Psychology Feeling inadequate

[Seemo9]

What’s up family.. I’m just checking in to let you guys know where I’m at.. so my cheap noose extender broke, my cheap vac extender broke, and at this point I’m finding myself spinning my wheels each morning before I leave out the door.. sometimes this gets so bad I take 30-45 min trying to figure out how I should wrap, strap into leg attachment (vac losing air) or PF.. I’m not a big fan of PF honestly but I’ve never worn it consistently either.I view it as a placeholder, distinguished from an active gaining tool...anyway the reason I’m making this post is due to the constant thoughts of feeling “small”, first thing in the morning.. I wake up, go to pee, and I’m hesitant to pull it out bc I don’t know if I’ve gained.. this sucks bc of course there is NO noticeable gain and then I’m depressed.. I see a beautiful girl at the gas station, or somewhere in public, I might catch her eye 2, 3 times and first thing that comes to mind is, “go say hi, approach her”, then immediately i have thoughts of how I “can’t” please her with my size(6.2 NBP 5.5 meg) smh these thoughts never leave.. I don’t have a gf nor am I dating anyone so I have MUCH initiative to do PE.. but DAMN does it feel slow.. I don’t have much money, time, nor privacy but I’m doing my best.. waiting on my LM to arrive then buying the mityvac next check! man I’m so tired of this feeling.. also I think I’ve hit a plateau.. still trying to close in on my first inch.. also gotta stop watching adult entertainment it’s making me feel so little but at the same time I’m addicted to it.. I know I’m just rambling at this point but idk where else to turn

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

take 30-45 min trying to figure out how I should wrap

Do you mean an elongation wrap?

I see a beautiful girl at the gas station, or somewhere in public, I might catch her eye 2, 3 times and first thing that comes to mind is, “go say hi, approach her”, then immediately i have thoughts of how I “can’t” please her with my size(6.2 NBP 5.5 meg) smh these thoughts never leave..

Do you know your BPEL (Bone Pressed Erected Length)? You can please a woman really good with a penis of, BPEL: 5". Trust me I know this.

I think your mind is playing tricks on you, you are stuck in a paradigm of not having a big penis. If you feel bad of watching adult entertainment, I will suggest that you stop watching it. adult entertainment can really destroy our perception of reality.

I don’t have much money,

Don't let this keep you from your destiny. You can make great gains with "simple" hand stretches and discipline. Don't just wait on the lengthmaster, take control of your future now. Do penis enlargement every day. Set a goal, and you can create a detailed plan to get to your goal penis size. Work on girth and length at the same time, or first work on length and then push in girthwork? The brotherhood can help you with a plan and staying motivated. But don't rely on motivation, use your dicipline to your advantage. Discpine every single day will get you to your goal.

One day at a time...then you will have a destiny, and something to look forward to every day. If everything is shit, you have control of your penis enlargement projects. I know it's easy for me to just state this, but work on switching your mindset around. Everything can be shit, but you can be good at the same time.

Some people do not even see the negativity and what I can't do. They see every moment in life as a lesson, and this lesson is not good or bad, it's just life experiences that you learn from.

I know you are depressed.
I want to cheer you up.

Do you move your body?, like working out. For me this have been a big part of my life since it makes both my mind and body feel so good.

I have MUCH initiative to do PE.. but DAMN does it feel slow..

If you keep it up every day and have a plan, then suddenly you will have a big penis.

There is more brothers out there that stay away from relationships until they have their target size. You are not alone in this.

I hope I could help you with something.
Just write back...and talk can make a big difference.

What’s up family..

You are correct this is the family.

Take care.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

@Seemo9 are you still here?

 

[Seemo9]

Thanks for the help bro! Yes I’m still here and not going anywhere.. for me it’s do P.E. Or DIE! And I choose life!
im not waiting on the LM, I’m currently doing everything bundled for an hour a day,then back into my PF u til I find a better ads or vac extender I can wear while at work..i don’t work out as much as I should and that always helps.. but as far as feeling competent- I will be thejudge of that post sex (if they come back, their attitude towards me etc) which I don’t plan on having anytime soon even if the opportunity presented itself. It sucks bc no matter how much I fight it I just can’t seem to ignore my penis size.. it literally is the root of all my sadness u know? The lack of itand all my trauma from the past creeps up and usually attacks me in my dreams/nightmares .. I know 1 day I will look back on all of this pain and hurt and be able to smile, happy that I followed through with my dreams..I will never stop P.E. And I do not believe there is such a thing as “too big”, u less it can’t get erect.. so the sky is the limit for me.. thanks for hearing out my rant

