Keep things in perspective

[savageblue]

Hey, guys!
Just a quick note to address the issue of frustration.
We have to be very careful when we set our size goals based on what we see in adult entertainment.
Keep in mind that there is a lot of visual trickery going on in adult entertainment to make us believe the guys in there have overly massive dongs. While it may be true that a handful of them are indeed massive, the vast majority of famous adult entertainment stars are NOT in the 9 inch range (maybe not even in the 8 inch range).
How do I know this? Not only has the subject been thoroughly covered in several posts on the forum, but I also have myself as proof.
I'll explain. Would you say that a two-hander penis is big? Being able to wrap both hands around my penis and still have the glans sticking out was one of my goals when I first started PE. I didn't use to be able to do that at the beginning, as the glans would be covered by the second hand. Now I can! I currently have a 7.5" Bone Pressed Erect Length (I roughly grew the size of my glans). Oh, and for reference, I am just shy of 5ft9 in height.
So, I am very far from being 9 inches long, but I can already grab my dick with both hands (hell, I sometimes wank with both hands at the same time) and still have the tip popping out. And, even though they aren't huge, my hands aren't small either. To me, that means I have already a solid BIG DICK.
Here's the kicker: if I watch myself on webcam with a raging hardon and grab firmly at the base of my penis with my whole hand, the amount of dick left visible is still impressive. This means that, if I compare what I see on webcam to what I watch on adult entertainment sometimes, I even look bigger than some of those guys,
Even my wife has once told me I have a adult entertainment star dick.
My point here is not to brag, but to tell you guys to take it easy on your goals.
First, set realistic goals and deadlines to attain them, and second, do not underestimate what you are starting with.
Don't trust me? Just fool around with your cell phone camera filming your dick and you will understand what I'm saying.
This will help a lot in dealing with any frustrations you might be having of not being "as big as" this bloke or the other.
Happy training to everyone.

 

[MikeyM]

Hey, guys!
Just a quick note to address the issue of frustration.
We have to be very careful when we set our size goals based on what we see in adult entertainment.
Keep in mind that there is a lot of visual trickery going on in adult entertainment to make us believe the guys in there have overly massive dongs. While it may be true that a handful of them are indeed massive, the vast majority of famous adult entertainment stars are NOT in the 9 inch range (maybe not even in the 8 inch range).
How do I know this? Not only has the subject been thoroughly covered in several posts on the forum, but I also have myself as proof.
I'll explain. Would you say that a two-hander penis is big? Being able to wrap both hands around my penis and still have the glans sticking out was one of my goals when I first started PE. I didn't use to be able to do that at the beginning, as the glans would be covered by the second hand. Now I can! I currently have a 7.5" Bone Pressed Erect Length (I roughly grew the size of my glans). Oh, and for reference, I am just shy of 5ft9 in height.
So, I am very far from being 9 inches long, but I can already grab my dick with both hands (hell, I sometimes wank with both hands at the same time) and still have the tip popping out. And, even though they aren't huge, my hands aren't small either. To me, that means I have already a solid BIG DICK.
Here's the kicker: if I watch myself on webcam with a raging hardon and grab firmly at the base of my penis with my whole hand, the amount of dick left visible is still impressive. This means that, if I compare what I see on webcam to what I watch on adult entertainment sometimes, I even look bigger than some of those guys,
Even my wife has once told me I have a adult entertainment star dick.
My point here is not to brag, but to tell you guys to take it easy on your goals.
First, set realistic goals and deadlines to attain them, and second, do not underestimate what you are starting with.
Don't trust me? Just fool around with your cell phone camera filming your dick and you will understand what I'm saying.
This will help a lot in dealing with any frustrations you might be having of not being "as big as" this bloke or the other.
Happy training to everyone.

Nice article! That's my first self measuring marker is to have both hands on my shaft with my head showing.

 

[savageblue]

@Mike3209 , it's great fun to play with it like that, hahaha.
My next marker is to have my glans reach my navel, if I'm sitting up straight with an erection. But for it to be a fair measurement, I first need to drop a couple of inches around the waist.

 

[DLD]

This is something you should check out awesome I wrote the study many years back.

https://mattersofsize.com/threads/is-everything-really-what-it-seams-a-study-by-dld.1815893/