What to Do When everything is about to collapse

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Does anybody knows how to reprogram my mind for good free of charge whit no side effects,and getting amazing results out of thatneed help ASAP..JK


I had a an strangely fucked up day..today i wont do any PE i will only use my PF all night long..

Good Bye Brotherhood talk tomorrow..:cool:
 
there's always something to be gained from any demoralizing experience...your character becomes stronger just by working through it. Instead of focusing on the fuckedupedness, call it a challenge...totally changes your perspective. If it has to do with an interaction w/another human being, make it your goal to see where that other person is coming from, (openly and honestly). I've learned and grown more from adversaries than from allies
 
Big Schwanz Acht;693086 said:
there's always something to be gained from any demoralizing experience...your character becomes stronger just by working through it. Instead of focusing on the fuckedupedness, call it a challenge...totally changes your perspective. If it has to do with an interaction w/another human being, make it your goal to see where that other person is coming from, (openly and honestly). I've learned and grown more from adversaries than from allies

Very true. Short, you have many struggles you have gotten through and have become so much better because of this. You will have times where it will not be the way you like, these are the times you need to stay on a positive tone in any way you can. Sometime that will feel fake but they say; Fake it till you make it. Like I said, even on my off days I am known to floss! Looking good is 99% of it!
 
doublelongdaddy;693119 said:
Very true. Short, you have many struggles you have gotten through and have become so much better because of this. You will have times where it will not be the way you like, these are the times you need to stay on a positive tone in any way you can. Sometime that will feel fake but they say; Fake it till you make it. Like I said, even on my off days I am known to floss! Looking good is 99% of it!

A ton of struggles D but we all want to look good..thats for sure!!
 
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shortdick;693167 said:
A ton of struggles D but we all want to look good..thats for sure!!

Listen my man, when there is a collapse there is always a new wave, it is a constant flux in life. We ride waves until they collapse but that does not mean there is not another wave coming. Life is a lot like the ocean, waves build and collapse over and over, what we take from this is what is most important and that is to float until the next wave comes or stir up that water and create your own! Lots of metaphors here but I know you want to improve your English :)
 
Well those waves are part of the ocean,We are in an immense ocean endless and powerful,Can we make it trough and reach the shore...:)
 
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Reminds me of a verse in a book I read to my kids:

When you think things are bad,
when you feel sour and blue,
when you start to get mad...
you should do what I do!
Just tell yourself, Duckie,
you're really quite lucky!
Some people are much more...
oh, ever so much more...
oh, muchly much-much more
unlucky than you!'

I can't tell you how many times I've read this book, but It always reminds me that no matter what you are going through. It can always be worse.
 
shortdick;693322 said:
Well those waves are part of the ocean,We are in an immense ocean endless and powerful,Can we make it trough and reach the shore...:)

Or just float in all it's glory!
 
MoreThanLuck;693418 said:
Reminds me of a verse in a book I read to my kids:

When you think things are bad,
when you feel sour and blue,
when you start to get mad...
you should do what I do!
Just tell yourself, Duckie,
you're really quite lucky!
Some people are much more...
oh, ever so much more...
oh, muchly much-much more
unlucky than you!'

I can't tell you how many times I've read this book, but It always reminds me that no matter what you are going through. It can always be worse.

Good Stuff my Brother! I will tell this to my Grandchildren!
 
shortdick;693452 said:
Floating...But how long am i supposed to stay floating for?lol

My Friend there is nothing better than floating and letting the waves take you where they take you. Life can't be planned out, it needs to be experienced with spontaneity and that will bring you to places of new, places of unknown treasures, places that will expand your mind, perspective and outlook. You are there Short, it just does not feel comfortable yet. Here is a song that I think will help you understand a bit more

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Life cant be planned out..???I need to plan cause if i dont what the fuck are we supposed to do then..lol planning is important dont you think..

Maybe im getting it wrong, sometimes is ok to go whit the flow sometimes only, but being adrift is bull..


