Some help guys?

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Look, IM in highschool had around 8 gfs ... I never really had to do any work they came to me instead. IM not really that good with conversation and their is this girl I want to start talking too.. I am not even sure if she likes me ore not but whatever. I live in newark,nj kinda like the ghetto so I dont want seem like a geek when I talk to her. Basically,All I have ever said to here was hi. I have no idea what to say after that. Any one have any suggestion?


This is very pathetic for a person who has had 8 gfs lol
 
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Ok mate, time to unleash some SMALL TALK.

Everyone hates Small Talk, I know i do. But think of it as a social handshake. Talk to her about class etc. Double check stuff from class with her "what was that assignment date?" etc. How you say it is more important that what you say, but basically ask her very casually and clearly, then say thanks and turn away. Dont at any time look as if you are hanging on her every word, you must give the impression this is just another conversation of the 100s you will have that day.
What you dont want to do, is look her deep in the eyes, lean in close, breath in her smell and tell her you'd pull down the moon for her. Thats going from 0 to 100 mph too fast. Sure you want to do 100mph with her, but we gotta start slow and build up, right?

No-one ever pulled a good woman without starting with small talk.

Small steps mate, will get you to any destination, and this is your first step.
 
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Or you could do it this way. Come up to her and slowly say "Hey, i bet every loser in this school is hitting on you atleast twice a day. I just wanted to say that you are very *Pause for 3 seconds* beautiful, and i think that i want to know you better" Look her straight in the eyes all the time and speak slowly.Than you can start with the small talk, but try to avoid clique questions like "Do you do sports?", instead be different and ask " What do your friends say about you?" for example. If she asks anything about yourself, never give direct answers. For example if she asks "What do you do?" answer something like "Oh, i'm a slave trader. You know, import export." Be the first one to leave, say something like you have to go hang out with your friends. The best case scenario is you get her phone number and she doesn't know a thing about you.
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Zurik has some good points, and his suggested style is much more "playa" than mine :)

Both are equally valid, find what works for you. Personally I know I *couldnt* take his approach, but then I find I differ from a lot of ppl in that i want to get long term girls. I would suggest the "playa" style is better for short term pickups, because that level of effort is hard if not impossible to maintain for the rest of your life =)

Your call Shism, and let us know how you get on!!
 

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