I just had to comment....at all the "analphobic" guys in here. I was just like you, when I was ignorant. After hearing about the male "A spot" and reading about it....for example, on "Talk Sex With Sue" one lady caller said that when she did her BF orally and used her finger in his anus, he ejaculated so much that she was amazed - she said she counted like 21 spurts. So I finally decided, what the heck, I gotta try it. I tried various types of anal stimulation. I got some pleasure out of it, not enough for me to want to do it regularly - and I did not shoot bigger wads either lol.
It's just funny to me, that most guys will go to any lengths to intensify a girl's orgasm - (I'll bet a lot of the "analphobics" are the same guys who wish their wife/GF would let them do her in the ass) Not to mention, using various and sundry techniques to increase her pleasure, such as positions, ejaculation control, or - heavens, even yanking & squeezing our dicks for years to make them bigger & better WOMO's. (Weapons Of Mass Orgasm).
But, when it comes to OUR pleasure via our asses - it's out of the question, forget it, no way. Isn't that a bit hypocritical? Hell, look at all the guys with goals of 9 x 7 - if they reach that goal, they expect their female partner to accept this monster cock - "yeah baby, you'll love it" but wouldn't consider having a tiny finger up their ass? 9x7 is fricking huge, the guy from monstersofcock is only 8x6 according to a video in which they measured him. And while I'm sure not all of the girls' reactions were real, it was obvious that some of them could not take it all, or take it for very long. Unless your wife/gf has "cow pussy" 9x7 is too much for most women.
If nothing else, from my anal experiments I at least learned to appreciate how my partner feels when giving her anal. It's pretty sissy IMO, to expect your partner to do something that you won't do. It's not that big a deal, I learned that there is usually some initial pain, but just relax a few minutes and there is no pain whatsoever. I could feel some pleasurable sensation, but just not enough to "do it" for me, so I haven't pursued it anymore. But now that I know exactly what it feels like, I can be more sensitive to her, and give her a much more pleasurable experience.
wesb