It's Not Cheating Is It?

[[P]okey[B]ear]

so there is this girl at my work who really likes me and I like her and we have been dancing circles around each other. she has a boyfriend. And she admits she's cheated before but he doesn't know it. I gave her my number and she keeps y'know pushing me and making fun of me doing that kindergradener I don't like you but I do bullshit. We have fun though with it. But if we fuck do you guys consider me to be cheating even though she's the one with the boyfriend not visa versa?

 

[sikdogg]

If you fuck her... she's the one cheating, not you. I suggest that you continue to flirt with her but don't go any farther, you don't need the hassle if her bf finds out. There are too many other chick to have to deal with boyfriends.

 

[[P]okey[B]ear]

yeah it's hard though y'know what I mean. All the girls I get interested in something happens. Why can't I just find a girl with no boyfriend and no other guys she likes. LIFE SUCKS

 

[bigcharlie]

I posted a thread awhile back about this similar situation, exactly. In fact for me, it is now *2* girls playing and teasing with me and BOTH of them know each other (they are friends outside work). What's more fucked up is that they are both black and know I did black chicks and neither one seems to have a problem with the other messing with me.

Today, the thicker one of the two just came right out and asked me if I'm fucking anyone right now. I said no, then she asked how long has it been? I asked the same of her and she just laughed and said "does myself count"?

My dilemma gets worse though because I'm pretty sure if I pick this girl over the other there will be hard feelings and may blow my opportunity with the other one (who I like more).

Anyways, I'll just keep making my dick bigger in the meantime and let them play their games. Not gonna shit where I eat ... yet!

 

[[P]okey[B]ear]

yeah well i've only known her 3 days. And we're just the sort of people that match you know. I haven't really had chance to sit down and talk with her. Manager lives in same house as me and knows what's going on and trying to keep us apart. He's a gay guy and he needs to mind his own business it's not up to him. Well we keep talking sexual stuff today.

 

[BosheR]

Hydromaxmm

My personal view is this. Talk to her ask her whats going on. Tell her you like her but your not intrested in playing games. If she's doing this to her current boyfriend then what's stopping her doing it to you. If she likes you then cool, fair enough n if you want to take the risk go for it. If you just want to just fuck her, and dont want a relationship, then just flirt with her and wait for her boyfriend to split before jumping in there. Unless you dont mind hurting people

You have to hold back sometimes. I've got a wicked relationship going with this girl I've been with for 1 year 5 months and I have to say its great. I trust her 100% and she's the most supportive person in the world. Cute, sexy, funny and just plain cool. Just because you get on with this girl you have to look at the qualities she has and whether or not she's trustworthy GF material.

Conclusion. ( because I've seen a friend go down the road your thinkin of taking and get hurt )

Your young. You dont need a GF, just fuck around for a bit.

Then once you find a girl who you are atracted to, who you know will make you happy and be there for you. Then thats the sort of person you want to be with to set up a secure relationship. Not someone who's fucking people behind there boyfriends back.

hope thats of some help
Good luck man

 

[Jareth]

so there is this girl at my work who really likes me and I like her and we have been dancing circles around each other. she has a boyfriend. And she admits she's cheated before but he doesn't know it. I gave her my number and she keeps y'know pushing me and making fun of me doing that kindergradener I don't like you but I do bullshit. We have fun though with it. But if we fuck do you guys consider me to be cheating even though she's the one with the boyfriend not visa versa?

thats one of the goofyiest things ive ever heard...

 

[[P]okey[B]ear]

I don't wanna date her I just wanna fuck her

 

[FatherRuffian]

Live by your own standards, not what guys on the forum think.

 

[Jareth]

Live by your own standards, not what guys on the forum think.

yeah agree totally but this dude is asking if he is cheating.. How the hell can he be cheating if he doesn't have a GF??? If he feels bad than thats a different subject, and should listen to himself, cuz he has to live with it...

 

[against_odds21]

Hey bigcharlie that seems like a nice perdicament to be in.

 

[singlelongdaddy]

But if we fuck do you guys consider me to be cheating even though she's the one with the boyfriend not visa versa?

if someone robs their friend's house and you drive the getaway car are you an accessory?

 

[koooky]

Just my 2 cents;

With so many women around who will fuck for one night stands or so many looking for a serious relationship, why fuck with screw with one with a BF?

Do you really need some crazy BF stalking you and following you(and her) around all the time?

Ditch that shit man before you are passed the point of no return.

kook

 

[[P]okey[B]ear]

well she is engaged now so gonna stay away from that.

 

[Jareth]

if someone robs their friend's house and you drive the getaway car are you an accessory?

yes thats a legal issue though...

 

[[P]okey[B]ear]

and legal system is fucking retarded

 

[Jareth]

and legal system is fucking retarded

oh yeah sorry pokey i remember u sayin u were on house arrest huh...

 

[[P]okey[B]ear]

off now but I got fucked

 

[swolejah]

Cheating.