That break was a bad idea

After 3 months of gaining nearly an inch life and struggles got in my way and I stopped stretching. I was still using the Bathmate 5-6 nights a week but that's it. After a month I've found the time to stretch again so I'm happy.

Figured I'd jump back in full force and do 1 set of Newbie Routine manual stretches followed by 3 sets in the LengthMaster at 45s each and bundled. Yeah so I'm not quite there yet Manual stretches are no problem, LM stretches are, well, wow. It'll take a few days to get back to the force I had before. I'll get there, no problem, just need time.

My wife is a different story. She tried to claim she doesn't notice that I gained almost an inch in length and over 0.5" in girth but she's full of my penis. I make sure to occasionally give her everything, pressed in as hard as I can, so she can't deny that I'm hitting deeper. It's easier for me to get sounds out of her that I've heard before but required her to already have 1 or 2 orgasms and some flexibility. It happens a lot easier and I love it. The quality of sex has gone up with my size but take note - if you think that size matters you're still wrong. Knowing what you're doing and being able to read your partner matters more than anything. I've had her almost lose her voice while hitting the elusive cul-de-sac with only 5.5" BPEL. With that same length I've given back to back to back orgasms. Gotta know what you're doing.

Anyway, we ran out of baby powder so I picked up some more the other night at the grocery store. She saw it when I got home and was a little irritated when she said "here we go, I know you use that when you're stretching your dick." Rather than engage her in an argument I calmly stated that if I was going to the gym and eating right she wouldn't complain about the results, she'd love it. I'm just making my penis better for both of us to enjoy "and you know it's working and you love it."

No rebuttal to that

I have to work my stretching around her schedule. I'm on 2nd shift, she's on 3rd, so I have to come home and while I'm trying to unwind after work I need to do my stretching. I'd prefer to do it in the morning like I was before but it's just not gonna happen. My days off will be the days she's off so I'll get 2 per week and they won't be back to back days. I just hope she gets over it soon and embraces what I'm doing. I'd rather have her laughing at me while doing stretches than having to hide it from her. Oh well.

I gained 7/8" of EL and BPEL in my first 3 months. I was hoping to get 1/2" in my next 3 months but being realistic I figured if I even got 1/4" I'd be happy. I'm 1 month of work down so we'll see what I can accomplish in the next 2.

No breaks again. Ever. Not until I hit my goal or I'm hurting her during sex, whichever happens first!

Be careful with how much you let her know about man, keep the mystery as much as you can. Best case scenario you gain plenty of size and over time her memory fades and she can remember nothing but that you have a massive cock, unless you keep reminding her😉 we want reassurance that its bigger but we have to think about what will make us the most attractive to them. Sorry for jumping in but im a bit intoxicated 😊

In my opinion breaks are a bad thing. If you get too used to taking time off then you might get lazy and create bad habits. I know that this is the case for me. You always have to be in the right mind set because if you arnt then it just goes downhill from there. Breaks are fine as long as you are keeping the right mind set and even getting in like a quick 5 minute session every other day just to stay in the swing of things.

Sneakystretcher;733169 said:

Be careful with how much you let her know about man, keep the mystery as much as you can. Best case scenario you gain plenty of size and over time her memory fades and she can remember nothing but that you have a massive cock, unless you keep reminding her😉 we want reassurance that its bigger but we have to think about what will make us the most attractive to them. Sorry for jumping in but im a bit intoxicated 😊

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Oh I know exactly what you're saying, I just don't like doing things behind her back. It would be so much easier if she would just accept it and enjoy. For the time being she doesn't know how much or exactly what I'm doing and I'm going to keep it that way.

eugine8plz;733171 said:

In my opinion breaks are a bad thing. If you get too used to taking time off then you might get lazy and create bad habits. I know that this is the case for me. You always have to be in the right mind set because if you arnt then it just goes downhill from there. Breaks are fine as long as you are keeping the right mind set and even getting in like a quick 5 minute session every other day just to stay in the swing of things.

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Getting the motivation to get going again is rough too. I was at least still doing Bathmate work so I wasn't completely stopped and hopefully still gaining a little.

Just glad to have finally found the time to work it in again. I needed to get back to it again.

cladre60;733177 said:

Getting the motivation to get going again is rough too. I was at least still doing Bathmate work so I wasn't completely stopped and hopefully still gaining a little.

Just glad to have finally found the time to work it in again. I needed to get back to it again.

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I know exactly what you mean bro, even a short 5 minute session could help but it is not as good as being in a good routine. I find that also talking in the forums and being connected within the brotherhood also helps me stay focussed and motivated to keep going.

eugine8plz;733189 said:

I know exactly what you mean bro, even a short 5 minute session could help but it is not as good as being in a good routine. I find that also talking in the forums and being connected within the brotherhood also helps me stay focussed and motivated to keep going.

