The single lifestyle Vs the commited/married lifestyle - PROS & CONS of each

Both can be prisons or paradise.

I do very well by myself. As with mostly everything it is individual to every person. i enjoy sleeping alone which is a reason why i stay single among many reasons. another being just haven't found a girl i could imagine spending the rest of my life with or be exclusive with.

youknowme123321;592320 said:

I do very well by myself. As with mostly everything it is individual to every person. i enjoy sleeping alone which is a reason why i stay single among many reasons. another being just haven't found a girl i could imagine spending the rest of my life with or be exclusive with.

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If a woman came into my like that believed as I believe and had the same priorities I would give up the single life but I don't think God has that in my cards yet. I love living alone but there is times when depression sets in where I wish I had a mate but I get through this.

I am only 21 year old but can certainly agree that both have their pro's and cons, it all depends on where you are at with your life and your circumstance. I'll give you a brief layout of my experience just to add more to this thread.

I was a socially awkward boy in highschool and the couple of years afterwards. I still had my V-card and only kissed a couple of girls. Being single sucked and I was pretty lonely. Then along came my GF which was A LOT better than single. I had a lovely companion and regular sex. My needs were being met and life was good.

Fast track a couple of years to now. It's getting hard to keep things fresh with my GF. She has constant problems too which is hard for me to deal with. It really is holding me back, but thinking of it makes me feel guilty. I just want more! I have been craving the single life more and more recently. On another note my confidence has increased dramatically through hard work and dedication. I am pretty popular in my work place which is a vast improvement to a few years earlier at school. I am twice the man I once was.

Very recently, my work just had a Christmas party. All the stores in the state, we're talking a few hundred strangers packed into one massive nightclub. Girls were trying to get with me left right and center. It was fucking awesome. It was good to have some validation that my confidence and maturing had made such a difference. I wanted to hook up with them so bad. I wanted to do what I had always wanted to do. My inner caveman ached to burst free, but of course I kept telling myself, NO. Eventually it happened though. A gorgeous red head. I knew what she wanted but just decided to dance with her, trying to avoid her eyes staring up at mine. Eventually she had enough, grabbed my head and laid a smooch right on my mouth. She looked at me with a look of "Thats what I wanted and I fucking got it". She turned to move away but the inner caveman had broken free. I grabbed her and locked lips with her. We sucked face like mutant tongue monsters for a little while before I moved on. It was better and more passionate than with my GF. I went looking for her again later but couldn't find her. I just wanted more of that experience. I wanted to kiss her again, I wanted to taste her cunt. My primitive masculine side had been repressed for so long but now it was out.

I don't regret it. For the first time I feel ready for the single life. I want it so bad. But alas I am in a relationship with a girl whom although has her problems, I will never find a girl anything like her. I don't know what to do.

Both single and committed lives have their pro's and cons. For everyone I imagine these things will become apparent in different ways. I think it is important to experience all of it, so you can become sensitive to your needs at each stage of your life.

doublelongdaddy;592227 said:

Both can be prisons or paradise.

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true that

loneliness is a terrible thing,but i get trough that shit too,is very hard sometimes.

I am single and have ALWAYS been single. It is true that it gets a bit lonely.

Zambrodom3;621970 said:

I am single and have ALWAYS been single. It is true that it gets a bit lonely.

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Tell me about it. I have been single now for 6 years and it has been the loneliest 6 years of my life. I pray that I find someone who can accept me and bring me companionship every day. After all this time alone I wonder what it would be like to have someone around, I can't even remember anymore.

doublelongdaddy;621992 said:

Tell me about it. I have been single now for 6 years and it has been the loneliest 6 years of my life. I pray that I find someone who can accept me and bring me companionship every day. After all this time alone I wonder what it would be like to have someone around, I can't even remember anymore.

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This is not normal! How can someone like you be alone- you are amazing! Personally- if I was a female- I'd totally try to hook with you! !

Zambrodom3;622008 said:

This is not normal! How can someone like you be alone- you are amazing! Personally- if I was a female- I'd totally try to hook with you! !

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They don't even see me anymore, like I am invisible

No more lusty sins my dear hahaha

I am married and have a son. But when i look back. If i really could. I would love to go back in time and be bachelor again. Truly bachelor life is much better than being married.

Ascastlat;623689 said:

I am married and have a son. But when i look back. If i really could. I would love to go back in time and be bachelor again. Truly bachelor life is much better than being married.

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I would miss my child and grandchildren too much. Life is full of regrets but in the end I don't think too many would trade if they could.

I love my single life. I've not had sex since 5th of January and I keep gaining in PE. I don't want commitment until I max out the hydromax X40. I don't want any woman to come talk me out of PE. NEVER.

huge-girth;646382 said:

I love my single life. I've not had sex since 5th of January and I keep gaining in PE. I don't want commitment until I max out the hydromax X40. I don't want any woman to come talk me out of PE. NEVER.

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Lol, I love how you are measuring your relationship time with the maxing out of the BathMate X40! You are going to be a beast at that point. I am also hanging onto being single until I drop that 40 pounds that I put on during my long depressive state. Finally have the energy and determination to get it done now.

I messed up this evening, I ate starchy food. Whenever I ejaculate I become very hungry as if I smoked Marijuana. From today henceforth I will no longer masturbate at night.

huge-girth;646441 said:

I messed up this evening, I ate starchy food. Whenever I ejaculate I become very hungry as if I smoked Marijuana. From today henceforth I will no longer masturbate at night.

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Get the carbs out of your house! This is what I had to do. When I smoke within two hours I am craving junk but all I have in my house is very healthy foods, I have no choice but to fill the hunger with good food.

Thanks dld

what there in life if ur alone ...thats what i learnt