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whats up fellas. i saw a fine chick at a job fair today and i went up to her and started a conversation w/ her, so after a while she asked me for my #. WTF, my first time really going up to a chick she asked me for my #. so we exchange #. ill call her in a few days, but i hate talking on the phone. whats the hell to say? she is kinda quiet so i need to get her to talk. and i need to make her laugh. any advice. im pretty sure i can make her laugh. btw she is 18 and im 20 if that matters.

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Well for one thing, when she asked you for your number, you should have said something like "Yeah right, so you would call me 5 times a day.YOU give me your number instead". Man,you're supposed to be the one in control.Anyway if she calls either don't answer or pick-up and say that you're busy(just don't sound annoyed). Avoid chit-chats or else you'll become her eunoch. You call her if and only if you're setting up a date(don't call it a date). One helpful tip is when selecting the day, mention all the days you are busy(make some up if youre free all the time), in order to get her thinking "Wow, this guy is pretty busy, i wonder if he has time for me". Be the one ending all converstions.
 
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Thanks, man. It's quite sad that so many men don't realize that their wussiness, is the reason women kick them around.
 
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DaPlayBoy, plan your phone based attack as much as possible. Know the points you want to hit and then get the hell off it.

For example, when you call you're both going to say hello and then something like "how are you?". when she asks you (ppl always do) have an interesting story to tell, maybe your ex has started chasing you....maybe you just hiked a huge mountain...your call but make it interesting and possibly exciting. You want to come across as someone who seems like it could be fun to be around.

Generally appear strong, confident, lower your voice and speak in a controlled manner. Make the arrangements to meet up "and see if we get on" and find a reason to limit the date to an hour or so tops. You want a short positive first meeting than an over-long , running out of things to say first meeting.

When ending the call say you gotta go, and if she seems surprised or reluctant to hear you are going so soon, crack the line "damn girl, dont be so possesive of me, sheesh, at this rate we'll be in vegas by the weekend getting married " and laugh.

Overall tho man, view this call as a way to get things to the next stage. Its easier to be funny in person, plus you have the benefit of body language to tell you how the things you are saying are going down with her. This call is a definite hit and run scenario, as its too early to have lots of things to talk about anyway!
 

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First off, if she gave you her number right off the bat, and it ain't a fake number, then CALL her. If you're interested, don't wait too long.

If you're bad on the phone, tell her so and quickly set up a time you can hang with her and talk in person.

Don't "pretend" to be anything. Just tell the truth (unless you have a bunch of shallow graves in your cellar), it's a lot easier to remember the truth. Lies can get out of hand when you tell too many.

Don't take all this "Don Juan" bullshit to heart too much. If you need help having a personality, then you got bigger problems than women.

If she's a typical retard chickenhead type of girl, then yeah... I guess you'd need to lay the bullshit on real thick. But if she's cool and got a decent personality and half a brain, and if she genuinely LIKES YOU, then this whole dating thing shouldn't be hard at all. Don't overcomplicate stuff when you don't need to.
 
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"it's a lot easier to remember the truth."

Oh right, how about you just say that you love her on the first date, while you're at it.
 

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