That was the message above or the lament? every other day 5x2x2 with bathmate. Bathmate blows me up so it looks like 6’ girth but then it shrinks. Have the pump action bathmate, not hand pump. Pumping to 17psi on mity-vac. Still no girth gains, looks bigger after the session but I can see that it is not filling the tube of the mitty-vac up all the way. Can some people not gain girth? Or does it take a really, really, really long time?