cladre60;761001 said:theman6 how much are you masturbating or having sex? If you're masturbating and having sex maybe reducing/stopping the masturbation would help. Many hear have said edging without cumming at the end of the session helps EQ.
How often are you pumping, how long of sessions, and how intense?
Any changes in your life? Extra stress? Working too much? Change in diet or exercise? All of these can have an effect on EQ.
theman6;761015 said:I have to masterbate alot because I need to get hard in order to pump. And i think thats what is stressing me out. Whether its 15 min or 25 min, i have to spend all that time every day playing with my penis and chemicals and i think it is wearing my mind and penis out.
Can you pump the bathmate soft and still gain?
Chaoskampf;761022 said:I have never understood why you would need an erection in order to pump because at least in my case the vacuum makes the penis expand, not the erection. Sometimes an erection is helpful for entering the pump because it is easier to create the seal with a penis already erect.
I did edging without cumming for a long period of time, during the time of jelqing - back then I didn't have a pump. In the first week the erection can be better at times but over time it always became normal again. I think it is placebo and only appears to bring better erection when done for a short while.
But during that time I could edge seeing my pleasure level going through the roof, literally. I became extremely horny. I thought that masturbation was better than having sex. I understood that no woman could give me that pleasure. December 2016 was one of the last sessions that went like this. Later, for some reason, I couldn't go that far anymore. Before I hit these high levels of stimulation I have to cum. Somehow the start of my pumping career must have destroyed the skill. But it could be imagination. Still I can't stop pumping + I tried to reignite the extreme pleasure sessions after the summer break (where I didn't pump for 1.5 months) - still his never came back and I didn't experiment too long due to lack of patience. During that time also a shift in consciousness happened in which I lost my feeling of guilt for �naked people movies�.
Chaoskampf;761022 said:I have never understood why you would need an erection in order to pump because at least in my case the vacuum makes the penis expand, not the erection. Sometimes an erection is helpful for entering the pump because it is easier to create the seal with a penis already erect.
I did edging without cumming for a long period of time, during the time of jelqing - back then I didn't have a pump. In the first week the erection can be better at times but over time it always became normal again. I think it is placebo and only appears to bring better erection when done for a short while.
But during that time I could edge seeing my pleasure level going through the roof, literally. I became extremely horny. I thought that masturbation was better than having sex. I understood that no woman could give me that pleasure. December 2016 was one of the last sessions that went like this. Later, for some reason, I couldn't go that far anymore. Before I hit these high levels of stimulation I have to cum. Somehow the start of my pumping career must have destroyed the skill. But it could be imagination. Still I can't stop pumping + I tried to reignite the extreme pleasure sessions after the summer break (where I didn't pump for 1.5 months) - still his never came back and I didn't experiment too long due to lack of patience. During that time also a shift in consciousness happened in which I lost my feeling of guilt for �naked people movies�.
theman6;761093 said:You guys clearly do not understand what I am saying. I apologize for maybe not being clear enough.
I have to obviously masterbate in order to get hard so i can get into the bathmate. However the large ammounts of masterbation just to get into the pump is tiring out and desensitizing my penis. It is also weakening my erections.
I will not use �naked people movies� as �naked people movies� is damaging to the mind and Id actually prefer to not even masterbate and just have sex but I have to masterbate in order to pump. All this masterbation is messing with me.
I am a recovering �naked people movies� and masterbation addict so masterbating 15-20 min a day just to get pumped and than see my temp gains go away in an hour is driving me mad. I cant stop because i have a skinny penis.
I dont understand cause it seems last week i was finally starting to gain. My penis was girthier, but this week im back to my original skinny penis.
theman6;761111 said:Prob around 4.5-4.6
You do not understand what I am saying.
I do not masterbate, i only masterbate in order to get hard for the bathmate.
huge-girth;761101 said:Do you mind if I ask what's your current girth size?
Chaoskampf;761144 said:So you are probably using Hercules or X20 or X30.
I would go in flaccid, pump for two minutes. Take it out, then the expansion would already be better. Then you can go in one more time. As I said I don't need the erection for sealing. The Bathmate setup is having balls outside of the pump. Don't like that too much, always gives problems when the base of the penis isn't thick enough.
The temp gains go away quickly, that is normal. At some days however they stay for a couple of hours. Still the gains can already be there but can't be seen since they are very small.
Many people will report that they have trouble getting erect once they are in the shower. Maybe you have the same.
It's difficult sometimes. I think you will find the answer yourself after experimenting for some time. But I don't think that 4.5" girth is skinny so please clear your mind of this. I think this thought is more disturbing as the �naked people movies� you refuse.
theman6;761093 said:You guys clearly do not understand what I am saying. I apologize for maybe not being clear enough.
I have to obviously masterbate in order to get hard so i can get into the bathmate. However the large ammounts of masterbation just to get into the pump is tiring out and desensitizing my penis. It is also weakening my erections.
I will not use �naked people movies� as �naked people movies� is damaging to the mind and Id actually prefer to not even masterbate and just have sex but I have to masterbate in order to pump. All this masterbation is messing with me.
I am a recovering �naked people movies� and masterbation addict so masterbating 15-20 min a day just to get pumped and than see my temp gains go away in an hour is driving me mad. I cant stop because i have a skinny penis.
I dont understand cause it seems last week i was finally starting to gain. My penis was girthier, but this week im back to my original skinny penis.