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millionman said:

Well, there are a few of us good guys still around....As long as Kong is having a good day...Just kiddin bro...

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You've upset Mr. Bigglesworth! You know what happens when Mr. Bigglesworth gets upset! :D

millionman said:

Well, there are a few of us good guys still around....As long as Kong is having a good day...Just kiddin bro....Things have been strange here lately....Can't really explain but there's been a weird vibe that kind of lingered....seems to be gettin better....and I have to apologize for that other thread, some of those guys were being buttheads, especially considering the fact that you are obviously female....I mean kittie...reallly....dude....not hardly....But have fun and I'm glad we were able to help even in a small way....Blessed are those who call upon the name of the Lord. AHydromaxen....

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Adolf Hilter said:

I am not a violent man but I do take personnel and family problems very seriously. I am afraid that if that had happened to my daughter, raped by some School friend. This guy would have been carrying a handbag the rest of his life. I would have castrated him. I do not believe in forgive and forget. My attitude is do onto them as do onto you.

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I personally live by: Head for an eye, jaw for a tooth. Eye for an eye doesn't give me enough satisfaction.

For Kittie's situation, I think Kong and millionman have given you the best advice I could offer. By my very nature, I am a bitter, angry, and hateful man, outside of my circle of friends. If you can bear to live differently, do it! I can't imagine what you went through. It's easy for me to feel nothing but vengance for such issues, but I've never experienced something with such psychological aftermath.

yeah i can understand that. i think that they gave me the best advice as well as u thought so thanks to everyone else though. i appreciate it!

I am interested in sex, but donnot know how to express and get new friends, also I dont know how to get new adult websites. Help me plo.

go on a search engine (like on yahoo, msn, google, etc) and type in "����" or "penis" or "sex" or something related to sex. im sure you'll find something as soon as the enter key is hit

kong1971 said:

That is a tempting sentiment, adolf, and one that many people share, but the thing is, if you do not forgive and forget, the negativity just becomes a self-perpetuating cycle. It never ends. Forgiveness stops the cycle and allows the healing to begin.

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Actually Kong, If I had Castrated the bastard, and saw him in town, I would have to ask him if he raped any body lately, Or asked him if he could get an erection, and smile contemptuously. I would know that he would not rape anyone else. I think that the law is to soft with rapist. Any man accused and convicted of raping should be automatically castrated, and made to eat his own knackers in public on TV. Raw of course. Can you think of a better deterrent to future rapist?

Ummm...yeah. Cause then they would murder their victims so that they would have less chance of being prosecuted. Violence only begets more violence. I'm glad you don't control the law, cause the man who molested me might have killed me to avoid such a severe penalty!

i don't know when this was posted up by my sam and i'm glad i found it. thanks for the support you showed on this sensitive topic. it's good to know that she has some more people to turn to if she ever had to. i personally knew about this shit for a while and seen what she has to go through. ur suggestions were very thoughtful and i'm glad she has the "big brother" types on here who are ready to jump the bastard. it's all a fine mix of guys on here.

and by the way. sam is a very strong person, very sensitive too and i hate it when she cries. she did cry a lot over what happened. i will support her as much as much as i can and i want her to feel better, healthier and happier. however i'm not the passifist type of guy. i speak my mind when i must and i do what i must. if i ever see this kid again (he's only 19 by now), i probably will punch him and not stop until i couldn't feel my hand anymore. i'm actually AFRAID to meet the kid, not because i think he can take me, but because i know what i can do to him.

again thanks for bein there for my girl u all have my greatest respect

Well, you're both part of the family here.

thanks

i feel all warm and fuffy :D

KiTTie8695 said:

alright. I have a question. I was um, "taken advantage of" in a past relationship. It was really about like 3 years ago, but I still get flashbacks about it. I know it won't ruin anything that me and zack have between ourselves in our relationship, but what can I do to deal with this better? any suggestions or anything?

i cry about it sometimes when i think about it. in front of zack or when i'm by myself. i never really told a lot of people about it. maybe like 5 of my best friends and thats it. <

-Sam

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I hope you have been able to deal with this now, or at least put some perspective to it, and in that way learn from it and move on.
If it was trauma it's important to process it in the proper way. Otherwise it can linger with us, and impact our life in a negative way.

I know the feeling. This can happen if we are to kind and over help people to much...some people will then develop a co-dependent relationship with you, where they always wants help from you. When tings go wrong you are to blame.
It's the paradox of saving someone from drowning.
(Reference from: Jordan Peterson)

It's hard to walk away from people, but sometimes you have to. Their decisions and their life...you can't control other people. Life is hard sometimes...