Psychology why did YOU start penis enlargement?

Tell you the truth, I started cuz a girl said I was big! Here and there girls would say it and then had another girlfriend say all girls say that, and figured I was in the nornal realm for women to say it, cuz I was by no means a monster when I started (or now). I loved the way it felt tho, and the idea of being honestly "big" as I am not so tall (5'9") so it's fun to try and surprise/exceed their expectations, cuz regardless, I'd say most women sunbsonsciously think taller guys are usually bigger downstairs. Long story short, I started simply to improve myself.

e8m6cb;283281 said:

I started because I had a small penis. It seems that most of you guys are straight. I didn't know that straight guys had a complex about that. A lot of gay men are size queens, amoung other judgements made about the body, age. And then there are money queens.

What was the most hurtful to me was hearing a boyfriend talk about the men he had sex with. He really got into baseball bat sized men. I guess I really have a lot of mixed emotions about it. I like well endowed men. But It really helps if they guy is handsome, and takes care of himself, personality counts a lot for me. I actually like faces and personality above all else, and if he happens to have a package, well thats a plus!

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Really? Is that true? I'm straight, but I was always wondering what gay men thought about penis size. I'm not gay, but I'll admit I have a thing for dickgirls. And thinking about it, even though I've never been with a dickgirl, I can imagine the fun thought of having more to play with and what not. If a dickgirl had a really small penis, I'd say "fuck it" and play with it anyway. She'd love it I'm sure. Well that's just great...it sucks to have a small penis for gay men too, huh?

I got into Penis Enlargement...well, I haven't actually started yet but I made the effort of joining up, right? I'm pretty sure I'll start sometime soon. At first I was debating whether or not I should really do it. The first and very good reason I had was because I wanted to "stuff" my girl. And women like bigger penises, even if they are like my girlfriend and really don't have a preference...because hell, as a guy that likes dickgirls, you have more to play with. Of course I was imagining what it would be like to have a micropenis, and how no matter how much my girl loved me and didn't care about penis size, the fact would exist that you wouldn't be able to have normal sex with her no matter what. It goes beyond the fact of jealousy of guys that have bigger penises, and the fact that there are tons more men with bigger penises...it can also go into the areas of "I have a really small penis, therefore I can hardly get a chance at reproducing, therefore the reason I'm on this earth is Nature's joke." Penis Enlargement is a new thing, so that means there were billions of men in the past that dealt with this problem and I'm still sort of in this depressing state of the fact that there was an even bigger problem a long time ago than now. But even today there are lots of women that don't know just how much of a problem it is with men that have smaller penises. This may be just me looking at it the wrong way but if you're a woman, there's ALWAYS some guy that has a fetish for exactly what you are. Even if you're fat, old, ugly, and are dying of cancer, there's always a guy that has a crazy fetish for that. No girl out there has a fetish for small penises unless they are looking to cuckold you. And that's just witchcraft in my opinion. Judgmental women who use men only like big penises and say that, but even nicer girls who care less about penis size still like big ones. Even girls like my girlfriend who don't care about penis size in the littlest bit...well, that's the best kind of girl I say, but hell, even if it wasn't her first time with me she'll start comparing. Just the thought of that pisses me off. It's not women's fault. It's nature's fault. Why the hell do guys have different sized penises anyway? Why can't our penises all be roughly the same size like our heads?
Therefore, all we can do is improve ourselves and weep at the thought that there are judgmental women out there and women that like bigger penises but don't want to admit it because it's nature's joke. And I was told by someone on this board that "No matter what, self-improvement is always a good thing." You're only going to be in one body your whole life, so you might as well make it the best body. You may start wondering if you were meant to have that kind of body, why weren't you given it at the times you could use it? This...I haven't figured out the answer to. But in the meantime working to improve is the best I can do. That's why I'm here.

You'll never be forever happy if you base your happiness on a physical object. Matter changes. You are more than your physical body (it is merely a vessel for our souls to experience this physical world).

