Female influence Spouses/life partners/significant others

[confidencegrown]

I'm guessing I'm not the only "perfect the way you are" one in here. I'm betting too that I'm not the only one that has a rush of negative emotions when they hear it.
For those of you that have already been down this path and were successful...
How did you explain how you feel about your cock to your significant other and the overwhelming urge to do something about it.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

I don't understand.

 

[confidencegrown]

I for one know only despair when looking at my cock.
I know what the measurements say about me compared to "average".
Regardless of the ruler's affirmation that I am well above average naturally, I feel incapable of pleasing my wife.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

I for one know only despair when looking at my cock.
I know what the measurements say about me compared to "average".
Regardless of the ruler's affirmation that I am well above average naturally, I feel incapable of pleasing my wife.

Tough feeling. I got into penis enlargement due to a woman comparing my penis to another man. I'm not done jet, and I'm well above 8 Inch (bpel) in length.

Was is the reason you feel incapable of pleasing your wife. Are se judging you for your penis, or are she worshipping your penis?

 

[confidencegrown]

I don't understand.

Do/did you have someone in your life that isn't/wasn't onboard with your pursuit of PE. Did you communicate your feelings successfully?

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

Do/did you have someone in your life that isn't/wasn't onboard with your pursuit of PE. Did you communicate your feelings successfully?

No I'm alone.

 

[confidencegrown]

Tough feeling. I got into penis enlargement due to a woman comparing my penis to another man. I'm not done jet, and I'm well above 8 Inch (bpel) in length.

Was is the reason you feel incapable of pleasing your wife. Are se judging you for your penis, or are she worshipping your penis?

I'm not trying to discuss my feelings and what brought me here, but how to communicate and talk with a spouse or significant other. My wife has proven to be very much against. I cannot communicate how I feel.
Looking for advice from people who were successful at communicating how they feel and what brought them here.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

That is good.

You can never communicate this to a woman. She will never understand penis enlargement. Be a man and keep her out of this.

Read this book.

In this book you will learn about the questions you have.

 

[DLD]

That is good.

You can never communicate this to a woman. She will never understand penis enlargement. Be a man and keep her out of this.

Read this book.
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In this book you will learn about the questions you have.

Great suggestion...I will find it online

 

[confidencegrown]

...be a man and keep her out of this...

Laughably stupid, wife of 15 years, four kids together, she knows my dick. Knows what it was, what it is. Asking for people with experience bridging that communication gap. You clearly aren't that guy. Your statement and advice is very low quality guy.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

Laughably stupid, wife of 15 years, four kids together, she knows my dick. Knows what it was, what it is. Asking for people with experience bridging that communication gap. You clearly aren't that guy. Your statement and advice is very low quality guy.

I'm not trying to discuss my feelings and what brought me here, but how to communicate and talk with a spouse or significant other. My wife has proven to be very much against. I cannot communicate how I feel.
Looking for advice from people who were successful at communicating how they feel and what brought them here.

This is the advice you get when you say you do not want to discuss your own feelings, and want other people to open up their own feelings and personal life. I tried to open up and be vulnerable in some way, but you shut down that communication so then I get hard.

Here was my attempt to keep this conversation on a deep level.

Tough feeling. I got into penis enlargement due to a woman comparing my penis to another man. I'm not done jet, and I'm well above 8 Inch (bpel) in length.

Was is the reason you feel incapable of pleasing your wife. Are se judging you for your penis, or are she worshipping your penis?

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

I will leave this thread now. Not worth it to be vulnerable to people you don't know...just trying to be helpful.

 

[confidencegrown]

I will leave this thread now. Not worth it to be vulnerable to people you don't know...just trying to be helpful.

You didn't understand my question, I was trying to stop an off topic heading. We've all got our reasons for being here and doing this. I want advice from someone that has expressed their motivations successfully to their less than supportive and understanding partner.
I wasn't being rude or uncaring squirt, I just didn't want to be in the weeds, then you made a laughably ignorant comment about "being a man and keeping her out of it..." It's my wife... she's seen and sees my cock on the reg, we have sex... There's ZERO keeping her out of it.

To be clear though, wasn't trying to be rude, just halt the wrong trajectory.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

No worries brother.

 

[huge-girth]

You didn't understand my question, I was trying to stop an off topic heading. We've all got our reasons for being here and doing this. I want advice from someone that has expressed their motivations successfully to their less than supportive and understanding partner.
I wasn't being rude or uncaring squirt, I just didn't want to be in the weeds, then you made a laughably ignorant comment about "being a man and keeping her out of it..." It's my wife... she's seen and sees my cock on the reg, we have sex... There's ZERO keeping her out of it.

