Premature ejaculation acquired

Hi guys,

I have been using the Bathmate for 3 months now (along with manual excercises) and I've become extremely sensitive to sexual stimulations e consequently very fast in reaching the orgasm ( approx.one minute). The feeling that I have (having sex) is that there is too much pressure inside my penis and that the pc muscle is like in a constant squeezed state

I wanna spcify that:
-I have always been a regular guy in terms of duration, 15 minutes on average
-I have been into Penis Enlargement for several years now, using only manual excercises, and last september I decided to buy th Bathmate in order to boost my gains because I have been experiencing months of no results.
-for the first two months I didn't have the girlfriend so I didn't notice the problem; in the last month I have tried to reduce the number of workout, but it didn't work, so now I've decided to stop.

Is there anyone that have at least noticed an increase of sensitivity? What can I do?

I am pissed because I was gaining again and I really wanna go on

I am confused, you were gaining and now you are not gaining? When did gains slow and when did this issue arise? Are you able to masturbate for longer periods? There are exercises you can do to correct this but Penis Enlargement usually cures premature ejaculation, it does not cause it.

I'm in the same boat. the Bathmate turned me into a minute man. It's very upsetting. I no longer use the Bathmate. I thought that quitting would help my staying power return but it hasn't. My girlfriend hates the fact that i used it and i feel foolish for it aswell.

Hope this doesn't happen to me...

first of all thanks for your answer. I have been manually exersising for 3 years, with some months off due to work problems. Last year I've joined MOS, bought the package with the dvd and the PA because I felt the italian program (i am italian) I was in was obsolete. So I have started with your program from phase 2 and then went for phase 3. I have being gaining for about 6 /7 months, from december 2011 to junes 2012, but then my gians stopped for 3 months. I was insecure about what to do: go for phase 4 or buying a device. I have red hundreds of enthusiastic comments about the Bathmate here on the forum, so I said, I'll give it a shot.
So from september till the end of november, I have used it along with stretches and jelques. And in this period I was gaining again, especially in girth. For the first 8 weeks, I didn't have sex at all, so I couldnt' notice this issue. Yes, I was a bit faster with the masturbation, but I didn't give it too much importance cause I was masturbating just few times aweek. But when I started having sex again, I started to be tremendously fast like never before in my life, never (I am 31). Again, I feel that there is to much pressure inside the penis and that my pc muscle is constantly squeezed.

I hope you can help me with this, I am 7x5, I can live happily with this size, but not with this duration

TheMaestro;523174 said:

I'm in the same boat. the Bathmate turned me into a minute man. It's very upsetting. I no longer use the Bathmate. I thought that quitting would help my staying power return but it hasn't. My girlfriend hates the fact that i used it and i feel foolish for it aswell.

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Thank you for sharing...I am sure there is a way to fix it! Let's see what dld suggest us

I don't really get this problem with the Bathmate. Not saying it's not possible but I just don't understand how it would be doing this. This is an interesting hypothesis, I think, from tenI

"Again, I feel that there is to much pressure inside the penis and that my pc muscle is constantly squeezed."

I don't think the Bathmate does anything at all to the pc muscle, does it? Doesn't it ONLY pull blood into the penis? Is the suggestion that it's pulling blood into all the parts of the entire area?

For me, i dont have that sensation of a constantly squeezed pc muscle. It seems to be a sensitivity issue, although i don't really feel like it's more sensitive. The only explanation that made sense to me was Dr. Lin's. I've seen discussions on his credibility(or lack of), so i cant say he's right, but it made sense to me. The only other thing i can think of is that new tissue growth and nerve growth happen with gains, so maybe the new nerves being stimulated create an overload??