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

Thanks for the help bro! Yes I’m still here and not going anywhere.. for me it’s do P.E. Or DIE! And I choose life!
im not waiting on the LM, I’m currently doing everything bundled for an hour a day,then back into my PF u til I find a better ads or vac extender I can wear while at work..i don’t work out as much as I should and that always helps.. but as far as feeling competent- I will be thejudge of that post sex (if they come back, their attitude towards me etc) which I don’t plan on having anytime soon even if the opportunity presented itself. It sucks bc no matter how much I fight it I just can’t seem to ignore my penis size.. it literally is the root of all my sadness u know? The lack of itand all my trauma from the past creeps up and usually attacks me in my dreams/nightmares .. I know 1 day I will look back on all of this pain and hurt and be able to smile, happy that I followed through with my dreams..I will never stop P.E. And I do not believe there is such a thing as “too big”, u less it can’t get erect.. so the sky is the limit for me.. thanks for hearing out my rant

Just from reading what you just wrote, I know you will get a really big penis. I'm on the same journey myself, 8"x6" is my goal, but they say 9" is the new 8". So how knows? Maybe I will go further then 8".

I understand it's hard when you do not see any of results, but if you keep at it and increase the intensity as you go...this will give you results.
1 hour of bundled stretches is good stuff...

 

[Seemo9]

That’s why 9 is my retirement.. from there its only maintenance.. but I feel the LM will surely help with intensity .. 2 hands are better than one ya know!

 

[DLD]

That’s why 9 is my retirement.. from there its only maintenance.. but I feel the LM will surely help with intensity .. 2 hands are better than one ya know!

Lengthmaster is the best tool for length. It got me where I am and it will get your there too

 

[Seemo9]

@DLD I probably was the 1st order placed on the 3rd .. I kept hitting the refresh button from 2.58pm until about 3:07pm when I finally got through .. In that moment I realized just “how bad” I want this shit (growth in general) and ive never wanting anything in life like this..

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

@DLD I probably was the 1st order placed on the 3rd .. I kept hitting the refresh button from 2.58pm until about 3:07pm when I finally got through .. In that moment I realized just “how bad” I want this shit (growth in general) and ive never wanting anything in life like this..

Just from reading what you just wrote, I know you will get a really big penis.

I told you, that you will get a big penis. It's this kind of dedication that will bring you a big penis....you will get there.

 

[Seemo9]

@squirt_inducer_man thats what we all come here for bro! I’m grateful for this brotherhood!!

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

@squirt_inducer_man thats what we all come here for bro! I’m grateful for this brotherhood!!

Sound like you are in a much better mindset now. That's good.

 

[DLD]

@DLD I probably was the 1st order placed on the 3rd .. I kept hitting the refresh button from 2.58pm until about 3:07pm when I finally got through .. In that moment I realized just “how bad” I want this shit (growth in general) and ive never wanting anything in life like this..

Do you have now?

 

[Seemo9]

No it did not come yet.. first shipments go out on the 15th correct?

 

[DLD]

No it did not come yet.. first shipments go out on the 15th correct?

Oh, ok right around the corner

 

[orgasmic19]

What’s up family.. I’m just checking in to let you guys know where I’m at.. so my cheap noose extender broke, my cheap vac extender broke, and at this point I’m finding myself spinning my wheels each morning before I leave out the door.. sometimes this gets so bad I take 30-45 min trying to figure out how I should wrap, strap into leg attachment (vac losing air) or PF.. I’m not a big fan of PF honestly but I’ve never worn it consistently either.I view it as a placeholder, distinguished from an active gaining tool...anyway the reason I’m making this post is due to the constant thoughts of feeling “small”, first thing in the morning.. I wake up, go to pee, and I’m hesitant to pull it out bc I don’t know if I’ve gained.. this sucks bc of course there is NO noticeable gain and then I’m depressed.. I see a beautiful girl at the gas station, or somewhere in public, I might catch her eye 2, 3 times and first thing that comes to mind is, “go say hi, approach her”, then immediately i have thoughts of how I “can’t” please her with my size(6.2 NBP 5.5 meg) smh these thoughts never leave.. I don’t have a gf nor am I dating anyone so I have MUCH initiative to do PE.. but DAMN does it feel slow.. I don’t have much money, time, nor privacy but I’m doing my best.. waiting on my LM to arrive then buying the mityvac next check! man I’m so tired of this feeling.. also I think I’ve hit a plateau.. still trying to close in on my first inch.. also gotta stop watching adult entertainment it’s making me feel so little but at the same time I’m addicted to it.. I know I’m just rambling at this point but idk where else to turn

Trust me you are big enough to please a woman. Porno sex and real life sex are two different things for example adult entertainment is fake and a lot of acting.

I suggest for you to quit the adult entertainment and be happy with your size and content with yourself and continue PE as a hobby to better yourself.

 

[DLD]

Trust me you are big enough to please a woman. Porno sex and real life sex are two different things for example adult entertainment is fake and a lot of acting.

I suggest for you to quit the adult entertainment and be happy with your size and content with yourself and continue PE as a hobby to better yourself.

Agree

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

Trust me you are big enough to please a woman. Porno sex and real life sex are two different things for example adult entertainment is fake and a lot of acting.

I suggest for you to quit the adult entertainment and be happy with your size and content with yourself and continue PE as a hobby to better yourself.

