jetsetter439;370493 said:
could you elaborate a bit on this?
Basically what I was trying to get across was that how an individual chooses to view and interpret any given situation is what renders that situation as either positive or negative to that individual.
It's your choice, and yours alone, to let an experience either enhance or diminish your life, health and well being.
Go back a bit and read your post #16; until this one chick started spouting off, you had no doubt in your mind at all that your previous sexual experiences were good for both you and your partners.
But, you chose, (yes, and as compelled as you may feel to give way to her, it's still, actually, all your choice, really) to give her insults more importance than your own memory or your own conclusions. And that's driving you crazy.

Now, this may sound quite simplistic; but it's your choice, just one quick decision away to ask yourself; "Was I so wrong about myself all this time-about all those times, or is she just a ball-breaking little kid throwing a tantrum?"
You decided to give her control, you can decide to take it back.
 
Basically what I was trying to get across was that how an individual chooses to view and interpret any given situation is what renders that situation as either positive or negative to that individual.
It's your choice, and yours alone, to let an experience either enhance or diminish your life, health and well being.
Go back a bit and read your post #16; until this one chick started spouting off, you had no doubt in your mind at all that your previous sexual experiences were good for both you and your partners.
But, you chose, (yes, and as compelled as you may feel to give way to her, it's still, actually, all your choice, really) to give her insults more importance than your own memory or your own conclusions. And that's driving you crazy.

Now, this may sound quite simplistic; but it's your choice, just one quick decision away to ask yourself; "Was I so wrong about myself all this time-about all those times, or is she just a ball-breaking little kid throwing a tantrum?"
You decided to give her control, you can decide to take it back.

Quality post right there. When me and my girlfriend have fights she has never bashed my sexual aspects, mainly because she understands how I feel. However she is the first to admit that she and other women will always say stuff they know will hurt a guy when a verbal argument breaks out. It's immature but it happens.

According to what you have written, I don't know if you will turn any of this into positive thinking. But the above post has the mental approach you need.
 
I couldn't have said it better than MAXAMEYES. I was thinking,"Why stoop to her level by participating in her insults?" Even if you win, you won't feel satisfied.
Anyway, if there's any consolation, i'm 6" bone pressed full erect and the fairly attractive women say I'm one of the largest they've ever been with. So there really aren't many big dicks walking around.
I'm seriously thinking of increasing it to 7". Anyone here got some statistics on the percentage of men with 7" and above?
 
Coffee Black;397759 said:
I couldn't have said it better than MAXAMEYES. I was thinking,"Why stoop to her level by participating in her insults?" Even if you win, you won't feel satisfied.
Anyway, if there's any consolation, i'm 6" bone pressed full erect and the fairly attractive women say I'm one of the largest they've ever been with. So there really aren't many big dicks walking around.
I'm seriously thinking of increasing it to 7". Anyone here got some statistics on the percentage of men with 7" and above?

7", to most women, would be massive. Considering 5.5" is average it would blow most of them away.
 
Simyan;398096 said:
6" x 5" isn't small :)

It's a good foundation for a MoS certified cock ! :)

That is above average in both length and girth.
 
so a short term fuck buddy hits the nail on your subconscious level and you get obsessed with your size.

ok lets break it down. Redzulu give me a beat :)

what type of girls do most guys prefer?
A: pamela or more extreme
B: natural cute girls
C: girls so tight you get bruises on your cock after sex

i think you will find most guys will go for optien B.

although A and C would be fun. maybe just for once. we really just want someone we connect with. physically and mentally.

so what guys do girls go for?

A: vin diesel copys
B: average handsome guy
C: guy so big that big things look small compared to his equipment.

again you will find that most girls will go for option B.
what you experienced was an 18 year old girl on an adventure. and yes. option a and c is much more fun for her that B. in that case it is true.
But then again, if you went to a strip bar you want to see tits. BIG tits, same with ����. but it doesn't need to mean that you want the same in your daily life.

my advise to you. go nuts with google. and find some studys on sex and how you can be come a pro at it.

Read: "sex god method"
watch "2girls teach sex"
see white tiger tantra.

i have a cock around the same size as you. and had ex girlfriends who where size queens (had one who claimed her best lover was a 28cm long slong thats 11,2 inches)

and what happened? i fucked her to pieces. not because of my big bad cock, but because im a god on the sheets. i know exactly how to fuck her.

