Psychology The Mental Stages You Go Through With PE

I have learned alot from Penis Enlargement and these are some emotional stages Ive gone through. Im reposting this in the mental gains because I think it can help. I originally posted it as my 500th post.

Since May I have gained between .5-.75 inches in girth and .25 inches in length. The length will come oh yes the length will come.

I have learned alot since May, one of the things I have learned is that there are emotional stages that come with Penis Enlargement.

1. Faith- You have to believe that it will work as you have read countless others that say it does. This is the stage before you start Penis Enlargement. You doubt and wonder why you are even considering it. But then you do it hoping...

2. Hope- After starting Penis Enlargement you start to kind of believe it will work and hope that it stays. Plus you are still hoping that you didnt waste your time and got mislead into believing this is another penis pill hoax.

3. Stage 1 fear- At this stage you havent noticed your 1st gain and you begin to fear that you are doing the basics wrong because you havent noticed your 1st gain yet. This is where the newbie questions come out.

4. Acceptance with doubt- This is the stage when you get your 1st gain. You are of course as excited as a mofo, BUT you secretly doubt it might not stay. You then proceed with caution.

5. Excitement- You got your 1st gain and you "know" it will work(still secretly doubting it). At this stage you think you know ALOT more than you really do.

6. Stage 2 Fear- After you get your 1st gain you FEAR you will lose it if you dont do the required unknown amount of dick pulling. At this stage you usually end up going overboard and trying to get too much too fast as you realize that it works. This is the stage I think is most prone to injuries, which of course leads to the next stage.

6. Stage 3 Fear- Youve hurt yourself in some way and you think youre permanently screwed. Turned your dick purple, shot blood out of your pee hole, got fluid build up, caused rope burn of some sort under the head of your cock from pulling, the list goes on. After youve calmed down you realize that you will heal and things will go back to almost normal. Still have a purple pecker though. This is also the stage you realize you dont know as much as you thought you did.

7. Knowing- You now KNOW that Penis Enlargement works, there is no doubt in your head. You have gained and the gains keep coming and dont disappear after a layoff.

8. Denial- This is a fucked up stage. You look at your bigger cock that youve had for awhile and think "My cock isnt any bigger than when I started" the ONLY thing that can disprove this to you is the ruler/tape. You are in total denial that is has grown and may even deny that the ruler/tape is correct. "There is no way Im that size, its looks smaller than that.

9. Ive hit my limit stage- This is the stage you secretly think you cant get any bigger because of your plateau. Not an easy stage to break. Perserverance is key here.

10. Knowing- The mecca of all stages. This is the stage at which you have to aspire to. After your short stint of denial and Ive hit my limit stage you head back to "knowing" again. This is the stage you spend most of your time at if you continue to Penis Enlargement. If you dont know it will work you end up quiting.

There are a couple more that interject at almost any stage, those stages are called LAZY and BUSY. These stages can screw up alot of workouts.

These are most of the stages Ive noticed through my own Penis Enlargement world. The rides been fun and Im glad Im on it.

wow after a year im somewhere between 8 and 9

Those are some good observations Jakb.

Thanks man. So what stage are you at?

I would say I am somewhere in between # 8 and 9. I know that Penis Enlargement works, and I know I have gained at least 1 inch in length, and 3/8 inch in girth, but I don't think I look too much bigger in the erected state. I luckily took some before pictures and when I reach my goal I can compare.

I kinda have been just cruising and not making any gains from about December to early Feb., but I have new motivation and interest now that I have my penimaster.

I think a later stage that comes, is that you don't feel the need to rush gaining. Right now I want about .75-1 inch more in length to meet my final goal. I really don't care how long it takes. I also would like to get about another inch in girth.

philadelph said:

I would say I am somewhere in between # 8 and 9. I know that Penis Enlargement works, and I know I have gained at least 1 inch in length, and 3/8 inch in girth, but I don't think I look too much bigger in the erected state. I luckily took some before pictures and when I reach my goal I can compare.

I kinda have been just cruising and not making any gains from about December to early Feb., but I have new motivation and interest now that I have my penimaster.

I think a later stage that comes, is that you don't feel the need to rush gaining. Right now I want about .75-1 inch more in length to meet my final goal. I really don't care how long it takes. I also would like to get about another inch in girth.

