Been losing my mind for the last year

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JustBeenLosingIt

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So I've been writing and rewriting this for nearly an hour because it devolves every time into a manifesto of how I've destroyed my mental health by realizing how inferior and unimpressive I am biologically. My mental health is genuinely really bad so if this post is just weird I'll blame it on that. For reasons more than my penis I've fallen really far down a hole and I don't see the point in getting out to live an embarrasing, unremarkable life but besides that...

Long story short I'm incredibly insecure over everything, I have no one to talk to about any of this, I came across this forum a couple hours ago and I was surprised how knowledgable and helpful some of the familiar members are on here. I finally broke and I'm just sending out an SOS on this specific aspect of my body.

I'm 6.2" BPEL and 5 inches in girth. From what I've read that's ""big"" according to the studies, surveys, articles from MSM but average or within average according to communties like MOS which are focused and concerned with this topic. That's my issue. I do not want to be average. I'd rather be a eunich. I don't want the unicorn status 9x7, I just want to really please and impress one woman and I'm dreading that I'm incapable of that without penis enlargement which I'm anxious of anyways.

Obviously life is unpredictable and concrete answers regarding stuff like this is not at 90% accuracy but I just want some kind of input on this.

At my current size, am I at a place where I could provide a woman with genuinely, consistently enjoyable and exciting sex wherein she feels more than satisfied and like I'm more than enough or do I need to grow? If so, is it like a couple decimal points, is it a modest inch and half, or do I need to make serious gains? God, I wish I was just born enough. It's just so defeating and humiliating realizing you cannot provide a woman with the psychological aspect of being with a man she truly desires.

I'm probably mega nuclear autistic and this post reads like gay psycho babble but I'm at my limit here.
 
I think many people feel like this and there is nothing wrong with that. The beautiful thing about PE or our body is that if we dont like it we can change it. You just have to invest enough time working hard/smart and you will have your desired length/girth.

From reading your post I think you just want to be considered big by the majority of women ? You can achieve that.
 
I will be coming back to respond and talk in a few hours, my internet here is too slow and the messages I would be writing are too long and involved for where I'm at right now. Be back in a few.
 
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Well insecurities are the worst enemy,they can keep us away from relationships, "opportunities" is quite hard n dad too when the penis becomes an obsession,but no matter how big you get, do it for you,if you do it to satisfy" people is a waste of time n energy,PE is a private thing.stay consistent...
 
Getbiglonger7 said:
Well insecurities are the worst enemy,they can keep us away from relationships, "opportunities" is quite hard n dad too when the penis becomes an obsession,but no matter how big you get, do it for you,if you do it to satisfy" people is a waste of time n energy,PE is a private thing.stay consistent...
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excellent advice my brother there’s so much truth to what you were saying. Insecurities and obsession is like this are only roadblocks to your success they truly do not exist. Clear your mind and make a solid trajectory for what you want and let nothing get in your way.
 
Getbiglonger7 said:
I'll have my PE sessions everyday,so many real obstacles,but I'm sure they will dissapear
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You have to learn how to get those obstacles out-of-the-way especially if their psychological. You got what it takes my brother and you’re always on the positive side of things.
 
DLD said:
You have to learn how to get those obstacles out-of-the-way especially if their psychological. You got what it takes my brother and you’re always on the positive side of things.
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LOL the truth is that I have no choice I have to stay positive n think straight..
 
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DLD said:
Let the Spirit guide you and you’ll always be making the right choice!
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lol
 
JustBeenLosingIt said:
So I've been writing and rewriting this for nearly an hour because it devolves every time into a manifesto of how I've destroyed my mental health by realizing how inferior and unimpressive I am biologically. My mental health is genuinely really bad so if this post is just weird I'll blame it on that. For reasons more than my penis I've fallen really far down a hole and I don't see the point in getting out to live an embarrasing, unremarkable life but besides that...

Long story short I'm incredibly insecure over everything, I have no one to talk to about any of this, I came across this forum a couple hours ago and I was surprised how knowledgable and helpful some of the familiar members are on here. I finally broke and I'm just sending out an SOS on this specific aspect of my body.

I'm 6.2" BPEL and 5 inches in girth. From what I've read that's ""big"" according to the studies, surveys, articles from MSM but average or within average according to communties like MOS which are focused and concerned with this topic. That's my issue. I do not want to be average. I'd rather be a eunich. I don't want the unicorn status 9x7, I just want to really please and impress one woman and I'm dreading that I'm incapable of that without penis enlargement which I'm anxious of anyways.

Obviously life is unpredictable and concrete answers regarding stuff like this is not at 90% accuracy but I just want some kind of input on this.

At my current size, am I at a place where I could provide a woman with genuinely, consistently enjoyable and exciting sex wherein she feels more than satisfied and like I'm more than enough or do I need to grow? If so, is it like a couple decimal points, is it a modest inch and half, or do I need to make serious gains? God, I wish I was just born enough. It's just so defeating and humiliating realizing you cannot provide a woman with the psychological aspect of being with a man she truly desires.

I'm probably mega nuclear autistic and this post reads like gay psycho babble but I'm at my limit here.
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9x7 is godzilla huge. 6.2 bpel is big. As I've said in past times. I've had sex with women and it hit them badly. One bled not too long ago. We fell off in April though. It's a curse honestly to be huge. Anything over 9 is for show. Girth is king though, but length tends to hurt alot of women. Plus you're leaving alot out in the cold. 8.5nbpel elect length x6 should be your goal tbh.
 
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9x7 is godzilla huge. 6.2 bpel is big. As I've said in past times. I've had sex with women and it hit them badly. One bled not too long ago. We fell off in April though. It's a curse honestly to be huge. Anything over 9 is for show. Girth is king though, but length tends to hurt alot of women. Plus you're leaving alot out in the cold. 8.5nbpel elect length x6 should be your goal tbh.
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agree ?
 
Majority of women never even had anything over 7 to be frank with you. Ones I've personally been with have never had bigger and it can get painful for them. Some can take it with alot of lube. Us guys who're in the so called,"BIG," league are a very very very low population. If your girth is bigger than 5 inches ( which in my opinion is big ), the chances of a woman getting a man with a huge girth is pretty slim. My goal was 9.5 x 6.5 roughly 10 years ago ( Yes and I'm a testament to still keeping my gains despite absent maintenance work during those years ), but I came to the realization that 9.5 was just way too monstrous for a ton of women out there. But a huge girth will get them really addicted to you!
 
keepingitbig said:
Majority of women never even had anything over 7 to be frank with you. Ones I've personally been with have never had bigger and it can get painful for them. Some can take it with alot of lube. Us guys who're in the so called,"BIG," league are a very very very low population. If your girth is bigger than 5 inches ( which in my opinion is big ), the chances of a woman getting a man with a huge girth is pretty slim. My goal was 9.5 x 6.5 roughly 10 years ago ( Yes and I'm a testament to still keeping my gains despite absent maintenance work during those years ), but I came to the realization that 9.5 was just way too monstrous for a ton of women out there. But a huge girth will get them really addicted to you!
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I picked this as the best answer!
 
JustBeenLosingIt,

We all have our doubts, but it's important uou understand that male enhancement is not a substiute for mental hygiene. If your concerns are unmanageable then your best move would be to seek out professional help in order to get your priorities straight. Once your concerns are at a manageable level, you should be able to train without causing yourself further emotional harm- and make gains.
 
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Actually as you have stated before we all know the perfect size 7*6" is ok gaining girth can be hard but is not that hard after all..
 
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I got the best results using Pumps & Extenders in the MOS store.. they give the best results for legnth and girth
 
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