Stupid women... am I overreacting?

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Well, my new girlfriend of two months dropped a semi-bombshell on my last night. I found out that one of her male friends/co-workers fingered her a while ago(before we met) while they were both drunk. She said she was completely smashed and would have never done it sober.

This part doesn't bother me. The part that bothers me is that she still gets drunk with her male friends/co-workers. She even refers to them as 'bad influences'.

Now would I be overreacting if I told her to stop drinking with her male friends?

I'm not controlling at all. I have stayed out of her personal life outside of our relationship. I just think I need to put my foot down on this one. Comments?
 

tru4u27

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Well Depends if you guys are really serious and depends on how long you have been together---me and my girl have been together for 2 in a half years and we can tell each other to do this or not to do that--vice versa!!!!!

So i mean if she cares about how you feel tell her and she will listen--if she doesnt listen then she doesnt care about how u feel--simple as that bro!!!!
 
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i say no one should be telling either one what to do, if you cant make the right choice on your own then you might not have a worthwhile relationship, and then go get a new girl with your bigger better wang. =)
 
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That is definately something to be worried about. And this incident most likely happened while you were together with her. She told a half truth to feel a little better and get it off her conscience. Drinking while not around you and with male friends will lead to trouble.
 

bigbutnottoo

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Yeah, I will say more on this later but you are right to be concerned.
 
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Well, maybe this one is a keeper.

I voiced my concern and she's totally cool with it. Said she would stop drinking with the co-workers/male friends. I found out that this event happened over a year ago and they were in a semi-relationship, decided to just be friends after. Feel MUCH better now.
 

medo

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هاى ممكن تبعوتلى رسيال حلو زى الى عندى
 
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medo said:
هاى ممكن تبعوتلى رسيال حلو زى الى عندى
Holy shit, what language is this? How do I write like this? Very funky.
 
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I would dump her. Its a bad precedent of things to come and it says something about her as a person. But then, it all depends on the types of girls you want to be with and what you want from them, and thats the true bottom line.
 

bigbutnottoo

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levista said:
it all depends on the types of girls you want to be with and what you want from them, and thats the true bottom line.
True like a beer commercial.
 
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medo said:
هاى ممكن تبعوتلى رسيال حلو زى الى عندى
This is farsi. I know how to speak fluently it but i cant read it :(
 
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yea the guy needs to be a little controlling and tell his girl what to do. Good going. also a good thing it wasnt that big of a deal (year ago)
 
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