Hmm lets see....Well im 19 years old and not to sounds cocky or anything but I am very good looking and I pretty much get the girls I want. Well heres my story...when I was around 16 or 17 years old me and one of my friends wanted to experience having sex together (we were both virgins) well we had sex there were no problems I was able to stay erect and everything. Now jumping ahead a couple of months we were in my house and she had just broke up with her ex about 1 month ago and we were in my room about to have sex again and still everything was fine, we "did it" no worries. Well for whatever reason she decided to tell me her ex was much bigger then me but he was also younger so that kinda of gave me a shot to my self confidence causing it to drop and that was the last time we had sex. I didnt have sex with anyone for a while after that (and that was also my last time having sex in the light) since then I would do it in the dark for obvious reasons which were because I am I guess you can say ashamed of my size. Well the next girl I attempted to do it with was no virgin and while we were at my house making out I was hard as a rock then when it was time to put the condom on I started to get flaccid and I couldn't get it up anymore and we had to call it a night. The next time I attempted to have sex with another girl I had the same results. Then after that I really started to realize that I have confidence in every field EXCEPT for my penis size. And it didnt make it any better when she told me the last guy she fucked was 9" long while im only 6.4 EL and 4.4 EG. Then most recently about 1 month ago I thought I had gained my confidence back and I tried it with another girl and I also had the same results! I mean this is getting pretty ridiculous. All my friends have bigger wangs then me and im the oldest or their about my age. As I started to mature and get a little smarter I realized that the size of my penis is really effecting my life and my confidence. Girls my age well teenagers overall now and days are mostly concerned with the penis size of the person they have sex with so they can go and run to their girlfriends and talk about how big it is not even looking at their performance. Its sad but true and I hate it becasue I know most guys my age are much bigger then me. I hate being in the locker rooms because I can tell that most guys have a bulge and I dont and they are much more confident in the locker room while I am not. I mean I never thought that the size of my penis would cause this much of a dramatic effect on my life, but it has, so I started looking into Penis Enlargement and really knowing that their are other men with my problem and knowing that on these forums everyone is just so damn open minded has already started to increase my confidence. I have found so much information on this website its amazing. Well thats my story sorry if I bored anyone. Now im off to grow a monster and hopefully regain my confidence. Thanks alot guys and thanks to the Moderators for doing such a good job by answering all these questions respectfully and truthfully and thanks to DLD for creating this website YOUR THE MAN! BTW I also bought a pump and im pretty happy with the results its giving me in the short term, hopefully If I am persistent with it I would see some permanent gains.

new2pump;295681 said:

Hmm lets see....Well im 19 years old and not to sounds cocky or anything but I am very good looking and I pretty much get the girls I want. Well heres my story...when I was around 16 or 17 years old me and one of my friends wanted to experience having sex together (we were both virgins) well we had sex there were no problems I was able to stay erect and everything. Now jumping ahead a couple of months we were in my house and she had just broke up with her ex about 1 month ago and we were in my room about to have sex again and still everything was fine, we "did it" no worries. Well for whatever reason she decided to tell me her ex was much bigger then me but he was also younger so that kinda of gave me a shot to my self confidence causing it to drop and that was the last time we had sex. I didnt have sex with anyone for a while after that (and that was also my last time having sex in the light) since then I would do it in the dark for obvious reasons which were because I am I guess you can say ashamed of my size. Well the next girl I attempted to do it with was no virgin and while we were at my house making out I was hard as a rock then when it was time to put the condom on I started to get flaccid and I couldn't get it up anymore and we had to call it a night. The next time I attempted to have sex with another girl I had the same results. Then after that I really started to realize that I have confidence in every field EXCEPT for my penis size. And it didnt make it any better when she told me the last guy she fucked was 9" long while im only 6.4 EL and 4.4 EG. Then most recently about 1 month ago I thought I had gained my confidence back and I tried it with another girl and I also had the same results! I mean this is getting pretty ridiculous. All my friends have bigger wangs then me and im the oldest or their about my age. As I started to mature and get a little smarter I realized that the size of my penis is really effecting my life and my confidence. Girls my age well teenagers overall now and days are mostly concerned with the penis size of the person they have sex with so they can go and run to their girlfriends and talk about how big it is not even looking at their performance. Its sad but true and I hate it becasue I know most guys my age are much bigger then me. I hate being in the locker rooms because I can tell that most guys have a bulge and I dont and they are much more confident in the locker room while I am not. I mean I never thought that the size of my penis would cause this much of a dramatic effect on my life, but it has, so I started looking into Penis Enlargement and really knowing that their are other men with my problem and knowing that on these forums everyone is just so damn open minded has already started to increase my confidence. I have found so much information on this website its amazing. Well thats my story sorry if I bored anyone. Now im off to grow a monster and hopefully regain my confidence. Thanks alot guys and thanks to the Moderators for doing such a good job by answering all these questions respectfully and truthfully and thanks to DLD for creating this website YOUR THE MAN! BTW I also bought a pump and im pretty happy with the results its giving me in the short term, hopefully If I am persistent with it I would see some permanent gains.