To be clear though, wasn't trying to be rude, just halt the wrong trajectory.

If she truly loves you, she will let you do what makes you happy. I bet if she saved money for breast implant and she tell you she wants to do it, you did allow her. Why are you allowing her to stop you from making gains in PE?

 

[confidencegrown]

If she truly loves you, she will let you do what makes you happy. I bet if she saved money for breast implant and she tell you she wants to do it, you did allow her. Why are you allowing her to stop you from making gains in PE?

She's not stopping me, but this is becoming a negative influence in our relationship... Because I'm "perfect". Not realizing she is the source of so much of the mental anguish.

 

[huge-girth]

She's not stopping me, but this is becoming a negative influence in our relationship... Because I'm "perfect". Not realizing she is the source of so much of the mental anguish.

How is developing yourself becoming a negative influence in your relationship? If she genuinely loves you, PE won't be a negative influence. Men need to wake up.

 

[confidencegrown]

How is developing yourself becoming a negative influence in your relationship? If she genuinely loves you, PE won't be a negative influence. Men need to wake up.

We are getting off in the weeds again.

 

[DLD]

Truce y'all

 

[TWIST&PULL]

you’ve been together a long time and have children I assume she couldn’t care less how big you are “your perfect” and to her the whole notion of making your dick bigger is crazy talk.

me… I made it a jovial conversation over time, my partner’s 15 years younger than me so I used fear over my erection quality, ED and felt I was shrinking with age as motivating factors and it was to be a fun experiment, hobby kind of thing, and the purpose was to increase my self esteem and no other. (What’s the harm)
think of rational reasons that might make sense to her.
Start by introducing a pump (I did) let her get her head around that first.

obviously I don’t know you or your wife but it honestly worked for me.

 

[DLD]

you’ve been together a long time and have children I assume she couldn’t care less how big you are “your perfect” and to her the whole notion of making your dick bigger is crazy talk.

me… I made it a jovial conversation over time, my partner’s 15 years younger than me so I used fear over my erection quality, ED and felt I was shrinking with age as motivating factors and it was to be a fun experiment, hobby kind of thing, and the purpose was to increase my self esteem and no other. (What’s the harm)
think of rational reasons that might make sense to her.
Start by introducing a pump (I did) let her get her head around that first.

obviously I don’t know you or your wife but it honestly worked for me.

 

[confidencegrown]

you’ve been together a long time and have children I assume she couldn’t care less how big you are “your perfect” and to her the whole notion of making your dick bigger is crazy talk.

me… I made it a jovial conversation over time, my partner’s 15 years younger than me so I used fear over my erection quality, ED and felt I was shrinking with age as motivating factors and it was to be a fun experiment, hobby kind of thing, and the purpose was to increase my self esteem and no other. (What’s the harm)
think of rational reasons that might make sense to her.
Start by introducing a pump (I did) let her get her head around that first.

obviously I don’t know you or your wife but it honestly worked for me.

Thank you twist!

 

[confidencegrown]

It's no joke though twist, you do shrink and lose erection quality over time. I know exactly my dimensions up to marriage. I've shrank.

 

[DLD]

It's no joke though twist, you do shrink and lose erection quality over time. I know exactly my dimensions up to marriage. I've shrank.

Have you been going consistently

 

[confidencegrown]

Have you been going consistently

I'm basing this on my natural state. I know how large I was when I was younger and whored around. I know my size now. They're not the same over the years I have certainly lost about 1/2" in length and 1/4" in girth. Many times to the delight of partners past my penis was measured. I'm not the same size as I was, it is not a reflection of the techniques being taught and shared here. As a matter of fact in just a short while (two weeks of girth work)I surpassed and maintained over a month my natural youthful girth.
This is exciting for me, not my wife, which lead to this post.
I was stating that you do "lose it" with age as evidence by my very own real life experience.

 

[DLD]

I got you. You will reclaim any losses and from there you can go on to whatever your dream size it. Reclaiming is very fast

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

Tough feeling. I got into penis enlargement due to a woman comparing my penis to another man. I'm not done jet, and I'm well above 8 Inch (bpel) in length.

Was is the reason you feel incapable of pleasing your wife. Are se judging you for your penis, or are she worshipping your penis?

Do you still hang around that woman..
Why would she compare your dick size whit another guy dick size..Darn
Seems like women throw that low blow to make men feel inferior or just to hurt our egos and self steem..

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

Do you still hang around that woman..
Why would she compare your dick size whit another guy dick size..Darn
Seems like women throw that low blow to make men feel inferior or just to hurt our egos and self steem..

Doesn't matter now.