Actually, I don't know if it is precisely the pc muscle or something else, I admit the I havent studied the penis' anatomy very well. But, when I am sexually stimulated, I feel the area between balls and ass very contracted, I can't say it's painful but it bothers me for sure. Seems like the erection it's stronger than the "system" can tolerate, in fact after sex I feel very tired in the area and a sort of sting

Purely and ABSOLUTELY mental.

i just started using the Bathmate and i have noticed the opposite. im able to go longer, even with the extra girth making penetration tighter now. granted i have only used a few times. but i am deffinatly still able to dictate when the blow. what kinda routine are you doing with the Bathmate? are you doing one long session, or multiple shorter sessions? i do the 5min x 3 with 200 jelqs in between sets and after. seems to get the job done.

doublelongdaddy;523450 said:

Purely and ABSOLUTELY mental.

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How so? Everyone doing Penis Enlargement is doing it with the belief that they will gain and that they will last longer, not the opposite. Doing these routines and exercises should be reinforcing those beliefs and solidifying the mindset. If I thought it would have an adverse affect on me I wouldn't have done it. While using the Bathmate i believed 100% that it would increase my staying power. I would do erect bends at 80-100% erection strength while watching ���� then do my Bathmate session. This routine had me at an almost constant state of stimulation for 30+ minutes. I don't understand how that kind of practice creates a purely mental premature ejaculation problem. Sex with my GF used to last >30 minutes. We had rented a room one day ,and, after using the Bathmate for some weeks, I was expecting to pull an all nighter on her. My expectations fell from the sky after two strokes. All I can say is that I assure you it isn't mental, I believe I may have suffered some sort of nerve damage and I dont know how to fix it.

doublelongdaddy;523450 said:

Purely and ABSOLUTELY mental.

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Dear DLD, I respect you and honor you for all the good you have done (and are doing)to the Penis Enlargement community, I truly believe your are one of the most qualified in the field, but it is too easy to say it's mental, it doesnt match with your reputation nor with your expertise. I think I deserve a better answer than that, if only for the fact that I am your "double customer' (mos program + Bathmate).

here there are two guys that are experiencing the same problem, and not a little one! so if you don't know how this could have happened, just say: "sorry guys, it's weird, it's the first time I hear this. Maybe it's because of this or that, not sure. Why don't you try to do xxxx for ��� time and then let me know?"

I swear to God, my only goal here is my health, nothing else. I am perfectly consciuos that maybe the other guy (the maestro) and I can be just a 2 in a million cases where the Bathmate causes this problem, so I personally encourage all the people reading this thread to look for the thousands enthusiastic testimonials, not only of the Bathmate, but also of the MOS program and all the products you find in this forum!

I sincerely hope you can help us!

Penis Enlargement WORKS!

Just a quick thought;

Usually Penis Enlargement fights against premature ejaculation. But there might be a case or two (as few have reported) where the Bathmate or other type or exercise might sensitize your penis, in someways. This can be seen as a good thing, in my opinion, but it needs a new approach as well.
I went through quick, are you cut or uncut?

One way to fight against the premature ejaculation is to start slow. Learn your point of no return. As you cum sooner, the PONR is also earlier. Slow, steady movements. Stop and start often. Remain positive.
Do you think about the orgasm or does it just happen? Breathe deep.
Lots of short words and advices here. Kegels; remember to do reverse kegels! In a way it sounds like your PC muscle is pushing constantly, making cumming fast so easy, try to loosen it up.

All in all, don't stress about it. With girls or partners it's always different anyway. Love yourself!

And true, Penis Enlargement works!

arkailija;523585 said:

Just a quick thought;

Usually Penis Enlargement fights against premature ejaculation. But there might be a case or two (as few have reported) where the Bathmate or other type or exercise might sensitize your penis, in someways. This can be seen as a good thing, in my opinion, but it needs a new approach as well.
I went through quick, are you cut or uncut?

One way to fight against the premature ejaculation is to start slow. Learn your point of no return. As you cum sooner, the PONR is also earlier. Slow, steady movements. Stop and start often. Remain positive.
Do you think about the orgasm or does it just happen? Breathe deep.
Lots of short words and advices here. Kegels; remember to do reverse kegels! In a way it sounds like your PC muscle is pushing constantly, making cumming fast so easy, try to loosen it up.

All in all, don't stress about it. With girls or partners it's always different anyway. Love yourself!