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Once again, I'll state that it's hard if not impossible to find a guy who have known girls who have gotten with guys just on their cock size. There are a whole lot more things involved.

10inchadvantage;295688 said:

Once again, I'll state that it's hard if not impossible to find a guy who have known girls who have gotten with guys just on their cock size. There are a whole lot more things involved.

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Ofcourse, but thats not the reason I started Penis Enlargement.

Sure there are a whole lot more factors involved. But hell, whether she says it or not I don't want any girl I have sex with to be comparing me to her past partners. It's just not right. And hell, new2pump is right; there are tons of young girls that blow things way out of proportion.
The kinds of girls I hate the most are those that don't realize than a guy's penis is what he's stuck with. (Well, aside from us Penis Enlargementers. But we're still born a certain way.) And it feels like women, more often size whores, toss men aside when they can't get sexual pleasure. Where did the soul go? These immature girls don't realize (or just don't care) how much they hurt guys when they do this. Hell, if a girl laughs at a guy with a smaller penis, she's laughing at him because of his inability to have sex and therefore his inability to reproduce, basically his inability to have a reason to exist since he loses at nature in the end. Do women have any self-control anymore?
To me it appears to be becoming a more prevalent problem. A woman is judged much less on her huge tits and less pursued. But you know what? It really feels like there's some kind of secret underground database where women can access profiles of all the men and their penis sizes and even if only one woman sees your penis and acts all happy with it she still contributes to the database and then everyone knows...and that's how men with big penises get girls after them saying "So you've got a huge cock" and men with small penises have people surrounding them humiliating them. That's what it feels like.
On top of that there's the natural connection. Of course women like big penises...not just because it stretches them more, but naturally because it's easier to have kids. So even good, kind-hearted women like big penises. So where do we go? We start doing Penis Enlargement. More work to do, to please our woman more, because we want to be the BEST for them, regardless of the fact that they really are completely faithful to us. I hate the competitive nature of this and that nature plays jokes on some guys by giving them really small penises. What's the point of this? Everyone's got the same size head...why can't we have the same size penises if they're completely independent of the rest of the body? Why can't we end this ridiculous charade?

Sorry. Got a bit red in the face there.

Shion;295698 said:

Sure there are a whole lot more factors involved. But hell, whether she says it or not I don't want any girl I have sex with to be comparing me to her past partners. It's just not right. And hell, new2pump is right; there are tons of young girls that blow things way out of proportion.
The kinds of girls I hate the most are those that don't realize than a guy's penis is what he's stuck with. (Well, aside from us Penis Enlargementers. But we're still born a certain way.) And it feels like women, more often size whores, toss men aside when they can't get sexual pleasure. Where did the soul go? These immature girls don't realize (or just don't care) how much they hurt guys when they do this. Hell, if a girl laughs at a guy with a smaller penis, she's laughing at him because of his inability to have sex and therefore his inability to reproduce, basically his inability to have a reason to exist since he loses at nature in the end. Do women have any self-control anymore?
To me it appears to be becoming a more prevalent problem. A woman is judged much less on her huge tits and less pursued. But you know what? It really feels like there's some kind of secret underground database where women can access profiles of all the men and their penis sizes and even if only one woman sees your penis and acts all happy with it she still contributes to the database and then everyone knows...and that's how men with big penises get girls after them saying "So you've got a huge cock" and men with small penises have people surrounding them humiliating them. That's what it feels like.
On top of that there's the natural connection. Of course women like big penises...not just because it stretches them more, but naturally because it's easier to have kids. So even good, kind-hearted women like big penises. So where do we go? We start doing Penis Enlargement. More work to do, to please our woman more, because we want to be the BEST for them, regardless of the fact that they really are completely faithful to us. I hate the competitive nature of this and that nature plays jokes on some guys by giving them really small penises. What's the point of this? Everyone's got the same size head...why can't we have the same size penises if they're completely independent of the rest of the body? Why can't we end this ridiculous charade?

