Jason1

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Does anyone know any good ways to seduce a younger chick. I'm young myself but I mean a chick a little younger that is kind of out of my peer group.
 
Don't mean to hijack your thread, but on the topic of young girls...I am 18, and I will tend to be with girls from 17-21 (give or take a few yrs). A fair percentage of these girls will be virgins, and I was wondering if my 7.5+x5.5 would seem big?
 
Dude, why are you asking such a dumb question. All the info you need will be here in the forum. Your slightly above average. It depends if the girl has been with anyone else and or how much taller the 2 of you are 2 each other. If shes 5 foot, she'll think its big.
 

penguinsfan

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Jason1, I am no one to give romantic advice, but I must give a thumbs up to your tastes. All things being equal, younger chicks absolutely rule. As a friend of mine would say, suppose you end up spending the rest of your life with a chick you're dating. Hey, that may be looking forward and indeed it is, but at some point it happens to the vast majority of us. Let's say down the road you're 35. Would you rather wake-up next to a 30 year-old, or a 40 year-old? That's the difference 5 years can make.

Of course, the problem is that younger chicks are not always mature enough. They may be fine for a hit and run, if that's your thing, but not for a relationship. I'm at the age where I will look for marriage qualities in a woman. This doesn't mean I'm looking to rush into marriage, as I think people should date at least 2-3 years before saying "I do", but it means I'm old enough that if a girl radiates immaturity than I won't give her a moment of thought, because it obviously wouldn't go anywhere.
 

zeiofen

Banned
The best thing would be for you too act like you are in their peer group and have similar interests.

How much is the age gap here though ?

You pretty much have to pretend that you are interests in her type of music or clothin, or TV interests. And most likely, if there more than a 5-10 year difference, you won't have much in common.

If you are 40, and she is 20, and you have money and security and you are fairly handsome and slick, you can pull it off. I've seen lots of my girls my age running off with older guys driving Beemer's and shit. They are decently attractive guys, but I think these girls are just gold diggers.

If you ain't got the loot, I don't know what to say, it's not likely you will have stuff in common to talk about.
 
How young we talking about here?

If you're over 18 and with anyone under 16, you need to be shot. If you're posting here, you should be 18 anyway. Girls at 15 and under have no reason sleeping with anyone. Didn't mean to hijack the thread, but older guys going after underage girls pisses me off.
 

zeiofen

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Yeah absolutely, it pisses me off too.

Recently in Atlanta, this 18 year old black guy had sex with a 15 year old white girl, and got 10 years!! That's a little harsh, as it was consensual, just statutory. I think 10 years is harsh, and I think this is one situation where the Race Card can be fairly played. They say he was a sexual predator, well what do you expect from a Black Athlete! :D that's a given. You know like OJ and Kobe.

Because when I was 18, i actually was dating a 15 year old, however I was only 18 for 5 months until she turned 16. Because we had been legally (i think - rape laws are so confusing) fucking when i was 17 and she was 15, but then i turned 18 what was i supposed to do, just dump her?

Because she was an old 15 year old, and i was a young 18 year old, see what i'm saying ? 2 1/2 years apart. It was still illegal, and damn glad I never got 10 years for it.
 

Jason1

Member
Nah don't worry. I'm eighteen and the chicks I 'm thinking of are sixteen-seventeen. People around where I live hang out with their age group.
 

penguinsfan

Active member
Originally posted by cupidvalentino
Because when I was 18, i actually was dating a 15 year old, however I was only 18 for 5 months until she turned 16. Because we had been legally (i think - rape laws are so confusing) fucking when i was 17 and she was 15, but then i turned 18 what was i supposed to do, just dump her?

Because she was an old 15 year old, and i was a young 18 year old, see what i'm saying ? 2 1/2 years apart. It was still illegal, and damn glad I never got 10 years for it.
Good point. It's not like I'm going to view you as some sicko just because you turned 18 before she turned 16. To some point, it's an arbitrary standard set by lawmakers in an attempt to keep men from targeting females that are too young to really make an intelligent decision regarding sexual activity. It's impossible to apply such things to every individual with such a law, but there needs to be some standard.

Age of consent is kind of a funny concept. For one thing, it has become much more of a cultural thing. At one time, here in the US, it was not uncommon for a girl of 14-16 to marry a man well beyond her in years. In fact, there are places in the world today where it would not be frowned upon for a 16 year old to marry a 30 year old man. These are societies that are different from the US, but I'm not talking tribal Africa either. The greatest difference is that women there often have an almost universal desire for child bearing and a career is very much second on the priority list. Therefore, it is not uncommon for a woman to be in a relationship with a much older man, with the blessing of everyone. Such women are also raised very different in terms of social maturity. You would likely find them at home preparing meals for the family and managing the household, while her parents work. I can guarantee you that you'll not find them meandering through the local mall, dressed like Britney Spears on her slutiest day, uttering "Whatever!" through the cell phone that seems permanently attached to her ear.