And true, Penis Enlargement works!

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first of all, thanks for your advices.

probably it's just my system that has reacted in this way to completely new stimolation.

I am uncut and I don't think about the orgasm, it just happens.

I will now focus primarily on reverse kegels, I am sure the pc muscle has reacted in this way because it wasn't ready to this completely new stimolation.

Thanks again

Yeah, at the moment, it seems, this kind of practice is my only option. Trying to focus on the sensations and going slow is frustrating though. I miss the days when I could just go "H.A.M.". I am cut, what is the significance of that though? Also, I found DLD's response upsetting. It's somewhat a slap in the face. It's like he's saying "how dare you badmouth the Bathmate! you are all crazy!"

tenI, No problem, I'm glad if I could be somekind of help.
Do you use lubrication while masturbating? I'm uncut as well and well, yes, sometimes stimulation is too good and ejaculation might happen a bit sooner than anticipated.
Reverse kegels are a tool when you're on the brink of PONR. As said, it's a bit of new learning process.

To TheMaestro, as you're uncut, I think the Bathmate can pull on skin, maybe renegerate the cut area, making it more sensitive. This is just a thought, nothing scientific, at least nothing I could backup with a referal etc..

So, never lose hope, sometimes it takes a while to learn some new ways. Our bodies change and adapt to new stress and so on.

TheMaestro;523561 said:

How so? Everyone doing Penis Enlargement is doing it with the belief that they will gain and that they will last longer, not the opposite. Doing these routines and exercises should be reinforcing those beliefs and solidifying the mindset. If I thought it would have an adverse affect on me I wouldn't have done it. While using the Bathmate i believed 100% that it would increase my staying power. I would do erect bends at 80-100% erection strength while watching ���� then do my Bathmate session. This routine had me at an almost constant state of stimulation for 30+ minutes. I don't understand how that kind of practice creates a purely mental premature ejaculation problem. Sex with my GF used to last >30 minutes. We had rented a room one day ,and, after using the Bathmate for some weeks, I was expecting to pull an all nighter on her. My expectations fell from the sky after two strokes. All I can say is that I assure you it isn't mental, I believe I may have suffered some sort of nerve damage and I dont know how to fix it.

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So how are you able to last so long doing erect work without ejaculation? If it were a physical issue it would be consistent through all times of stimulation. Physical premature ejaculation may seem physical but I assure you it is all in the mind. I had these issues early in my Penis Enlargement and solved them using mental practices while strengthening my pelvic floor muscles.

tenI;523575 said:

Dear DLD, I respect you and honor you for all the good you have done (and are doing)to the Penis Enlargement community, I truly believe your are one of the most qualified in the field, but it is too easy to say it's mental, it doesnt match with your reputation nor with your expertise. I think I deserve a better answer than that, if only for the fact that I am your "double customer' (mos program + Bathmate).

here there are two guys that are experiencing the same problem, and not a little one! so if you don't know how this could have happened, just say: "sorry guys, it's weird, it's the first time I hear this. Maybe it's because of this or that, not sure. Why don't you try to do xxxx for ��� time and then let me know?"

I swear to God, my only goal here is my health, nothing else. I am perfectly consciuos that maybe the other guy (the maestro) and I can be just a 2 in a million cases where the Bathmate causes this problem, so I personally encourage all the people reading this thread to look for the thousands enthusiastic testimonials, not only of the Bathmate, but also of the MOS program and all the products you find in this forum!

I sincerely hope you can help us!

Penis Enlargement WORKS!

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I understand where you, and everyone else is coming from, but I need to advocate as I know best, Premature Ejaculation is corrected through practice and that practice is largely mental. You may be an exception to the rule and perhaps the type of exercise you are using is causing too much stimulation, but even then the goal would be to surpass the stimulation and grow mentally stronger to keep control.

The same thing goes for erections and dysfunction...it is EXTREMELY rare that someone would become physically huge and impotent-, in 99% of the cases, as severe as they may seem, are corrected through practice of proper therapy.

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