These words are true because this is what we are dealing with: adult entertainment high-jack your brain in a way that's extremely destructive for you. You desensitize your brain big time...and you get dependent on adult entertainment to function...adult entertainment will make you negate real human connection with a real woman.

This is called: The Chaser Effect. You case virtual ways to stimulate your brain...it's like as any addiction. It's hard to quit since your brain are dependent on it now.

I think this video is the most important of them all. This video will make you understand why you need to quit pornographic material.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

I have decided, I'm going to quit adult entertainment. It's not useful for me any longer.

 

[DLD]

I have decided, I'm going to quit adult entertainment. It's not useful for me any longer.

Good for you...God knows I'm trying

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

Good for you...God knows I'm trying

I have tried to quit for a long time now. But I had enough after that pig picure of a pornstar (link on MOS).

 

[DLD]

I have tried to quit for a long time now. But I had enough after that pig picure of a pornstar (link on MOS).

So happy it has helped you

 

[huge-girth]

I have decided, I'm going to quit adult entertainment. It's not useful for me any longer.

I will never quit adult entertainment. I watch big cock videos for girth work. As long as you abstain from daily masturbation, adult entertainment has nothing on you.

 

[RichardSwellswell]

I have big hands. Can't quit them. I just need to get my cock proportional to my hands

 

[DLD]

I have big hands. Can't quit them. I just need to get my cock proportional to my hands

Keep going strong and they will

 

[Seemo9]

Im trying bro I still love that shit!

 

[DLD]

Im trying bro I still love that shit!

We will always love it because our flesh is weak but if you put your confidence in Christ He will help you. We were never meant to be sin free. But when you have been saved the Spirit will always be there when you fall. Never feel shame as that comes from the enemy, always go to God immediately when you fall and pray for strength. Over time you will progressively get stronger and stronger. Believe me I know as I struggle with adult entertainment daily. Pray for me as I pray for you.

 

[Seemo9]

@squirt_inducer_man wow that’s a great video! I finally watched it after master sting and feeling intense SHAME! This is all so true, and makes me wonder just how much this particular habit loop contributed to my high levels of stress, anxiety, low energy, weaker erections etc..I’ve decided to begin a no cap journey. This MUST happen now!

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

@squirt_inducer_man wow that’s a great video! I finally watched it after master sting and feeling intense SHAME! This is all so true, and makes me wonder just how much this particular habit loop contributed to my high levels of stress, anxiety, low energy, weaker erections etc..I’ve decided to begin a no cap journey. This MUST happen now!

Good to here the video helped you.
All the information she is talking about is also true for smartphone usage as well.

How many people do you see out-and-about that's not using their smartphone and are addicted to it?

How many people are chasing the tasks (looking at their smartphone, watching TV, constant artificially created stimulation) that triggers a realise of "cheap" and fast Dopamine by having their eyes glued to their smartphone?

They have not done anything but nevertheless they get constant release of dopamine in their brain. Dopamine is a neurotransmitter substance in our brain, that helps us stay focused and also be able to accomplish important task in our reality.

That's why we can feel depressed if we overstimulate our brain with these type of artificial things. We have not done anything but we get this release of dopamine.

We need to control what we take in.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

@squirt_inducer_man wow that’s a great video! I finally watched it after master sting and feeling intense SHAME! This is all so true, and makes me wonder just how much this particular habit loop contributed to my high levels of stress, anxiety, low energy, weaker erections etc..I’ve decided to begin a no cap journey. This MUST happen now!

You should not do NoFap completely. It's not good for your erection quality and sperm quality. But by just limit your adult entertainment intake or completely remove it. You will feel better.
Let your body behave more naturally without so much adult entertainment.

 

[huge-girth]

You should not do NoFap completely. It's not good for your erection quality and sperm quality. But by just limit your adult entertainment intake or completely remove it. You will feel better.
Let your body behave more naturally without so much adult entertainment.

I masturbate twice every week (only on off days) on my off days. It helps to keep me sane.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

I masturbate twice every week (only on off days) on my off days. It helps to keep me sane.

When I went on NoFap for 3 week I thought I was becoming insane. A stress in my body built up. The energy needed to be released.

 

[huge-girth]

When I went on NoFap for 3 week I thought I was becoming insane. A stress in my body built up. The energy needed to be released.

I've gone on nofap many times in the past with DLD. It worked against me. Nofap is the weapon that formed against my sexual health.

 

[cdurp]

perhaps the 3 most recent videos by MrRyanmcmahon may help - and also Ronnie Landis 9 most recent videos (up to The Dopamine RESET)

The Real Zodiac-
TREE is the ultimate symbol-
SUN in my BELLY-

 

[DLD]

You should not do NoFap completely. It's not good for your erection quality and sperm quality. But by just limit your adult entertainment intake or completely remove it. You will feel better.
Let your body behave more naturally without so much adult entertainment.

Very wise reply