Advice please

[Chris82army]

Hi, very (very) new to PE and I am currently just learning manual stretching and I’ve been pumping for about 4 days now.

Initial did 3 x 5 mins of pumping which massaging inbetween. Yesterday I did 15 mins straight and now I have loads of red spots all over my glans. I’m guessing i went too hard? I don’t have a gage on mine, I usuallly just pump slowly until I am unable to pump anymore. The length of my penis actually only grows slightly longer than it would when I am hard from being turned on. Just looks a lot fatter.

Started this journey as I asked my wife if she’s had anyone bigger than me before and her reply was ‘yeah I’ve had a big dick before... it was my ex’ (the guy she was with just before we met) ??‍ Wish I never asked. Just struggling to get over it and it’s becoming a bit if a problem. So silly I know... but thought I’d give this a go and see if it’ll give me some confidence back.

Thanks in advice

 

[Blackpussylover]

The red spots will fade once you get accustomed to the pump. Just stick with the 5x5x3 that’s the best girth routine.....
Man never ask a women about past dicks!!!????? it shows weakness and she will she it and pounce on it!!!

 

[Chris82army]

The red spots will fade once you get accustomed to the pump. Just stick with the 5x5x3 that’s the best girth routine.....
Man never ask a women about past dicks!!!????? it shows weakness and she will she it and pounce on it!!!

Ha Ha...I know, I should never have asked ??‍ Lesson learnt!!! ?
Thanks for the advice ???

 

[Blackpussylover]

No problem brother! I suffered with size insecurities for years. Especially since I’ve mostly been in interracial relationships WM/BF.... you know the whole BBC myth!!! Just keep up the hard work and the gains will come!

 

[Chris82army]

No problem brother! I suffered with size insecurities for years. Especially since I’ve mostly been in interracial relationships WM/BF.... you know the whole BBC myth!!! Just keep up the hard work and the gains will come!

Thanks, mate! With being new to all this, it’s hard to know what to believe and what not too. Have you made much gains? And if so, what has been you way to success.

 

[49-er]

Yea stick with 5x5x5 works for most and will stop the spots, again if you can add some SSJ's inbetween once you come accustomed this will benefit massively.

As for the ex question, know how you feel my friend, took me years to get over it and tbh still gets to me, one reason I'm here

 

[Chris82army]

its nice (kinda) to know I’m not the only one feeling the pain ??‍? massive mistake. Talk about bruised ego. My wife hasn’t been with many people at all, I’m an ex squaddie and put it around a bit. Just assumed I would be the biggest and was after a bit of an ego boost.... no idea why I would think that, I’m not even that bloody big ???‍

 

[Blackpussylover]

I’ve made a 3/4” length gain since Dec 2019 that’s when I really got serious which brought me to just under a 7”BPEL.

 

[Chris82army]

I’ve made a 3/4” length gain since Dec 2019 that’s when I really got serious which brought me to just under a 7”BPEL.

what’s your routine, mate?

 

[49-er]

What's your stats chris

 

[Chris82army]

What's your stats chris

still learning what all those abbreviations mean ha. But I’m 6.5” what fully erect and 5” girth. When I use my pump it goes upto 6 3/4” inside the pump.

 

[49-er]

still learning what all those abbreviations mean ha. But I’m 6.5” what fully erect and 5” girth. When I use my pump it goes upto 6 3/4” inside the pump.

Thats a decent size my friend, certainly above average, even though women may of had a bigger one doesn't mean it was more enjoyable, by the way don't ask her tho lol

 

[Chris82army]

Thats a decent size my friend, certainly above average, even though women may of had a bigger one doesn't mean it was more enjoyable, by the way don't ask her tho LOL

Thanks pal see you’re similar stats?
I have always known I’m slightly above average, and never been arsed about it before. And I know bigger is not always better.... but still... fcuking gutted ?? my own fault. Hope it doesn’t take years for me to get over it. Still licking my wounds after 2 months ?

 

[49-er]

Yea mind games,case of you know your above average but not big enough to be classed as big. I'm same I'm getting bigger slowly but long way to go especially when I see guys 8" and bigger coming here to get bigger, think like what!!!!

 

[Chris82army]

Yea mind games,case of you know your above average but not big enough to be classed as big. I'm same I'm getting bigger slowly but long way to go especially when I see guys 8" and bigger coming here to get bigger, think like what!!!!

I know mate.... if I was 8” I’d have gotten the answer I wished I’d got from my wife and I wouldn’t me sneaking off to use a cock pump at every opportunity I get ?

have you made any gains yet? And if so, how?

 

[49-er]

I know mate.... if I was 8” I’d have gotten the answer I wished I’d got from my wife and I wouldn’t me sneaking off to use a cock pump at every opportunity I get ?

have you made any gains yet? And if so, how?

Gone from 5.75 to 7.2 BPEL. Mainly from just manual stretches and Jelqs, bit of bathmate over time but not consistantly

 

[Chris82army]

Ahh... so maybe you are bigger.

What’s the NBPEL and BPEL? I just measured from the base to the top when erect and it was 6.5”

 

[49-er]

Ruler pushed to the centre of public bone should be best way to measure everytime, this is BPEL

 

[Chris82army]

Looks like I’ve got a lot of work to do! ??

 

[49-er]

Around the same stats, we both have work to do dependant on goals, but if we stick to it we will get there

 

[DLD]

Looks like I’ve got a lot of work to do! ??

That’s a good thing not a bad thing! There’s so much here to choose from and there’s so many ways to make this a very exciting journey.