Waiting Patiently!!!

millionman

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Well, I've stopped dating. Not because of Penis Enlargement or reaching my goals, but I've stopped because my heart can't take it anymore. I am going to wait for God's perfect love, for that woman that He has had in mind since the beginning. There's nothing that can be offered to me at this point in my life that can compare to the relationship that I have with my Lord. I have been a serial dater, and I've broken hearts, and I've had my heart broken, and it's not how it's suppose to be. With patience and faithfulness the one who will complete me will come into my life without me looking for her, everything is going to be beautiful, just as He intended it to be all along. Much love for all you guys. In Christ, Paul
 
It does come, believe me.
 
Everyone longs to give themselves to someone--to have a deep soul relationship with another--to be loved thoroughly and exclusively.

But God, to a Believer says,
No, Not until you are satisified and fullfilled and content with being loved by ME alone--with giving yourself totally and unreservedly to ME. I love you my child. And until you discover that only in ME is your satisfaction to be found you will not be capable of the perfect human relationship I have planned for you. You will never be united with another until you are united with ME--exclusive to anyone or anything else, exclusive of any other desires or longings.

And, then, when you are ready, I'll surprise you with a love far more wonderful than you have ever dreamed. And, beloved, I want you to have this most wonderful love. I want you to see in the flesh a picture of your relationship with ME, and to enjoy materially and concretely the everlasting union of beauty and perfection and love that I offer with Myself. Know that I love you utterly. I am El Shaddai (the All Sufficient One)-- Believe it and be satisfied
 
Even when I was religious, I never personally believed in a "one". I'm a pretty easy going guy, though I notice myself getting more cranky in my old age. Seems to me there are a number of women I could be happy with. I have that select list of things I won't compromise on at all, but it's pretty small. To me, it seems hard to reconcile any concept of freewill with the notion that a deity has one individual out of this world of six billion reserved for me. Just a thought.

Anyhow, I'm getting old enough that I suppose if I don't find someone soon, I resolve to find my happiness in playing hockey, hunting and fishing.
 
Best of luck, by the way. I didn't mean for my personal comments to overshadow my admiration for your dedication to your decision.
 
Hey man it's cool. It sounds to me like you've had a hard time of it, my dad is pretty similar in that way. I can see how I would be happy with a number of girls that I know, but at the sametime, in the vain of creation God created Eve for Adam, so that Adam would be fulfilled. The same is true now, it may seem hard to conceptualize the fact that God cares enough to be involved in our lives at all, since as it seems we are small and insignificant, and that'a where His love and His grace come into view, when you realize how awesome He is to truely care and love us for who we are. So in the thought of Adam and Eve, I know there's a woman out there who will be my perfect mate, I know it seems idealistic, but it's very true, and it takes faith to have the standard that I will not settle for anything less than His best for me.
 
millionman said:
Hey man it's cool. It sounds to me like you've had a hard time of it, my dad is pretty similar in that way. I can see how I would be happy with a number of girls that I know, but at the sametime, in the vain of creation God created Eve for Adam, so that Adam would be fulfilled. The same is true now, it may seem hard to conceptualize the fact that God cares enough to be involved in our lives at all, since as it seems we are small and insignificant, and that'a where His love and His grace come into view, when you realize how awesome He is to truely care and love us for who we are. So in the thought of Adam and Eve, I know there's a woman out there who will be my perfect mate, I know it seems idealistic, but it's very true, and it takes faith to have the standard that I will not settle for anything less than His best for me.

Good luck:)
 
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