Every guy with respect for him self knows a ton of unusual stuff about his favorit sport. and he knows exactly how the top players should play.

yet most guys knows 2 points on a woman. the clit and the G spot.
Most guys don't know how to use any of those properly. and when you start to talk about the deeper points and how to affect them most guys goes: "coooomeeee ooooon, are you telling me there is MORE in there?"

go read on sex. thrust me, it will give you selfesteem above insane :)



or you could (and im not saying this is the most healthy thing but i leave it up to you)
use it as motivation for dedication your self to Penis Enlargement.
personally when i sometimes just can't bother to do my workout i google: cuckold which is this fetish with guys who is not man enough for their wife (usually because of their size) and therefore they of course have to watch their wife getting handled by a "REAL MAN"
remember it is a fetish, but it works for me, you know like smacking your own fingers when your reaching out for another piece of cake :)
go buy an extender and a Bathmate and find DLD's routine on working with those 2. thats the fastest way to gain.
or stay manual (can still give plenty of results) keep record of everything and do it regularly. Penis Enlargement is not a sprint it is a marathon and ofc you haven't seen results when you never really follow up on your own work.

Hope you can use any of this.
 
For whatever my input might be worth, I'll give you a little advice that I've gleaned over the years. First, though, a quick observation; even though you post twenty-five years of age-(now don't get insulted)- you don't sound very "experienced". And here's where having a few miles under the belt comes in handy: Women will always, ALWAYS, go for the dick insult when it comes to you exposing something they themselves are sensitive or feeling guilty about. ALWAYS. You should give her comments as little credence as possible.
One thing you should actually find reassuring, as strange as it may sound, is the speed with which she went directly to the dick insult; this shows that she really had no other ammo whatsoever to sling at you.
My most sincere advice would be to just chalk her up to experience, recognize her remarks as the juvenile (18, after all, ain't nearly grown) desperation move they were and happily move on. The only substance her insults now have is the substance YOU give them. Soon she'll just be an amusing memory. Good Luck.
 
Haha haha most bitches do not realize how wide their pussyholes are they walk around as if they had the thigtest freshest and most beautiful cunts in town...besides some of them can be so demanding lol WTF
 
I was hanging out with a few women friends a few weeks ago. We got onto the subject of breakups and the shit people say about each other after the break. One of the women turned to me and said, "You do know that after a breakup the guy always gets smaller and smaller..." I laughed my ass off. So they slam us in that department.

Listen man, this is one girl. In the heat of an argument I have found that women will out-vicious a man any day. A friend of mine told me - "While you're asleep, that bitch is laying over there trying to figure out the best way to fuck you up." You coulda had a 10' dick with 7" girth and she still would have called you Tiny Tim...It's what they do best - kick you right in the balls.

I know you're young and want that nice feeling of having a warm body to cuddle up to, but I am sure you saw many warning signs about staying away from her. Damn, I once left a woman's apartment and said, "That woman is crazy" (literally). Did I listen to myself? Hell no. I married her. Now we're getting divorced. Believe me, that's a mistake I'm not making again.

Keep working at it, read and read and read here. These guys at this forum are awesome and always willing to help out.

Forget that chick. She's with a new victim now.
Lol lol lol she's Whit a new victim that's true,besides her pussyhole is way to victimized even at such young age lol.
 
Or he could create a monster cock and go back and teach her a lesson:)

Show her how hard and big the cock gets Whit another girls while he was only "average" when she was Whit her show her she was not good enoughlol
 
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Show her how hard and big the cock gets Whit another girls while he was only "average" when she was Whit her show her she was not good enoughLOL

It would be a bit of a sweet vengeance if it happened
 
It would be a bit of a sweet vengeance if it happened
Yep hell yeah or even if the chance is given fucke the shit out of that bitch,or what about completely ignoring that POS? ? ?
 
Yep hell yeah or even if the chance is given fucke the shit out of that bitch,or what about completely ignoring that POS? ? ?

When I broke up with my girlfriend and she was gone for three years when she came back I was bigger and it blew her mind. That lasted about three months LOL
 
When I broke up with my girlfriend and she was gone for three years when she came back I was bigger and it blew her mind. That lasted about three months LOL
I really don't think that bitch is coming back to me even when I see her quite often I'd find the way to let her know what's up
 
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I really don't think that bitch is coming back to me even when I see her quite often I'd find the way to let her know what's up

At this point my life I could give a shit about my size or what women think. It’s the most freedom I’ve ever had!
 
At this point my life I could give a shit about my size or what women think. It’s the most freedom I’ve ever had!

Yep but for some reason if I get the chance I want to tear her apart that's why I want gains.. right after I'd feel satisfaction.
 
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