Well, my new girlfriend of two months dropped a semi-bombshell on my last night. I found out that one of her male friends/co-workers fingered her a while ago(before we met) while they were both drunk. She said she was completely smashed and would have never done it sober.
This part doesn't bother me. The part that bothers me is that she still gets drunk with her male friends/co-workers. She even refers to them as 'bad influences'.
Now would I be overreacting if I told her to stop drinking with her male friends?
I'm not controlling at all. I have stayed out of her personal life outside of our relationship. I just think I need to put my foot down on this one. Comments?
This part doesn't bother me. The part that bothers me is that she still gets drunk with her male friends/co-workers. She even refers to them as 'bad influences'.
Now would I be overreacting if I told her to stop drinking with her male friends?
I'm not controlling at all. I have stayed out of her personal life outside of our relationship. I just think I need to put my foot down on this one. Comments?