Just a thought I wanted to put out there for all of us guys who are so insecure, that stemmed from a conversation with my girlfriend. Somehow we got on the topic of my past girlfriends, or actually, it was a more general discussion about things that we haven't tried sexually, that we may or may not want to do together. Basically about our desires and fantasies. And on a couple of topics, she asked if I had ever done that, because she hadn't, and there were a couple that she said that she probably wouldn't do. And when I told her that I had done those before, she became very insecure saying that she must not be as adventurous as my past girlfriends, and said, see - women can be insecure too.
I assured her that she definitely had nothing to be insecure about. I said it's like me worrying about her past boyfriends, about whether they were bigger and better. She said that she only had one that was bigger, and that he definitely was not better, and that he just simply hurt her. Being in her 30's, she has been around, and unlike younger girls, who simply think bigger is better, she said that for her personally, that wasn't the case at all.
At 7 x 5.5, she says she doesn't want me to be bigger, because it can already be a little uncomfortable in certain positions. So anyway, here I have always been very insecure, when there is absolutely no reason to be so.
Then I got to thinking, and I think this is the main point I want to make, especially in relation to guys who worry if their girl has had bigger in the past, and that it was better. One of my past girlfriends was very tight. I mean really tight, could hardly get it in. But that in itself, whereas it might have felt a little better in a way, did not make the experience the best sex I have had. It was far from it. Not that she was terrible, she wasn't. She was really good overall. But it just came nowhere near to current girlfriend, who is nice and snug, but the overall experience, is just unlike any woman that I have been with.
So, even if the tighter pussy, in and of itself, felt somewhat better, that in no way takes away from my current girlfriend, because trust me, she is so amazing. I don't sit and think about that girl in my past, wishing my current girlfriend was that tight. And just like bigger isn't necessarily bigger, tighter isn't either. In fact, it presents problems, and can make things difficult and uncomfortable. And even if in a way, it was better, it just simply is a small part of a larger equation.
So anyway, I guess this is just to point out, that regardless of her past, just like regardless or your past, there is really no reason to fret and think that the end all and be all, is in the size of your dick - especially in long term relationships. One night stands might be a little different, but in serious relationships, your dick, unless extremely small, or extremely large, is not going to be an issue at all. If it is an issue, it is only an issue in your mind.
Think about it for a second, do you think and worry more about if you are good enough, or if she is good enough? That's right, 99% of the time, if you worry, you are worrying if you are good enough. And the same goes for her, in your mind, you are thinking that she's thinking in the back of her mind that some guy in her past was bigger and better, when that's the furthest thing from her mind. She's worrying if she is good enough, and probably more specifically, if she looks good enough.
So everyone needs to just stop worrying, and get back to having amazing mind blowing sex!!! (i'm speaking to myself, more than everyone else, but just wanted to pass these thoughts on in case they might help put someone else's mind to ease)
I assured her that she definitely had nothing to be insecure about. I said it's like me worrying about her past boyfriends, about whether they were bigger and better. She said that she only had one that was bigger, and that he definitely was not better, and that he just simply hurt her. Being in her 30's, she has been around, and unlike younger girls, who simply think bigger is better, she said that for her personally, that wasn't the case at all.
At 7 x 5.5, she says she doesn't want me to be bigger, because it can already be a little uncomfortable in certain positions. So anyway, here I have always been very insecure, when there is absolutely no reason to be so.
Then I got to thinking, and I think this is the main point I want to make, especially in relation to guys who worry if their girl has had bigger in the past, and that it was better. One of my past girlfriends was very tight. I mean really tight, could hardly get it in. But that in itself, whereas it might have felt a little better in a way, did not make the experience the best sex I have had. It was far from it. Not that she was terrible, she wasn't. She was really good overall. But it just came nowhere near to current girlfriend, who is nice and snug, but the overall experience, is just unlike any woman that I have been with.
So, even if the tighter pussy, in and of itself, felt somewhat better, that in no way takes away from my current girlfriend, because trust me, she is so amazing. I don't sit and think about that girl in my past, wishing my current girlfriend was that tight. And just like bigger isn't necessarily bigger, tighter isn't either. In fact, it presents problems, and can make things difficult and uncomfortable. And even if in a way, it was better, it just simply is a small part of a larger equation.
So anyway, I guess this is just to point out, that regardless of her past, just like regardless or your past, there is really no reason to fret and think that the end all and be all, is in the size of your dick - especially in long term relationships. One night stands might be a little different, but in serious relationships, your dick, unless extremely small, or extremely large, is not going to be an issue at all. If it is an issue, it is only an issue in your mind.
Think about it for a second, do you think and worry more about if you are good enough, or if she is good enough? That's right, 99% of the time, if you worry, you are worrying if you are good enough. And the same goes for her, in your mind, you are thinking that she's thinking in the back of her mind that some guy in her past was bigger and better, when that's the furthest thing from her mind. She's worrying if she is good enough, and probably more specifically, if she looks good enough.
So everyone needs to just stop worrying, and get back to having amazing mind blowing sex!!! (i'm speaking to myself, more than everyone else, but just wanted to pass these thoughts on in case they might help put someone else's mind to ease)