What do you think of my situation?

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"What do you think of my situation?"
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Here goes
My bro has been datig this girl for about 4 years and now they are engaged well durin the last few montsh (probably around 3) before they got engaged me and the girls sister have gotten close. Well do you guys think i should go for it? Would it be weird or wrong for me to be dating my brothers fiance's sister? What do you think?
 
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Damn that was quick. You guys wouldnt think that it would be weird or kinda odd at all?
 
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Fuck no! This kind of stuff happens every day. It may end up in a life long friendship between all of you. Can't get better than that!
Besides, if you don't take advantage of your situation you will be kicking yourself in the ass for years to come.
 

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Originally posted by falcon
Fuck no! This kind of stuff happens every day. It may end up in a life long friendship between all of you. Can't get better than that!
Besides, if you don't take advantage of your situation you will be kicking yourself in the ass for years to come.
Well i have a feeling if we get together we wont be seprated after that. Me and her get along great together, have a lot of the same interests, like each others best and worst qualities, and can keep a great convo. I have also though before as you mentioned that i would probably kcik myself in the ass if i dont make a move so i think now i will.
Thanks man
 
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Keeping it in the family.
 
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Not unless youre a redneck...then your brother's fiance might actually be your sister...and her sister would also be your sister....
 

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There isn't anything particularly weird about that. It's happened before. The worst problem is that things could be ackward if there was ever a bad break-up between the two of you.

Pursue it, but take things a little slow. Talk it out and make sure the two of you are on the same page and have the same expectations. Express the fact that your brother and her sister have a great relationship between the two of them and that you would never want to do anything to cause any tension within the family. So tell her if she feels anything is ackward or has any doubts to be open and discuss them with you early so things can always be on good standing and hopefully things will be great for the two of you.
 

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$$$$$

Got to agree with PenguinsFan on this one.

Only thing that I could add is to come to an agreement with your brother. See how he feels about it and promise each other that neither of you will be used as a middleman or ambassador of the girls' family if there is a problem.

Cause what can happen is this: Your brother and his wife have a little trouble over something. The girl's family, i.e. your in-laws, recruit you to "talk some sense to him". Or vice versa if you and your girl have problems.

If you agree to it, it creates tension between you and your brother. If you don't it creates tension between you and your wife. So just be upfront with everyone that neither of you will play that role. Not sure how to go about doing that gracefully, so maybe its enough for you and your bro to discuss it.


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$$$$, it's been days, man. Any updates for us? Have you decided if you're going to go for this one?
 
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I'm kinda the same, i wanna go with some girl that is kinda related only by marriage, but if it goes wrong then i'm worried it would be so damn akward talking to her at family parties and weddings and stuff.
(I think were both worried about this)
But all i wanna do is be with her, she is all i think about everyday, and damn we are so into each other.
We are always cuddling and flirting and stuff.
This doesn't sound weird does it ?

My uncle married her mum.
 
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Georginho, I have to give you the same advice. Talk with her about it and express the concerns. Make sure if you start going out you take things very slowly and are completely honest about everything, to help lessen the chances of a nasty break-up.
 
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I know two brothers who married two sisters. They were not rednecks.
Worked out and both couples are still married.
 
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We talk on msn about everything, she and i know exactly how each other feel, it would just you know feel weird, but if that's what it's gonna take then i'll have to live with it.
Because i always feel so happy around her.
I knew she fancied me for a while but she didn't know i fancied her until we started talking on msn, thank god for msn messenger. lol
 
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