Sorry. Got a bit red in the face there.

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They're going to judge you regardless. You usually don't forget how someone is when naked.

seeking8.5x6;295948 said:

Easy reason for me starting Penis Enlargement. First woman i was with said the guy before me was twice me and i wasnt going to get anything done with what i had. Plain and simple all about damned eotional scarring lol. .

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WOW now that is Fuc*ed up! Girls just dont realize that men have emotions. Just because some men walk around like they have huge egos it doesnt mean we dont have feelings.

True women dont know what they do. But on the other hand it made me more intent on learning all i could about being a better lover in bed and refine the living hell out of technique and stamina. So all in all i have to thank her or i wouldnt have pulled near as much consistent ass afterwards.

i'm straight and P.E., for me, had nothing to do with sex; it was all about self-confidence. i'm 27 and a virgin (chuckle if you want) because it's something i believe in and have made a choice to stick to until i'm married. the girls i've dated have been virgins, too--it's actually the norm in the conservative christian circle i come from. because i was in the average range to begin with (6.25" x 5" erect) and because i'm not expecting my future wife to have had experience with other partners, i really wasn't concerned that i wouldn't be able to satisfy her. i started P.E. because my flaccid dick looks really puny to me (partially because i need to lose a good 20 pounds of fat; partially because 3.25" is 1/2 inch shy of the average--and 1/2 inch is huge on something that's normally less than 4") and because i have to shower in the nude at the YMCA with guys who are actually bigger or who at least appear bigger because they don't have the abdominal/groin fat I do. when i was a little kid (way before puberty, so physiologically it doesn't count, even though it registers psychologically) some other kids laughed at my penis while i was pissing--they were looking up through the grates in the door to the class bathroom in first grade, and it made me feel really inadequate. whether or not most ladies care about a man's size (assuming he's at least average), guys talk about cock size all the time and make fun of the guys that are smaller. they obviously don't see my johnson when he's Mr. Happy, just the little guy that's barely observable in the communal shower. (btw, anybody else--particularly smaller guys and/or uncut guys that jockstraps make their peckers turtle/shrink?) i don't want to be a grower anymore; i want to be a shower.

2 reasons- self confidence and fear. When a woman finally did see my unit, I didn't want her to be disappointed, but instead be in awe. I was about 7" in high school, but I got in to hanging and must have done something wrong, because my penis began to curve to the right and my erect penis actually shrunk. I wanted to be as big as possible. I'm a big guy with big legs from squatting, so my penis doesn't look as big next to them. I knew I had to do to avoid any potentially ego shattering comments about being small, so I started doing Penis Enlargement. When a woman finally saw my erect penis, she was in shock, was impressed with my size (espeically my girth) and way turned on.

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I suppose it is better to get something while you can than to regret not having it when you need it.

I started becuase true story. I was like 14 or 15 and talking to my best friend at the time cousin. Anyways we talkin dirty and so she like how big is it. A so I was like hold on got a ruler and I saw 8inches. Well some times I wouldnt get as hard as I did then. Im thinkin I cant understand it. Well I always new I had a big dick becuase girls all would tell that. The thing was not only that I wanted more girth.I watch ���� and use to be like how did they get bigger.I thought it was just buy pills. I have not done pe for a minute and I miss it. I just be fellin myself knowin ok I am well endowed with this big dick. I have no girl I live in Frisco but I know that I am fuckin going to blow there minds when they see how pretty my dick is.I just want to give these girls the best ride of there lives.

