The single lifestyle Vs the commited/married lifestyle - PROS & CONS of each

The single lifestyle Vs the commited/married lifestyle - PROS & CONS of each

  • Single is the way to go, too many girls 'out there' :D

    Votes: 17 20.7%
  • I need a wife or girlfriend to be complete

    Votes: 10 12.2%
  • I am married/in a relationship and love it

    Votes: 19 23.2%
  • I am commited but would be single if could go back in time

    Votes: 8 9.8%
  • I am single and it is overrated IMO, i feel lonely

    Votes: 21 25.6%
  • Only remaining single makes it possible for me to advance in my carreer

    Votes: 7 8.5%

  • Total voters
    82
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8InchMIKE

Guest
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I'd like as many of you as possible to tell me your point of view on this matter.

Is it 'better' to be single or not single in this day and age.

What is good and bad about each ????

Tell what you think of this matter...

( sits and waits with popcorn in hand )

Peace,

Mike
 
Both have their pros and cons based on who and where you are in life. Anyone can argue whatever side they like. It's like a 20 sided die, there are so many possible arguments, it's impossible to find one, solid answer. Myself, I had fun being single. I enjoyed dating. I never fancied myself a ''playboy'' or ''player''. I just enjoyed dating and meeting different types of women. It gave me great experience and unlike many people, I actually learned what I DID AND DID NOT want in a relationship. I think this is where many ''unhappy'' people (in relationships) fail. They never figure out what they truly want to make them happy. Too many people also tend to ''settle'' for whatever comes along, for whatever the reason.
 
I am married to the mob:)
 
stillwantmore2;393265 said:
Both have their pros and cons based on who and where you are in life. Anyone can argue whatever side they like. It's like a 20 sided die, there are so many possible arguments, it's impossible to find one, solid answer. Myself, I had fun being single. I enjoyed dating. I never fancied myself a ''playboy'' or ''player''. I just enjoyed dating and meeting different types of women. It gave me great experience and unlike many people, I actually learned what I DID AND DID NOT want in a relationship. I think this is where many ''unhappy'' people (in relationships) fail. They never figure out what they truly want to make them happy. Too many people also tend to ''settle'' for whatever comes along, for whatever the reason.

Dude... you seem to really know what you are talking about here !

True all of the above, been there...done that...it's truth being spoken.

C'mon people just let us know what you think about this.

Pussy bonanza and free of any hassle or look for the right one and seize the opportunity ?????????

<<< lets here it folks :(d

<peace,

Mike
 
8InchMIKE;393380 said:
Dude, you ARE the mob hahaha

I am the God Father:)
 
All you guys that vote on this poll should also say why you feel this or that way about this issue.

Please put in some input so we can all understand each other's point of view.

Peace,

Mike
 
There are advantages to both situations, being with somebody is nice and it feels less lonely but having ultimate privacy is great too.
 
I'm the kind of guy who likes to have lasting relations. I like to see the same face, to share my days with this person, and even though I'm single now I have been in relations before. Currently my longest lasting relation was for four years. We're still good friends, but a big part of me yearns to get back together. Even moreso, now that I'm starting Penis Enlargement and using the Bathmate. They might be in for a surprise next time. ;P
 
Curiousmouse;393978 said:
I'm the kind of guy who likes to have lasting relations. I like to see the same face, to share my days with this person, and even though I'm single now I have been in relations before. Currently my longest lasting relation was for four years. We're still good friends, but a big part of me yearns to get back together. Even moreso, now that I'm starting Penis Enlargement and using the Bathmate. They might be in for a surprise next time. ;P

I like the way you use the word 'THEY' in your last sentence bro. You are still very young at 23 dude, live life, be responsible ( condoms AND veggies ) lol.

I am out of a 10 year relation bros, it hurts like a bitch... it's been about 2 months now. Damn this is hard bro. Just hard.

