The single lifestyle Vs the commited/married lifestyle - PROS & CONS of each
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currently single and loves it.
i don't mind having a girlfriend. but i don't need one.
if she can add good stuff into my life by all means she is welcome (i of course add good stuff into her life aswell)
but it wouldn't be a surprise for me to end up old and alone.
besides. im 27. in my experience 90% of the relationships committed at this age is going to end anyways.
might aswell just wait it out. fuck around have fun.
and then find someone to get together with.
my experience tells me that the older we get the more desperate the girls get.
i don't mind having a girlfriend. but i don't need one.
if she can add good stuff into my life by all means she is welcome (i of course add good stuff into her life aswell)
but it wouldn't be a surprise for me to end up old and alone.
besides. im 27. in my experience 90% of the relationships committed at this age is going to end anyways.
might aswell just wait it out. fuck around have fun.
and then find someone to get together with.
my experience tells me that the older we get the more desperate the girls get.
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pogzee;647027 said:
who talks about being alone? go and talk with some chicks. there is so many girls out there!
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Aimingforthetop;647006 said:
I agree with you, the older we get, the more desperate the girls get.
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Aimingforthetop;647006 said:
finding a girl that can add useful,benefitial,things to mens lives is almost impossible specially these days lol
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shortdick;647072 said:
I would not say impossible but I do believe it is difficult. I am so fucking particular that it will take me time to find a worthy mate. Now that I have my depression under control and I feel better I definitely think I am ready to find a girl to spend time with...finding her is the hard part. But I know, from my past, confidence is key, and if I am able to find the right girl I think I have the skills now to land it. We will have to see what the future has in store.
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doublelongdaddy;647111 said:
I'm a spiritual person, very deep. I follow the native traditions of my fore fathers despite the large presence of Christianity today. Don't get me wrong, I'm a Christian but I have a very native African background. Most of these girls today have marine spirit that causes so many setback in a man's life. Here in Nigeria, we call it OGBANJE. When you date some of these girls, start sleeping with them without condom, things start going wrong. They let you fall into unseen problems and their marine spirit causes untimely death in some men who's heads are not strong enough. I might be sounding stupid and superstitious but this is what I know and I know what I'm talking about. When I meet a girl, the first thing I look out for is if she has a marine spirit. Such girls when in a relationship with you causes hardship, misfortune or untimely death, the relationship will always be a complicated one.
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huge-girth;647208 said:
I completely understand and never categorize your beliefs as being stupid, they are built on your experience and in this you need to put your faith. I am also a very custom Catholic
I base my beliefs on my own experiences and understandings. Along the way I do mess up and misinterpret but the Good Lord knows I try to stay on the straight path. We are human beings created by a glorious God and in this there are no mistakes, there is only perfection. Life is a test drive for the next world of everlasting life. Along this path we mature and better ourselves in great expectation of the coming of our Lord!Similar threads