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It helps to be around those into the things you're doing or want to be doing. I was kind of absent from here as well during the past month. Most of it was just life issues and trying to get my head straight. My head is still all screwed up but I think things are getting better.

Back to growth. I may experiment with doing girth in the Bathmate before length work. I've seen it talked about here just haven't read much about it. The concept makes sense though. Alternating between which I do first might not be a bad idea. Need to do measurements first though.

cladre60;733190 said:

It helps to be around those into the things you're doing or want to be doing. I was kind of absent from here as well during the past month. Most of it was just life issues and trying to get my head straight. My head is still all screwed up but I think things are getting better.

Back to growth. I may experiment with doing girth in the Bathmate before length work. I've seen it talked about here just haven't read much about it. The concept makes sense though. Alternating between which I do first might not be a bad idea. Need to do measurements first though.

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Ya there are times where I get very busy with life and everything busy in it and I forget to stop by the forums and check up. I am also hoping to get a bathmate and hopefully it helps out with my length, girth, and flaccid hang/length!

eugine8plz;733191 said:

Ya there are times where I get very busy with life and everything busy in it and I forget to stop by the forums and check up. I am also hoping to get a bathmate and hopefully it helps out with my length, girth, and flaccid hang/length!

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I got one 7 weeks after I started stretching and jelqing. In those 7 weeks I gained no girth and I was doing 500-700 wet jelqs almost every night. 6 weeks with the Bathmate and I gained over 0.5" girth. That thing works. Even if I only get another 0.25-.5" girth from it I'll be happy. I'm iffy about getting to 6" girth, that's pretty thick. I'll be happy at 5.5", maybe 5.75". I'm at 5.25" as of last measurements which isn't bad at all.

Forgot to add.... the nights that I did 300 wet jelqs before using the BM I came out of it so much thicker and it seemed a lot more even. I take so damn long in the shower though that I stopped jelqing before using the BM. My wife was seriously questioning how long I was in there

All sounds good and copacetic! Forge on!

doublelongdaddy;733208 said:

All sounds good and copacetic! Forge on!

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I'm trying. It's hard to get up the energy to stretch after coming home from work when all I want to do is relax. Gotta keep the motivation going.

cladre60;733313 said:

I'm trying. It's hard to get up the energy to stretch after coming home from work when all I want to do is relax. Gotta keep the motivation going.

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The next generation of the Lengthmaster needs a beer holder

eugine8plz;733191 said:

Ya there are times where I get very busy with life and everything busy in it and I forget to stop by the forums and check up. I am also hoping to get a bathmate and hopefully it helps out with my length, girth, and flaccid hang/length!

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Trust me, the bathmate will help with all of those. It's one of the best things you can do for PE, and it makes everything else more effective as well. And after you see the gains slowing from it you just throw in a wine vac and BOOM! Gains part 2! It's worth every penny in my opinion.

+1...the winemod increases the intensity exponentially. a must for every BM user, imo

stillwantmore2;733324 said:

The next generation of the Lengthmaster needs a beer holder

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lol, I will have LIGHTNING add a cup holder and ash tray

stillwantmore2;733324 said:

The next generation of the Lengthmaster needs a beer holder

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The injuries would be insane. From dropping your beer and trying to pick it up while doing a BTC stretch to getting numb from alcohol and pulling too hard....

but the extra weight would be nice lol.

ThatDude512;733327 said:

Trust me, the bathmate will help with all of those. It's one of the best things you can do for PE, and it makes everything else more effective as well. And after you see the gains slowing from it you just throw in a wine vac and BOOM! Gains part 2! It's worth every penny in my opinion.

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At the very least if that's all you're doing it should keep you from losing any gains. I know I haven't gotten any smaller using just the BM for a month, I think I may have gained a little.

I know I won't be happy until I've just about maxxed out the X30. While I could always aim for bigger you gotta figure if you max out the X30 you are huge compared to the average guy and that's my goal size. Huge but still fits in my wife

stillwantmore2;733324 said:

The next generation of the Lengthmaster needs a beer holder

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LOL i like that sound of that, PE and beer my 2 favourite things aha

Well I have good news about the break!

I didn't lose any BPFSL!

Might have even gotten a little since I didn't stop BM work. I wasn't getting the best pulls either when I checked as the fan kept blowing in my direction.

Just wanted to make sure things were okay. I'm not due for measurements until early August so BPFSL was my only choice to check for any losses. Now back to my regularly scheduled stretching for more gains!