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This has been sorta bugging me since I first started Penis Enlargement and hanging out on message boards.

Most, if not ALL people on these boards that are Penis Enlargementing are usually WELL above average. And it probably falls into some sort of body dismorphic disorder or something like that.

I mean, I'm slightly above average, yet when I look down I feel like i have the smallest member in the world.

Now, where are all the really small guys? Shouldn't they be insecure? Or have they just come to terms with their small size? I might be making generalizations though. Or have they compensated for their small junk by being successful professionals or by driving really huge trucks or something?

I dunno, Just a thought. I think its really interesting that most of us are BIG, yet we keep Penis Enlargementing...heh. But the board seems to be in short supply of "small" guys.

Eh, any thoughts? Maybe its just one of those days I'm letting my penis run my life.
 

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My penis runs my life everyday, man!

If you look at the amount of members in total compared to the amount of members who actually post, you'll see that only a very small percentage choose to participate in the discussions. Who knows what else lurks around in silence?

And yeah, hanging on these boards over the past year has brainwashed me a little bit too. But Penis Enlargement works, so you might as well keep at it.
 
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im sure there are smaller sized members in this forum....and even those who are bigger reach their goals they want more....just like after u reach your first million dollars...why settle??if you can get more,go for it....you have more than enough support..:)
 
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I just had a horrible realisation after stopping my workout short due to erection problems. My dick is ****ing tiny!! :mad: Not necessarily in numbers (I'm 6.6'' and about 5''), but rather in relation to the rest of my body. I haven't gained yet, although I've been working my ass off fo quite a while now, but my body IS growing rapidly, thanks to HST (short for hypertrophy specific training). This makes my average sized penis, which I was OK with in the past, look like a little shrimp in comparison.

I also seem to have lost some girth for whatever reason... it seriously looked SO damn skinny that it couldn't have possibly measured 5'' around, although I didn't bother to do the measuring.
I dunno... maybe I'm just feeling very tiny right now because the workout I just did was probably the worse one I've had yet. I just couldn't keep the damn thing up for more than a few seconds!! :mad:

It would be apparent that my mood right now is affecting the way I percieve my penis... and maybe things really aren't that bad after all. At least I have a decent starting size, so my goal of one inch in both areas should be realistic even if I'm the slowest gainer in the world.

Gotta stop obsessing over the issue... it will probably start to look a lot bigger once my mood improves. ;)
 

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Originally posted by cacavolante
Most, if not ALL people on these boards that are Penis Enlargementing are usually WELL above average. And it probably falls into some sort of body dismorphic disorder or something like that.
You hit it on the head with this comment. It is so important for the men here to realize that making your penis bigger may not change your perception of your size. These changes in many men stem from deep rooted psychological issues. When training in Penis Enlargement one needs to train both body and mind. I have spent so much of my time on these body issue studies. You can find many on this forum. Sadly this research I have done goes on deaf ears for the most part. I will seek out the links for you to read. Please do so and take it to heart. Nothing helped me more than applying some of the therapies I created from my research.

It is very important for people to hear my story as it exemplifies body dismorphia in the most vivid way. As I got bigger and bigger I really believed that my self view would grow with my penis. I always had these thoughts like, "damn, if I could only reach 8" I will be happy". The problem was I was not becoming happy, I was becoming more obsessed and critical. The wishful thinking went from 8 to 9 to 10.... Somewhere around 9 and 10 inches I knew I had to do something. I realized that I was measuring huge gains but I could not see them. This is when I started the various studies on this subject. (For the members of MoS paysite you will find these studies and therapies in the DLD's Notebook section of the site, for the non-members the studies are in the forums and if I get a change I will link them to this thread).

I have made such progress mentally in Penis Enlargement. It has been a tough battle but I am able to see my results today. I am able to realize that I am well hung and feel good about it. I still have off days but we all do. What is important is that you grow mentally while you are growing physically. Please take the time to read my studies.
 

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I know this may be counter productive to some, but how would I become an obsessive compulsive over the size of my penis?
 

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Originally posted by Gardenier90
I know this may be counter productive to some, but how would I become an obsessive compulsive over the size of my penis?
Some people will have a disposition for this. This does not mean every guy who does Penis Enlargement is bound to have obsessive issues. I have found many men already have these issues prior to Penis Enlargement and they manifest themselves after they begin. Some men just end up with some of these problems due to the magical quality Penis Enlargement has. Some men may get involved with Penis Enlargement, reach their goal, be happy and never give it another thought. Everyone is different...for the men who have these issues I feel it is my duty to help them with the awareness I have gained. I created a very simple questionaire that helps identify this in Penis Enlargement.
 
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Seeing is believing, the ruler doesn't lie. The minds eye doesn't recognize the change. I know I have yet, due to the fact that I see it everyday, I don't see the changes. If we could only take a vacation from ourselves, Penis Enlargement during it and come back later. We would see the difference. Funny how not seeing something in a while you notice the changes there. Huh, I'v got it. Penis Enlargement, Pee, Shower , Sex Etc. only in the dark for a year. Bet you would see the difference then......:D
 
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Well, I feel the same as most of the others - even after measuring and there's no question in my mind that I'm 3/4" longer than when I started, and a tad thicker, it still looks small. A couple of observations ....

For one, the guys who post on this board represent a minority as has been mentioned. However, I feel that the majority of those who do post are seriously doing Penis Enlargement .... what reason to post otherwise? As SWM has pointed out, many of us probably read, post, and ask questions more religously than we do Penis Enlargement. BUT, I believe that most of us have "the bug" and are doing something, even if we aren't as dedicated as we like. Therefore, since we've proven that Penis Enlargement works, it stands to reason that as time goes by we're getting bigger and bigger, some of us more quickly than others. Some of us had an enviable starting size, but many of the current "big guns" were average or below average. You should take heart in seeing so many well hung guys here, because it <i>proves</I> that this stuff works!

As far as perception, our personal view of looking down on our penis is the worst view. With a camera in front of us, especially angled up, even an average size penis can look huge. One reason is that the outside view includes the testicles, which are mostly hidden from our birdseye view. Viewing the penis from the front, you get the whole picture of penis + balls, which gives the impression of a larger size. I don't know about the rest of you, but I've found that after reading DLD's size studies and viewing porn on my own, many guys you see in videos are only average size. That's why the guys with a "real" 9" - 10+" look so freaking huge. IMO, in commercial porn the average male actor is 7" - 8". In amateur porn you can find smaller, like a japanese video I recently found. From a camera angle of a few feet away, it was obvious that this guy could not have been more than 6" in length or 5" in girth, most likely less than that. Only an inch or two of his dick stuck out past the girl's hand when she grabbed it for a blow job. She was japanese too, had huge breasts though and did not look skinny like many you see. But, when he was fucking her and the camera zoomed in, his cock did not look small. Just like DLD has shown, it depends on the frame of reference as to how large it looks.

I've also noticed that, seems like every guy I've seen who appears to be 9" or more, the shaft is larger than the head. I've only seen "mushroom" dick heads, where the head is bigger than the shaft, on guys around 7" - 8", for example the MILF hunter guy I doubt he's over 7" in length and probably no more than 5.5" in girth, but that mushroom head gives the impression of a larger size.

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