Too Much Edging

[Avglen61]

I am participating in No Nut November and so far I have not ejaculated.......
I have been edging a lot instead of ejaculating.......
However, now I am experiencing kind of pain near my bladder.....

Is this normal?

 

[Grabriel]

I find you can masturbate and not cum for 2 times and then you gotta cum the next to make sure that there isn't bad pressure in there.
So cum every 1 out of 3 times as a rule of thumb.

 

[DLD]

I am participating in No Nut November and so far I have not ejaculated.......
I have been edging a lot instead of ejaculating.......
However, now I am experiencing kind of pain near my bladder.....

Is this normal?

I’ve never experienced pain from refraining from ejaculation. And I’ve gone a long time without having an orgasm. With me what happens is I get frustrated eventually but I never feel any pain

 

[Avglen61]

NVM.....
I failed NNN just now

 

[arkailija]

Don't think it as a failure.

From my point of view refraining from ejaculation isn't healthy in most cases. Surely your body will cycle and clear things without ejaculation, although wet dreams can happen when the pressure gets too high. (As in the body telling to "let off some steam.")

Edging wise, I think Grabriel's note is solid. Surely it varies between men but overall if I were to do an edging session, then in the end I would release.

I know there are tantric teachings etc., but I'm in favor of ejaculating on a regular basis.
If possible with a partner, but soloing is fine as well.
At least from Western medical point of view ejaculating on a regular basis is encouraged. I follow that route and usually have ejaculate several times in a week to keep the pipes clean so to speak of.

I think more so the No Nut November would be about how much people are using adult entertainment (I use it, I'm not a saint) for the release and how that is affecting our dopamine levels and other "feel good receptors." Just my "how I feel about it", I haven't look too much into it because I like ejaculating too much.

 

[DLD]

It’s a very difficult thing to remain abstinent and it doesn’t happen overnight. And you can’t punish her self every time you fail because the simple fact that you’re trying is a victory in itself. For me I get you about 30 days and then my frustration becomes so much that I will need to relieve myself. So for me it is an incredible success that I can go for weeks without doing this. Considering I used to go for five times a day I feel very proud of my accomplishment. You should also feel proud because you’re trying and that’s where it all starts.

 

[Alocacoc]

NVM.....
I failed NNN just now

and me once i start I go on marathons aswell

 

[DLD]

and me once i start I go on marathons aswell

There’s never failure when you’re trying to improve yourself. When we’re trying to improve ourselves if we fall we get up we brush her selves off and we start over again. Success is not created in one attempt success happens over time. Do not shoot for perfection shoot for a rational goal.