How to deal with bad sex days when doing PE

oldandlively said:

Yep. I got plenty of those bad sex days after intense PE routines myself. EQ tends to drop off our of the blue after 20 minutes.

I did comparison notes on this. If I suspect sex routine after PE routines, I hydrate myself with 5g of l-citrulline malate with 300IU of VitD3 just before my PE routines. 90% of the time, I can sustain 30 to 40 minutes of solid EQ for sex after my routines. If I forgot, EQ dropped like a brick in the deep ocean between 15 to 20 minutes when I do vertical positions (doggie, spider, etc). Missionary, I can go beyond 20 minutes. Lateral pressures help to maintain EQ even when penis reaches fatigues after PE routines.

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bemorethanbig said:

So, we all have them. Regular or BLAH sex days, tough day at work, interrupted by pets, can't make loud noises because the walls are thin, family is over, etc.

It's tough when you are doing PE though because when we don't get the great dick reaction it feels like a big fail.

I don't have the answers and I was hoping some could say things that get you through it. Something I would say to myself are, "There will be some blah days but the majority of time it is amazing so don't get hung up on it, just makes you treasure it more when it is great", "Laugh it off, just know that these things happen, it's life and life is awesome, just know that the next time it will be even more amazing",

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• We got interrupted
• We both weren't really in the mood but did it anyways
• We were both kinda tired but we did it anyways
• The offspring were home and so we couldn't be loud
• For some reason that day she wasn't getting too excited
• Half way through, I kinda lost a bit of stamina from being tired
• One position did not get the reaction it usually gets and you think something is wrong
• She didn't wear something sexy to bed and are having a bit of trouble getting really hard with Pj's

bemorethanbig said:

Could be a bunch of things like

• We got interrupted
• We both weren't really in the mood but did it anyways
• We were both kinda tired but we did it anyways
• The offspring were home and so we couldn't be loud
• For some reason that day she wasn't getting too excited
• Half way through, I kinda lost a bit of stamina from being tired
• One position did not get the reaction it usually gets and you think something is wrong
• She didn't wear something sexy to bed and are having a bit of trouble getting really hard with Pj's

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Haursen said:

Now you have data to improve for the next time. Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn. Learn and grow 🪴.

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