Hi DLD
Hi friends
I‘m 33 and have been doing PE for a total of around 1,5-2 years, with a few breaks in between. Last time I did something was around 6 months ago. I made what I would call marginal gains (at that time I didnt really measure but subjectively he seemed a bit bigger) which now seem to have almost vanished. My routine consisted of dry jelqing for about 10 min directly after the shower, followed by stretching for like 5 min, once daily with an off day like every 5-6 days or so. I also used penomet and
bathmate each for around 6 months but wasnt really happy about the handling so at some point i lost interest in them.
Why I stopped is that I noticed some lowered EQ (around 20-30% with inability to keep it for too long). reading about venous leak/hard flaccid and all sorts of horrible things that can happen to a man. I don’t know if it also biased me a little bit, but all in all I kind of freaked and don’t know if I should get back into it. I never had the impression that I applied too much pressure, even tho I had red dots quite often and a thrombosed vein 2 times.
I‘ve been doing kegels more or less every day but spontaneously whenever I could and not with a strict programme.
My EQ is back to 100% now. In general I‘m more or less happy about my size (BPEL: 19 cm, EG: 13 cm) even though like all of you, a bit more wouldn‘t hurt
I‘d be the happiest man ever with like an inch more in length and half an inch in girth (even though I know that half an inch is a bit unrealistic so I‘d also be happy with like 1 cm more).
So I‘d be glad for some advice since I‘m really not sure if I should start again or not. Although I read that only a small percentage of men are prone to venous leak, I believe that it may happen to all of us, to a higher or lower extent. For sure, if you do the exercises wrong with jelqing too hard you increase the risk, but if you look at it from a physiological point of view increasing pressure in your dick doesmt really sound like the healthiest thing you could do to it. I‘m not against PE, i really believe that if you‘re persistant and careful, pay attention not to overdo it, good results are possible. Even tho I dont believe that there is a person who does PE regularily for several years and never had an injury, especially since higher pressures are needed the more you progress.
All in all I have a lot of respect for it and want to be careful.
So please guys, help me out here. Is a third of a inch in girth really worth a (quite real) risk of losing potency to some extent? I know it may sound a bit paranoid and I know that every man makes the decision for himself. But I just need some opinions so I can make a fully rational and good choice.
Maybe I‘ll just start with the newbie routine again but apply less pressure so no red dots are seen?
Also Something a bit off topic, someone has a good advice on premature ejaculation? I‘ve read and also practiced the reverse kegels and relaxing exercises for pelvic floor but havent really mastered it yet.
Thank you in advance
Kind regards
