body (and seeing the results of your dedication/determination/discipline) create a synergy that permeates the rest of your life. Little (almost imperceptible) things begin to become more obvious, such as people preceiving you differently and you recognizing behaviours in others based on the positivity that PE brings to your whole being.
Your specific situation at work is a perfect example of how you're becoming that man, one who gets things done. The journey is the reward

DLD said:

I do not associate socially with anyone but the forum and family. After Jaz died I have felt negative about making new friends.

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I'm so sorry for your loss brother.

Big Schwanz Acht said:

There's something that evolves (slowly) when we, as men have focus and drive. Using PE as the vehicle, the transformations you're making to your body (and seeing the results of your dedication/determination/discipline) create a synergy that permeates the rest of your life. Little (almost imperceptible) things begin to become more obvious, such as people preceiving you differently and you recognizing behaviours in others based on the positivity that PE brings to your whole being.
Your specific situation at work is a perfect example of how you're becoming that man, one who gets things done. The journey is the reward

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The journey needs more people like you

Big Schwanz Acht said:

There's something that evolves (slowly) when we, as men have focus and drive. Using PE as the vehicle, the transformations you're making to your body (and seeing the results of your dedication/determination/discipline) create a synergy that permeates the rest of your life. Little (almost imperceptible) things begin to become more obvious, such as people preceiving you differently and you recognizing behaviours in others based on the positivity that PE brings to your whole being.
Your specific situation at work is a perfect example of how you're becoming that man, one who gets things done. The journey is the reward

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Your words truly helped me. PE have been so amazingly good to me. My process have been exactly as you are describing it.

Thank you.

This man is out of the picure now, so I need to work 200% to catch up.
Not my fault he's gone. I did everything, to keep him in the group (only him and me), but I realized he didn't do anything (realized it to late), and he didn't care about anything, and in this process trying to use me.

I'm becoming a harder and wiser man, but I'm kind inside, extremely kind. But if you try to use me, I'm getting hard as a rock. This experience have teach me a lot. This will give me power to push even harder. I'm better preperd for the future now.

I will be gone from MOS for a while due to this. But I will keep pushing for my gains. Take care brothers I will be back in the near future.

You guys are awesome.

Pe builds more than penis size it builds character. You have been one of the best brothers of all time

DLD said:

Pe builds more than penis size it builds character. You have been one of the best brothers of all time

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Couldn't stay away from MOS for to long, I miss my friends.
That means so much for me, to hear (see) those words from you.

The world today is fraught with peril at every turn/corner requiring higher levels of awareness (of self and society). Having keen BS radar is key in navigating work/relationships/life...my PE journey has been integral in these teachings.

I'll just throw this out here (cuz I have not put any critical thinking towards it...lazy, I guess), but with every measurable gain, I felt an increase of social confidence. My interactions with any/everyone is markedly different with more purpose and positivity...and it kinda builds upon itself. Once the momentum of PE morphs with your everyday life it seems to perpetuate...one pushes the other and the other pushes the one.

Random, I know, but thought I'd see what y'all think

Big Schwanz Acht said:

I'll just throw this out here (cuz I have not put any critical thinking towards it...lazy, I guess), but with every measurable gain, I felt an increase of social confidence. My interactions with any/everyone is markedly different with more purpose and positivity...and it kinda builds upon itself. Once the momentum of PE morphs with your everyday life it seems to perpetuate...one pushes the other and the other pushes the one.

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I feel the same about this.

I'm more confident amongst people, and for me, my social anxiety is practically gone (no one else knows I have it, I hide it well).
It used to hit me hard when I'm around lots of people, for example at the gym. Not so much now. More purpose and positivity in interactions, there you said something. It will only be better with time. The ability to stand up for myself is better, and I love the looks from women.

DLD said:

I do not associate socially with anyone but the forum and family. After Jaz died I have felt negative about making new friends.

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Since 13th of March, I've been associating with a few persons and my intuition is telling me that I'm making a mistake. I enjoy spending time with myself.

huge-girth said:

Since 13th of March, I've been associating with a few persons and my intuition is telling me that I'm making a mistake. I enjoy spending time with myself.

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If your intuition are telling you something follow it. I should have done that sooner with that lazy guy, I was referring to in the beginning of this thread.
I'm really stressed out, since I have so much to write with little time to do so. I feel rushed and he's oblivious to what he has done, or not done. He's blaming me, no personal responsibility what so ever. I do not care at this point.

I need to log out from MOS for a while now until this is finnished... take care brother.

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Since 13th of March, I've been associating with a few persons and my intuition is telling me that I'm making a mistake. I enjoy spending time with myself.

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After 14 months of being held up in a hotel room I have lost so much social skills

DLD said:

After 14 months of being held up in a hotel room I have lost so much social skills

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Didn't know that. What have happened? You mentioned fire before, is that what happened?

squirt_inducer_man said:

Didn't know that. What have happened? You mentioned fire before, is that what happened?

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Yes my house had a fire and I am stuck here until they finish

DLD said:

Yes my house had a fire and I am stuck here until they finish

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I hope you can move back soon.

squirt_inducer_man said:

I hope you can move back soon.

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3 more months