From my understanding, girth would be more desirable because with more girth you'd be stimulating more total area inside the vagina. Also, the sense of being stretched out is extremely arousing to many women, as well as it is visually stimulating for them to look at a thick penis.
There's probably more reasons that I wasn't able to come up with, so I'll leave those to some of the other members .
Plus as we all know...women dont really like blow jobs....so, the thicker the dick, the easier it is to play the "ouch, my jaw hurts" bull....or to say "gaw, theres no way I'll get that in my mouth!". . ?? Yea what papercut said.
Originally posted by stillwantmore Plus as we all know...women dont really like blow jobs....so, the thicker the dick, the easier it is to play the "ouch, my jaw hurts" bull....or to say "gaw, theres no way I'll get that in my mouth!".
I've met plenty, friends and lovers, that said length is equally important to them, and more than a few that said even a guy has a gigantic girth, if he isn't long enough to really stroke during sex it's not that great. They often sight the need to "feel something deep" during sex. Many women don't like the sensation of being totally ripped, especially for vigorous or longer sex sessions. I think that the girth always beats length thing came about kind of retroactively to all the emphasis on length . a good length and decent girth is preferable to a disproportionate dick on either side of the spectrum.
My original argument for length is that the longer penis will give more area rubbing against the G-spot and nerve endings with each thrust. The analogy may not be perfect, but think about sanding a piece of wood. Get a 2" piece of sand paper and then get an 8" piece. Sand a board and see which seems to be creating more heat and friction. I remember reading this one time on some Penis Enlargement site, book, or something and it made some sense.
Well, I wasn't talking about spaghetti dick. Obviously, being very deficient in either length or girth is going to take away pleasure. I think everyone here is set on obtaining a decent amount of both length and girth.
Swank hit the nail on the head. If you're 5x5.5, the girl probably won't enjoy it too much, lol. Women just love big ones in general. There was an old joke about there being two kinds of dicks. That old sex expert talked about it on conan. She said there are long, skinny ones and short, fat ones. Women love the long ones because they "love to be penetrated" and "women don't like to have some short, fat penis rolling around the top satisfying only itself".
Who cares, get to stretching and get to squeezing. lol
Here's a thought. Do you think part of it could be psychological? I mean, let's imagine to cases where one guy is 5.5"x4.5" and the other guy is 8"x6.5". Suppose the smaller guy is even much more experienced and better at techniques. Perhaps even the sight of the larger cock and feel during foreplay gets her that much more excited, thereby increasing her chances for satisfaction.
Originally posted by penguinsfan Here's a thought. Do you think part of it could be psychological? I mean, let's imagine to cases where one guy is 5.5"x4.5" and the other guy is 8"x6.5". Suppose the smaller guy is even much more experienced and better at techniques. Perhaps even the sight of the larger cock and feel during foreplay gets her that much more excited, thereby increasing her chances for satisfaction.
It is psychological too, but I really don`t see how a guy with a 5" dick could be more experienced than a guy with a 8" dick because the one with 8" is certainly more attractive and had sex more times than the one with the smaller dick and I don`t see how you can please [I mean for real, not struggle for 10h to make her come once] a woman with a 5" dick because it`s just not meant to happen..
We don`t have to worry about this anyway, cuz we have Penis Enlargement. You need an 8incher or maybe more. This is why you Penis Enlargement
anoher 1/4 inch of girth, of a full inch of NBP length . . . i suspect most of us might like the length despite our feeling on girth, unless you were already like 8X4.5 and then things might start to look a bit odd . . .
plus, if i ever meet any girl that is familiar with the concept of total penis volume, well frankly i'm not apt to want a girl that has put that much thought into dicks!
on that note, i've also been thinking that the stuff about total volume is slightly overrated. women care a good deal about shape, overall appearence, hardness, vascularity, ect. another 2 inches of cubic volume might mean a slightly bigger dick, but it's not going to make or break you in bed. you have to have the right dick that hits the right spots on a certain girl.
that being said, i'd also say theres not really any such thing as a universally perfect penis. there might be some variations that have the highest distribution of favorable reactions, but across the board there's no perfect size, shape, ect. . . . so just make yours what you want it to be. if you want the girth, go for it. if you want to be a long guy go for that, do both, whatever. just don't assume that theres a way to make your dick a skeleton key to every vagina on earth.