Sex with the wife after childbirth

Skepdick

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I don't know if I am alone in this, but a few months ago my wifey had our first child, a boy named Xavier. My son was 8 lbs 2 oz. at birth, and quite chunky. Now, I look at pictures of my son at birth and I look at my dick, and I have a conundrum; I am afraid to have sex with my wife ever since she gave birth. I'm afraid that she'll be stretched out, looser, and less able to feel my dick inside her. This is my main reason for getting involved hardcore with Penis Enlargement and joining the girth attack. Has anyone else ever had this fear? I mean, how could my average dick feel the same inside her after squeezing a kid out?!?!?! How?
 
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skepdick you have nothing to worry about...my sons mother had two kids...after a few weeks she went back to her normal size...after my son was born...i'm not a physician but i believe just as she expands to give birth she also retracts after...you shouldn't worry about her not feeling you...what you need to do is get back in the saddle and do the damn thing...p.s. pregnant pussy is the best :p ...i don't know what happens to it after they get pregnant but i never experience nothing like that and haven't sense
 

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Wow. I've always told my g/f C section some day b/c I thought it stretched or tore out too. There was one lady that told me the stuff doesn't go back like it used to. Prabably the reason why I pretty much believed it to be true for everyone.
 

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It totally depends on the situation. I know a woman who somehow shrunk after childbirth (scare tissue?). Actually, it was a bad thing as her hubby was like 6.5" girth so it pretty much killed their sexlife and ultimately their marriage.

For me, the wife feels about the same. She might be a little "looser", but that's no big deal as she was pretty tight to begin w/.
 

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doublelongdaddy said:
You can always choose to get an episiotomy which will tighten things right up, GUARANTEED!
Actually, that is a popular misconception. While an episiotomy will help prevent tears during childbirth and pelvic floor problems in the future, it won't tighten things up. I've asked an ob/gyn. I wish it were true though.

On a funny note, the same ob/gyn told me about patients having "repairwork" done in middle age. Then, i think there is some tightening up. In fact sometimes women will bring in a dildo that's the husband's size to make sure the fit is still good. Now, if you were the husband. Wouldn't you be tempted to switch the dildo for a slightly smaller one and not tell her? :s
 

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This is calming me down a little bit, she's been practically begging me for the cock all week long, I will update you this weekend after I have sex with her and let you know how it goes.
 
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honestly, you shouldn't worry too much all the time she spent healing probably took care of everything...good luck
 

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Sorry about the delay guys, I FINALLY broke down and just decided to give the wifey some sex. I must say, everything was definately back to normal and things were great. It had been almost 4 months since we had any and we were both extremely horny. Glad everything is back to normal, thanks for the encouragement guys.
 
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4 MONTHS !! Damn bro, i wouldn't care if it got loose or not, i would hit it as soon as she was ready. I can hardly go 4 days without sex, can't even imagine 4 months.
 

WantToBeThick

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yea, 4 months is tough. When our baby was born we probably went a total of 2 months without sex and the first few times were slow and easy. She had some minor labia tears that took awhile to heal.
 

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Skepdick, congrats on parenthood and glad to hear everything was good with the return to action.
 

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doublelongdaddy said:
twins is right, it all snaps back. After my x-wife had my child I thought the same thing but when I finally hit it nothing really changed.
DLD, I didn't realize you had a child, or even a previous marriage. Hope that all worked out as best it could have.
 

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doublelongdaddy said:
You can always choose to get an episiotomy which will tighten things right up, GUARANTEED!
Yes episiotomy does seem to tighten it up,after each of our two kids my wife told the doctor to give her an xtra stitch,the doctor looked at her like she was crazy, she was already pretty tight before having children.
 

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Sounds like this doctor knew more than he probably should have! Haha, just kidding man ...
 

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pupper said:
Yes episiotomy does seem to tighten it up,after each of our two kids my wife told the doctor to give her an xtra stitch,the doctor looked at her like she was crazy, she was already pretty tight before having children.
I'm not trying to be a jerk here, but the doctor probably did think your wife was crazy. An episiotomy can only make the skin tighter at best and we all know how the skin can stretch .
 
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