Was thinking of quitting PE

thedash

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A while back, my girlfriend had commented on me hurting her sometimes. So I wondered if I really wanted to get any bigger. Then yesterday, we had this conversation:

her: you hurt me with out meaning to sometimes, and I know you
say to let you know if you hurt me, but that normally will not happen.

me: I would rather you let me know, so that we could maybe do something a
little different if necessary.

her: I hurt afterwards, or in the case of week before last, I hurt all weekend long
(note, we had sex 3 days in a row Wed-Fri)

me: Well, how is it exactly that I am hurting you?

her: well that is not really important

me: ?

her: I'm not complaining

me: Sure?

her: should i?

me: I don't know, is it worth being sore or hurting?

her: it's definitely worth it, that's why I don't stop you if you are hurting me. if I just tighten up a little more, it stops it, or I will shift, and I am fine. nope I am not complaining at all.

So anyway, I don't know if gaining more would be a good thing, or possibly get to the point to where there may be too much pain involved. I've been Penis Enlargement'ing for 6 months or so. I have gained about 1/4 in length , and about the same in girth. I am currently at 7 1/4 x 5 1/2. Not huge, but we are talking about a long term relationship here, we've been dating for 2 years, and I don't see it ending anytime soon.
 

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Personally, I'd probably ease off on Penis Enlargement for a while and just do a maintenance routine. Over time, I believe her body will acclimate to your size (at least your girth, which I imagine is where the pain's coming from). When she's not feeling any pain, I'd start back on the peter-pulling.

Edited to ask what your starting, current, and goal sizes are.
 

wdis3

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okay, no offense, I'm pretty much your size, I havnt measured for like 1 month, but anyways..

Since when is 5 and half inches girth too much? I am not offending you no respect, but I hear these days 5 and half girth ist just normal, if anything most of the people are around 6..

interesting..
 

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wdis3 said:
but I hear these days 5 and half girth ist just normal, if anything most of the people are around 6..

interesting..
HAHAHAH! Distorted mindset my friend. Whoever told you that is seriusly bullshittin you...Being 5.75 puts you in the 95 precentile of girths...
 

wdis3

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holy shit, LOL thank you!

yeah man, 7 by 5.5 is big than dude, your good to go, your dick is probably a good size, keep a maintnance going so you can cement those gains, and so they dont disappear, say once a week for a couple months, than once or twice a month.. if your girl is good with your size than hell i say you've done what you can.
 
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just stop doing Penis Enlargement.... its not like a life and death decision
 

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HAHAHAH! Distorted mindset my friend. Whoever told you that is seriusly bullshittin you...Being 5.75 puts you in the 95 precentile of girths...
w00t i am 95th percentile with minimal Penis Enlargement gains in girth department. Cant wait til I shoot up.

Hope on Jan 1st, when I am 9x5.75 with like 6.25 base girth, my girl can handle me now. She can handle me now fine at almost 8 and 5.75.

We dont have sex often enough (maybe once a month), cuz parents etc, although wed like to do it like 3 times a month. She sorta wants to keep it special blah blah. Anyways hope she accomodates fast.

ANYWAYS, to help you out. Do minimal/maintenance Penis Enlargement until she says u no longer hurt her, then go for another 1/4" each way and go again. Hopefully she will slowly over time adjust to your size. If you get married with her and it is for life and you are more than fine the way you are, just stop and do maintenance. Try BE or FR ;)
 
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i feel there is a fine line between pleasure and pain...she says it hurts sometimes but she doesn't ask you to stop...is it cuz it feel good to her or she feels she would hurt your feelings or you'll get upset...she said she is not complaining....you know pe is a process...it take awhile for gains to come...if you worried about her that much i would say stop...but then again you probably continue for a while..just make your final goal a little smaller then you anticipated...it's okay if you don't shoot for 9.5"x6"
 
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Actually, dash, you are huge. Don't be fooled by some of these guys who think only a 9X7 cock is big. Consider this: the average vagina depth is 6 inches. The average penis is 5.5". Kinda makes sense.

When you start getting up there in size, you have to learn to be more reponsive to your partner. When a woman is more arroused, her vagina will actually open up and get more lubricated to accomodate your cock. If she is less aroused, you may poke at her and even injure her if you pound her pussy. Go by how she reacts and you should be fine, even if you continue to Penis Enlargement.

If her pussy feels all fluffy and silky and sopping wet, put the hammer to it. She's opened up and ready for it.

If her pussy feels kind of tight and less lubricated, hold back an inch and go a little easier. She may be into it, but not all the way, and you will probably note that she is pushing against your hips or chest, trying to keep you from gouging her.
 

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kong1971 said:
Consider this: the average vagina depth is 6 inches.
Is this true? I thought I read somewhere that the average depth is 6-7 unaroused and 8-9 aroused... I kinda hope you're right and what I read was wrong, though.
 

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Most of us start Penis Enlargement so we can satisfy a partner more, if she is satisfied for now, then stop and do some maintenance routines. When she gets accompanied to your new size and you feel you want to get bigger then start back up. Its not as if MoS is going to disappear.
 
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Yes, it's true. Why do you think women are satisfied with average sized guys? Contrary to popular male thought, every woman on this planet is not a crazed size-queen lusting after only 9+ inch cocks. To the average woman with an average sized 6 inch deep pussy, the average sized man is perfectly satisfactory.

Of course, perfectly satisfactory is not good enough for me. I want my wife to cum her brains out and think I'm gonna bust her at the seams every time we fuck! LOL That's why I Penis Enlargement!!!
 

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Well if she's only 6 inches deep, and you try to force more into her, you could cause injury. . . At the point of bottoming out by having 6" useable in a 6" deep woman, after that only girth would matter... or so it seems to me at least.

And if she's tight that way too then too much girth could cause injury too!
 
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kong1971 said:
Of course, perfectly satisfactory is not good enough for me. I want my wife to cum her brains out and think I'm gonna bust her at the seams every time we fuck! LOL That's why I Penis Enlargement!!!
Ah Men, Penis Enlargement Brother!
 

thedash

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Thanks for the responses, and no doubt I will at the very least keep a maintenance routine. She has told me that she has been with one guy bigger than me, and he just simply hurt her, it was not a good experience at all. So that kind of gave me pause as far as continuing my Penis Enlargement efforts. But yesterday she said that she thinks he hurt her just because he could, whereas I don't do it on purpose. So the jury is out as far as whether she could still handle bigger and really enjoy it, if handled properly.

And there are other things to consider. I don't know if I want to be limited, and start having to be extra careful, because she seems to really enjoy a good pounding, and she orgasms very easily, at least every 5 minutes, if not sooner. So the sex is great, there's no issue there at all. And even if being bigger would be better in a way for her, would it really be better overall, if it means that we have to be careful in certain positions, and if it got to a point to where it was too uncomfortable, or the pain a bit too much.

She seems to be 100% content, so it is me who isn't content. But I have always had self esteem problems that aren't related to my dick size, but I guess it has caused me to always be insecure about even that.
 
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