I am a strong individual, i seem myself as kind of a fire engine really, i thrive on helping others yet...don't get in my way or you might be in for quite a hit, that's me, others first but still keeping strong-minded and prepared at all times. I will overcome this pain.

Do the same dude, let her go ( unless there's real hope on her part too ) there are MILLIONS of broads out there that would jump at the chance of meeting you, believe it bro.

Be strong, resist the urge to try and prove something that isn't there anymore to someone that has continued on with her life.

Live YOUR life, it can be a fun thing to do :D

Peace,

Mike
 
Curiousmouse;393978 said:
I'm the kind of guy who likes to have lasting relations. I like to see the same face, to share my days with this person, and even though I'm single now I have been in relations before. Currently my longest lasting relation was for four years. We're still good friends, but a big part of me yearns to get back together. Even moreso, now that I'm starting Penis Enlargement and using the Bathmate. They might be in for a surprise next time. ;P

I am the SAME way!
 
This is a good question. I don't think there is a fast answer. The best is simply being with the right girl ya? If you are, then married, because the longer = the better it gets.
On being single:
pros: You get to hunt, tomorrow is a mystery, many surprises, no ties or leashes.
cons: STDs, heartache, abstinence (not by choice), less chance to build a relationship at a deeper level.

On being married:
pros: You can be sleeping with your best friend and she could be hot, you can share things on a much deeper level, you can really explore your own sexuality as the trust grows, you can explore the deepest secrets of a woman's sexuality, many surprises, tomorrow can be a mystery.
cons: You usually only get to sleep with one woman.

Keep in mind, I consider myself lucky-I'm sure some guys would add a shitload to that cons list about leashes, and trust, and cheating, (note all those can fit into the single department too-one night stands can turn into stalkers as well lol). I'd never trade in married life. However, I wanted to point something out here: You CAN have the best of both worlds: If you learn your wife is bi-sexual or bi-curious.... That's when it really can get interesting.

Anyway, good question, my only advice is: Figure out what you really want in a mate and then don't settle... if you achieve that, you might find the shallow stuff you DO get is much better than the shallow stuff you thought you wanted before you raised the bar of priorities.
 
I am lonely living alone and I would like to have Jennifer back with me but since she is not I have no interest in anyone else. With that said, single life has a million advantages. Penis Enlargement when you want, watch what you want, sit around nude, go to bed when you want, wake up when you want, save tons on the grocery bill, watch ���� in the open, no bitching and complaining, I MEAN I COULD GO O0N FOR DAYS!

Advantages of having a woman seem low, I mean after I shoot my load I want to be by myself anyway:) Like I said before I only love em when my dicks hard:)
 
doublelongdaddy;418171 said:
I am lonely living alone and I would like to have Jennifer back with me but since she is not I have no interest in anyone else. With that said, single life has a million advantages. Penis Enlargement when you want, watch what you want, sit around nude, go to bed when you want, wake up when you want, save tons on the grocery bill, watch ���� in the open, no bitching and complaining, I MEAN I COULD GO O0N FOR DAYS!

Advantages of having a woman seem low, I mean after I shoot my load I want to be by myself anyway:) Like I said before I only love em when my dicks hard:)

You need to get her back!
Swallow your pride and be consistent on showing up where she lives and beg daily for at least a month to let her see that you want her!
You are obviously not a player and you need her,whatever you did you need to repair and only pride and fear of rejection is holding you back.

You are not a boy anymore you set up a site that helps people, why not state that something good is made of your life!
 
yea singles good pussy wise
but im still tryna find dat girl who i could love
jus my opinion.
 
I'm in a relationship and it has its ups and down!! There are good parts and bad parts of every day! But nothin beats at nite when your at home in bed and you can lay there up with some one you really care about! That's what makes life all worth it!! Life is more than pussy and cock!!! You gotta live a lil and love a lot!! She is my life!! I love that girl!! (sorry if that's a bit mushy) LOL!!
 
Priapus90;429346 said:
(sorry if that's a bit mushy) LOL!!

I am the same way!
 
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