The thing about American society that has changed in the last 100-150 years that has not changed around the rest of the world is the idea of adolescence. At one time, the time between childhood and preparing to take on real adult responsibilities was a fine line. Today, our culture glorifies what truly amounts to celebrating a period in life that is often reckless immaturity. I'm not necessarily condemning it, nor advocating it, but it is accepting as a part of our culture that is here to stay.

Anyhow, from a purely biological standpoint, I can't say it's sickening for a 30 year old to be having sex with a 16 year old. That has happened, and still happens, for thousands of years. I could be wrong about this, but from what I've read, I believe that old-fashioned religious sects such as the Amish frequently marry individuals within these age ranges. I'm pretty sure that if I were to convert to the Amish faith, where they arrange marriages, they might find a 16 year-old for my old ass. Given that my days of logging onto the MOS forum and listening to Metallica would be replaced by milking cows and logging wood, it's not even an option. rofl

That all being said, under any remotely normal circumstances, any man in our society that seeks girls of that age group has problems and needs help. They are obviously not of the mindset to make rational judgments about any kind of significant relationship. Interestingly, I predict that the age of consent might actually lower in the coming years, through our court system. With the amount of sex education in our school system, someone accused of statutory rape or a similar charge will argue that one should actually be able to make an intelligent decision at a younger age, that the current standards are archaic. I think that would be a bad thing.
 

samzman

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cupidvalentino said:
Yeah absolutely, it pisses me off too.

Recently in Atlanta, this 18 year old black guy had sex with a 15 year old white girl, and got 10 years!! That's a little harsh, as it was consensual, just statutory. I think 10 years is harsh, and I think this is one situation where the Race Card can be fairly played. They say he was a sexual predator, well what do you expect from a Black Athlete! :D that's a given. You know like OJ and Kobe.

Because when I was 18, i actually was dating a 15 year old, however I was only 18 for 5 months until she turned 16. Because we had been legally (i think - rape laws are so confusing) fucking when i was 17 and she was 15, but then i turned 18 what was i supposed to do, just dump her?

Because she was an old 15 year old, and i was a young 18 year old, see what i'm saying ? 2 1/2 years apart. It was still illegal, and damn glad I never got 10 years for it.
yeah dud ei went through the same thing with my girlfriend. i didn't dump her. and it was worth it :D
 

penguinsfan

Active member
samzman said:
yeah dud ei went through the same thing with my girlfriend. i didn't dump her. and it was worth it :D
Nor should anyone have expected you to do so. The laws that are meant to protect children from predators have undoubtedly become a little overbearing in certain situations such as these examples. Like I said, with all the sex education in the public school system, one could actually make the legal argument that the age of consent should be lowered. I think that is actually a tactic employed by the PR department and lawyers for NAMBLA.
 
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stillwantmore

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A lot of it has more to do with how mature she is in her head vs. her age. Within reason of course. My girlfriend is 19, I'm 25 and she's one of the most mature women I've dated. I dont have the money or the "beemer" .....yet...and I snagged her. :D.
 
stillwantmore said:
A lot of it has more to do with how mature she is in her head vs. her age. Within reason of course. My girlfriend is 19, I'm 25 and she's one of the most mature women I've dated. I dont have the money or the "beemer" .....yet...and I snagged her. :D.
Hey SWM any pic posts in the future? You ALWAYS hook up with the Hotties!!
 
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georginho

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Girl 15 - Guy 19 would you say that's wrong ?
What about 17 - 21 ?
I think if their(girls) over 16 and as long as the gap is no more than 5 years or so.
 

bigbutnottoo

Active member
My rule of thumb was 2 years difference if they were under 18, then free reign over 18. So If they turned 17 before I turned 19, it was on. But for the most part if you are college aged, I dont understand dating high school chicks. I was dating grad school chicks.
 

penguinsfan

Active member
I'm 29 and pursuing a girl that is 20. If it makes any difference, her last boyfriend of a few months ago was 37, so she likes older guys. I would have asked her out last summer, as she is such a sweet girl, but I assumed the age difference was too much.
 

wantphun

New member
I'm 40, my current GF just turned 24 last month, 16 year difference. Not looking to marry or anything as I just got divorced from my 30 yo wife. I just try to be myself and relate to them, I think most women at that age are fed up with men their age with only one thing on the mind, if you act "genuinely" interested at what they have to say, the Pussy will follow!

My girlfriend before this one was 23, I'm no stud and just discovered this site so right now, I'm Average size, but there are alot of things about sex/sensual/etc. other than sheer size of your dick. I will be working on increasing my size a little, not a lot, my 40 years of experience has taught me that the "Majority" of women like average, not all but most I have encountered, and when its me out on the hunt, I don't care about you.

Staying in shape and having a muscular body helps with the younger women as well, they are fascinated by the whole package.
 

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