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You are right on that additional stage, the no rush stage. After awhile you succumb to the fact it takes time and will happen. Before you reach that point there is that rush factor.

You like the penimaster then I take it. It seems as it would be more comfortable than the loop style extender devices. Any thoughts on that?

jakb said:

You are right on that additional stage, the no rush stage. After awhile you succumb to the fact it takes time and will happen. Before you reach that point there is that rush factor.

You like the penimaster then I take it. It seems as it would be more comfortable than the loop style extender devices. Any thoughts on that?

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I really like the penimaster so far. I can't really comment on the loop style since I have never worn them. These devices seem like a sure way to slowly gain length. Only time will tell.

I'm at stage 8, have been for a LONGTIME now.
Jacb, do you mind if I copy the first post and link it at zululand? its awesome and it explains what happens in Penis Enlargement apart from the physical side.

REDZULU2003 said:

I'm at stage 8, have been for a LONGTIME now.
Jacb, do you mind if I copy the first post and link it at zululand? its awesome and it explains what happens in Penis Enlargement apart from the physical side.

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Copy away my friend.

I have been thinking about reposting this in the newbie section. I think it might help alot more people there than it does here. Didnt realize not that many people go to this section.

that looks really well done, jack b.I'm only somewhere about 3-4 though, i see a little gain (about .1 in girth) and every time i measure I'm afraid it will be gone, but it hasn't yet :D

Cool post, I agree with you on those stages, as I've been through them myself..

I would append an 11th stage that I'm at, where I've already acheived 'normal' gains, and any more progress would be considered exceptional. It's hard getting over the mind block that your gains will slow and that there's a limit on what you can gain, but I believe it's also that mind block that creates those limitations.

thanks jakb

Excellent post

I have only been doing Penis Enlargement for 3 months now but am already at stage 8. I gained .5 inches in my first month, went through the "i think my gains won't be permanet (injury phase)". Now when i measure standing up, or am not in my origional position as when i first measured i freak out. Definately a wierd denial phase coupled with LAZY/Busy phase. I need to Fucking snap out of this phase. The worst part about it is i still have easy gains left and am still being lazy. What happens when i gain another .5?

To FUTURE ME: DONT GET COMPLACANT--WORK ON GIRTH AND KEEP AT IT!

Ha, amazing how human minds think alike. I'm around 8-9 the past month. I got some good girth gains I was looking for. Went from 4.5-5.0 with contrictors. Then took a short break came back, and started cranking out intense girthwork everyday, and got no gains for 2-3 weeks. Changed things up still nothing, now changed things up again seeing how thats going. Before though i was like at this rate im gonna be 5.5 by april or may. Then when the gains wernt coming i was like. Does this even work? The tape says im bigger but maybe im just subconicously lying to myself. I dont think my dick looks any bigger than it did. Funny how everyone has these stages. Kinda helps me out though I feel more confident about breakking through it. Thanks man.

Im lingering back at around stage 5. I like gains, but still slightly doubt them.

I never doubt my gains. I hardly ever measure. I measure maybe once every 3-4 months. Just don't want to. I consistently and regularly with the highest level of dedication do girth and stretch and my dick is getting fuckin' huge. I'm looking forward to my year anniversay (8/24/05). I'll take some measurements then. I am absolutely stoked about the benefits of Penis Enlargement and I figure if DLD can go from the 6.75" mark to over 10" with a 7" girth, then fucken so can I. You just have to commit and put in the time and BELIEVE!!!!!

not sure what to say about this topic

cracking post jakb, I know I'm a little late but I just saw it in RED's sig... I think I'm probably inbetween 9 and 10 at the moment, with a hint of BUSY thrown in for good measure

old thread but damn great...

I'm at 5 for now.

An excellent post jakb, and one that has converted me from lurker to poster!

I am probably floating in the regions of between 4 and 6 at the moment, and you are absolutely spot on with what you say.

However, its posts like this, and the general positive and focused vibe I feel from the site and its members that I have managed to work a daily routine for 2 weeks now... and have managed to reschedule my life to incorporate it...

which is where I worry for the "busy" pushing its way in...

but thats not gonna happen

thanks again jakb for your post