I had finally stopped Penis Enlargement because I felt comfortable with my girlfriend and thought that I didn't need to get bigger. We broke up for a few months and she saq a few cocks. Two were around 4 and 5 inches but she saw a "really huge" one. I know that through Penis Enlargement I am a little above average bt that "huge one" is stuck in my head. I want to have the biggest cock she has seen in person and I am one inch away now.
The first girl that ever saw my dick called me "shrimpy" that was when I was in 7th grade and It grew about 2+ inches from that time. Either way that comment fucked me up.
I am also transfering to another college to play football and I will be showering with people and I want to look good.

Because 1) I'm not as big as I thought I was and 2)women I have sex with hardly ever have orgasms 3)the myth about us Black guys.I started out around 6 inches and gained and inch so until I am happy with my size and I can whip out something that caused women to drool and panic at the same time the work continues.

mlb092;300746 said:

The first girl that ever saw my dick called me "shrimpy" that was when I was in 7th grade and It grew about 2+ inches from that time. Either way that comment fucked me up.
I am also transfering to another college to play football and I will be showering with people and I want to look good.

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7th...grade? Jesus fucks. How young you were! I mean shit!

Anyway...sometimes even with the "safety" of Penis Enlargement I still feel uncomfortable. I feel that not being born with a big dick is still a problem. It's like, if I was born with a big dick, life would be all about "the trouble with getting into relationships" and the penis wouldn't be an issue. But if you have a small penis, it's like "Getting into relationships is hard enough. Now we have to worry about this shit too? This is like an automatic lose!" But, this came along, and I'm so glad it did. But it still is accepted in society that what you're born with is what you're stuck with for life.
While I am an artist, and would be proud of having a dick that I "created" as opposed to just started with, I still feel trapped by women everywhere, because I still know there are guys out there that feel hurt by the same women I'd be going after. What could possibly be worse than something you're naturally forcefully drawn to hurting you beyond all recognition? That's the worst thing ever! It's like being made of metal and all the girls are magnets with spikes. A lot of girls' opinions of who you are and what you do suddenly change when they see your penis. If I have a small penis, I'm made fun of. If I have a large penis, I'm a sex object. And either way, even the nice girls still wish they had the bigger dick even though they're really not as common as average ones. It just makes me wonder why we don't all have big dicks if this is what all women desire. I'm wondering if nature is simply playing a cruel joke on us and saying "Some men will lose from the start, but won't realize it until they're already too old to give up on life."

Women can go ahead and tell me "Well Jesus Tristan don't you wish all women had big tits?" Fuck no. Women have tits relevant to their body type. But the dick is completely separate from the rest of the body and girls don't know how much it hurts to make fun of these kinds of things. And yes, it is situations like this that make misogynists. Every type of woman out there...I can't understand why they have so many insecurities. There will ALWAYS be a man out there that likes them. Men however, are graded like eggs from what I've seen. You're either smart, strong, big-dicked and hardworking, or you're fat, lazy, dumb, and have a small dick. Or mixes of them. I'm thinking it's because women with said insecurities don't want the men that DO like them to be the ones that do like them. They can afford to have standards but it's very offensive to me when they complain about these things.

yeah matters of size is great for the inner game. I am really bless to have this.

mostly i started cause of three reasons, I'm a pretty big dude, about 6 foot and big shoulders, so it looked smaller compared to my frame. It was kinda hard to get a girl to orgasm at what i was when i first started having sesomething like 5), it took half an hour to give my GF one, and i can give her more than ten in the same amount of time now, and because my weight (like 5'9 and 260) at that time made it appear a lot smaller then it was. when i was in like 8-9th grade i was fairly thin ( 5'8 170-180) and about 7.5-8, and i had always gotten comments from girls about being huge, and even at that time i was a little insecure 'cause i also got told that they expected me to be like 9-10 from the way i look and move and things like that, so when i gained weight in the 10th, and it stayed with me until about 6 months ago or so(down to 220 right now), it caused so much of it to be hidden i thought it was what it always was and started to freak out 'cause of what my size was then. I started working out and stuff a few months before i started Penis Enlargementing so I'm getting bigger pretty fast, it's starting to worry my girl a little.