Sex Frequency Increase Post PE?

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Alright, I have a question to those who have been through the rigors of Penis Enlargement with a SO (or something like it). Specifically to those who had a low occurance of sex before Penis Enlargement, but after it increased.

I'm wondering if this happens frequently because the girl I'm seeing right now, we have sex like once every two weeks if I'm lucky. Over the summer while we were apart for a time we'd go at it every weekend, so that's a little better than what I currently have going on.

We've been going out for about a year and a half now, and initially she put forth herself as someone who was as horny as me, so we did it all the time. Come to find out later that she was faking horniness that entire time to "get" me. Supposedly the orgasms were real but I don't know anymore.

During sex she orgasms once, tops, every single time. Even if I have my days where I can last an hour or more, she still will only cum once. She only orgasms with her on top, that is until recently, I'll explain later. I found out later as well that she does not like cunninglingus (which I really enjoy doing), fingering, anal stimulation, hell even kissing for an extended period of time. Over time I've discovered that she's had a bad sexual encounter in the past, so that explains the fingering bit. But the rest I chalk up to low self-esteem from talking with her about them, what I can do to turn her on, etc.

Anyway, in comes Penis Enlargement. So my Penis Enlargement is partially an attempt to get her to enjoy sex more. I focused on length first to be able to hit the CD's. She didn't even notice after I'd been doing it for about 7 months, gaining ~1 inch in length . She knows now because we discussed it but is kinda, whatever about it. So I continue and one night in missionary she actually has an orgasm, more intense than the typical orgasm apparently, and was/is the only time that's happened thus far.

Now I discussed with her my next phase of Penis Enlargement. I was debating between pushing to my first of three goals to 8" BPenis EnlargementL and was going to switch to hanging to do it. Or try to gain some girth which has stayed put at 5" for the past 8 or 9 months now. With her input I decided to focus on girth for awhile, using hanging as well to increase base girth and gain length on the side to "fill her up" as she put it.

But, now I'm left wondering, are my efforts in vain? Would I end up with my goal size and her not even moisten a drop? This is why I'm asking if anyone has gone through something like this, where their partner was wary of sex before Penis Enlargement, but after achieving either your goal or some improvement, the sex life improved as well. Oy, give me hope fellas.

Sorry for the shpiel, bored, and don't wanna study, and curious about this now. But thank you, even if you don't respond for reading this misHydromaxash.
 

derringer57

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I plan to do length for the rest of the year then some very unorthodox possibly dangerous girth routine next until I reach a certain goal, based on how far my length has come along. Anyhow I do think sex will increase as the relationship goes on and strengthens and I reach my size goals. She doesnt want me any longer (currently just under 8" BP), but does say she wouldnt mine me being thicker, Im at (5.75" right now)
 

xxxyamzxxx

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guys IMHO women, especially those that you are involved with (gf, wife, as opposed to fuck buddy) are not as interested in penis size as we think. women are much more turned on by the approach used (being romantic etc..) they dont like to feel like sex is expected, work your way into it. ive known many girls who have been extremely sexualy satisfied w/ a penis no bigger than average and girls who have had larger penises and not been satisfied because of other aspects of sexual relations. pe for urselves guys cuz i feel that it means more to us than to them.
 

derringer57

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Lol size = more pleasure. People say it is how you use it. But if an 8x6 knows how to use it, and so does a 6x5, the women would derive more pleasyre from the 8x6, unless she is extremely tight/small.

Therefor, learn how to use it, then learn how to grow it ;)
 

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You have to help her on an emotional level. She needs to feel safe. If she is holding on to that bad experience it will need to be worked through. Not fun to do it, but it is necessary. Working through the emotional barriers will yield a better sex life more than a bigger cock. But doing both of course couldnt hurt. LOL

Good luck. Keep us posted...
 