Ill continue even when the resources are limited..Ill continue:)LMAO
 
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I'm only guessing, but what I think DLD is alluding to is the fact that if you're so myopic about anything you end-up missing-out on all the possibilities that are flying around you. It's like wanting something soooo badly that you mess it up by trying too hard. The more you clench the less receptive and the more rigid the less flexible...I doubt DLD was suggesting to just float-around all hippie-dippy-like, but to be open and allow exploration in both self and society. The ruts we're stuck-in are only dug by ourselves
 
Big Schwanz Acht;693616 said:
I'm only guessing, but what I think DLD is alluding to is the fact that if you're so myopic about anything you end-up missing-out on all the possibilities that are flying around you. It's like wanting something soooo badly that you mess it up by trying too hard. The more you clench the less receptive and the more rigid the less flexible...I doubt DLD was suggesting to just float-around all hippie-dippy-like, but to be open and allow exploration in both self and society. The ruts we're stuck-in are only dug by ourselves

Thanks for that, it is what I meant.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;693616 said:
I'm only guessing, but what I think DLD is alluding to is the fact that if you're so myopic about anything you end-up missing-out on all the possibilities that are flying around you. It's like wanting something soooo badly that you mess it up by trying too hard. The more you clench the less receptive and the more rigid the less flexible...I doubt DLD was suggesting to just float-around all hippie-dippy-like, but to be open and allow exploration in both self and society. The ruts we're stuck-in are only dug by ourselves

haha hippies who wants to be like them LOL and yeh the possibilities are endless :)LMAO
 
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doublelongdaddy;693765 said:
Anytime we give our energy to the past or future we are depleting ourselves of the energy we need in the now. A lack of energy and an unhealthy mental state will never create change for the better. When we are living in the past we are living in depression, when we live in the future we are living in anxiety BUT when we live in the moment all things become possible. Remember this, anytime you dig up the past the only thing you are going to get is dirty.

the now is way too important,because is the one that dictates the future....I want to have one million dollars,but i have to think about the now and see how im going to make that money....LMAO:cool:
 
shortdick;693795 said:
the now is way too important,because is the one that dictates the future....I want to have one million dollars,but i have to think about the now and see how im going to make that money....LMAO:cool:

You wanna make a million dollars act like a millionaire. Pretend as hard as you can and once you have fooled yourself into believing it, it will become a reality. Everything starts with a thought, a seed planted that will develop in the way you choose. If the thought is "I want to be a millionaire" you are still stating this in the negative, this statement translates to the brain as "I am not a millionaire". If you plant a seed in fertile soil be sure to take care to see it grow into a beautiful garden or it will end up a thorn bush. Say to yourself "I am a millionaire" and eventually, with repetition, you will manifest that which you desire.
 
doublelongdaddy;693845 said:
You wanna make a million dollars act like a millionaire. Pretend as hard as you can and once you have fooled yourself into believing it, it will become a reality. Everything starts with a thought, a seed planted that will develop in the way you choose. If the thought is "I want to be a millionaire" you are still stating this in the negative, this statement translates to the brain as "I am not a millionaire". If you plant a seed in fertile soil be sure to take care to see it grow into a beautiful garden or it will end up a thorn bush. Say to yourself "I am a millionaire" and eventually, with repetition, you will manifest that which you desire.

so its kind of like making your subconscious aware of it too , so that your whole being is believing and working towards the goal ? same kind of aspect towards P.E could be a good thing!

correct me if I am wrong of course just how I interpreted it
 
doublelongdaddy;693845 said:
You wanna make a million dollars act like a millionaire. Pretend as hard as you can and once you have fooled yourself into believing it, it will become a reality. Everything starts with a thought, a seed planted that will develop in the way you choose. If the thought is "I want to be a millionaire" you are still stating this in the negative, this statement translates to the brain as "I am not a millionaire". If you plant a seed in fertile soil be sure to take care to see it grow into a beautiful garden or it will end up a thorn bush. Say to yourself "I am a millionaire" and eventually, with repetition, you will manifest that which you desire.

Im a millionaire from now on !!
 
mosbrother123;693916 said:
so its kind of like making your subconscious aware of it too , so that your whole being is believing and working towards the goal ? same kind of aspect towards P.E could be a good thing!

correct me if I am wrong of course just how I interpreted it

yep i think having the same state of mind for PE,could be a great solution and possibly a quite effective way to get bigger in a smaller amount of time...
 
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