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Must agree, if its a psycological problem then getting a bigger dick won't realy help much. If you're girl had a bad/real bad sexual experiance in the past what hurt her mind and soul, only a professional can help at that point. And this should not only be done to improve you're sex life put in the first place to help you're girl. Problems like that can be very fatal and can even take a very bad ending. In cases like this sex should rather be put back to see the real problem. Belive me, help from a professional will help you're girl a lot and if she manages to overget her Problem then she will be able to properly enjoy sex again. Things like that can take a long time and the worst thing you can do is to erg her to something.
 
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Thank you very much for the input so far fellas!

I've talked to her about seeing someone she could talk to about her past, I even personally know at least 2 who are in the field. But she does not want anyone at all to hear about it. So even if she did go to someone I'm not sure how much she would be willing to reveal in order to get help, but it will definitely be something I'll focus more on.
 

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Had this discussion with current GF after already doing Penis Enlargement for 8 months. She said I had good length and if I was to focus on anything it should be girth (I am a hair over 5 girth and can get it to 5.5 when clamped). My length is about 8 BP and 7 NBP right now so I was surprised she felt that way about length .

Nevertheless, depending on the time of the month I can hit her CDS now as she asks "what are you doing" when I go in deep and just kind of grind it in there when in the missionary position. I just say "aweeeee nuttin honey".

Anyways, don't worry about how many orgasms you give your GF in a session because odds are you are only getting one yourself. Plus, sex follows the law of diminishing returns so if you are a stud in the bed 24x7 then eventually she will get used to that as being average sex later on so pace yourself.

If you know her cycle you can maybe plan a nice romantic holiday if a weekend falls during her peak of ovulation when a lot of women tend to be the most horny. Just screw her brains out insanely at least once a month and you shouldn't have to worry about being superman the rest of the month. Just don't go with two months of mediocre sex or else don't be surprised if your best friend and your girlfriend are having plutonic conversations over coffee (-:
 

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Cybershot that what you said about you're girl is absolutly typical for those cases. Their ain't much you can do about it then talk, talk and talk again. Look at info on the net about her problem with her. Look at the way professionals work with patients. Show her that a lot of people go there and that you are absolutly no nutcase if you go there. Try and make her Understand that there is nothing to be ashamed of. And so on and so on. The First step is always accepting that you have got a issue and that you can't get over it on you're own. I realy feel for you and you're girl man, i had a close friend nearly kill herself because she got sexualy abused and never said a word to anybody because she was so ashamed of it. Luckyly she was found befor she was dead. That's been 3 years ago now and she's been in psychoterapy since then and first now she is slowly starting to get over it. Never take things like that on the easy shoulder. Some scars never heal on their own.
 

hopful

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And take you're time! don't rush her!
 
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hopful said:
Cybershot that what you said about you're girl is absolutly typical for those cases. Their ain't much you can do about it then talk, talk and talk again. Look at info on the net about her problem with her. Look at the way professionals work with patients. Show her that a lot of people go there and that you are absolutly no nutcase if you go there. Try and make her Understand that there is nothing to be ashamed of. And so on and so on. The First step is always accepting that you have got a issue and that you can't get over it on you're own. I realy feel for you and you're girl man, i had a close friend nearly kill herself because she got sexualy abused and never said a word to anybody because she was so ashamed of it. Luckyly she was found befor she was dead. That's been 3 years ago now and she's been in psychoterapy since then and first now she is slowly starting to get over it. Never take things like that on the easy shoulder. Some scars never heal on their own.
Yeah, I've had a couple of close calls with that kind of situation with her. So far I've been able to keep her from doing anything rash, and I'm thankful for that.

MCTFB - Yeah I've tried to time it with her on a couple of occasions but even if I time it right, the slightest thing can sway her, even if I do everything in my power to keep her aroused and excited, thoughts from the day/week or something external very easily affects her. Thing is I just want her to enjoy sex as much as me, I'm pretty much consta-horny so it's tough sometimes. But live and learn I suppose.

Thanks again for all the advice guys! Has been most insightful!
 
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