PLEASE: Help with this chick thing/how long should I wait

Things have been okay lately, but I haven't been able to get any feedback from Mandy about how last weekend went, which was the weekend Tina went down to see Rich and get her car back. Mandy and I had dinner on Monday evening, while Tina was away and we talked about the conversation had the previous week. I told her it seemed as though she has been trying to steer me towards spending time with Tina, to which she said "Well, you're a good guy and I wouldn't mind seeing you with my sister." Unfortunately, I had to take two days off in the middle of the week, due to a funeral and Mandy took Friday off for a concert.

Friday night Tina and I spent lunch hour together, had drinks after work by ourselves, and I took her shooting Saturday evening to give her a new experience in life. This was not a proper date, but I just asked her if she wanted to go out because Mandy was going out of town for the holiday weekend. She seemed to love the whole shooting thing. We were supposed to go bowling (she loves bowling) afterwards, but plans changed because she said she forgot her bag of clothes to take to her friend's apartment. From bowling, she was supposed to head to her friend's place because they were going to the local amusement park on Sunday. I wondered if she was putting me off with an excuse about forgeting the clothes. Yet, that could have happened to anyone as I forget such things routinely. So, she had to drive back to her place and get them, thus taking up enough time that she wanted a raincheck on bowling. We still spent about 2-3 fun hours together and she spent about 15 minutes or so just sitting in the car with me at the end of the night debating about what to do about the extra trip back to her place. She could have easily excused herself sooner.

The only thing that put any doubt into my mind was a phone conversation she had on the way back. We were supposed to bowl with her friend, Shannon, that she was going to stay with later. On the phone, Shannon mentioned that her neighbor wanted to bowl too. "The hot guy?" was Tina's response and they giggled and shit. Afterwards, she laughed and said she felt embarassed because Shannon's neighbor was right by her and probably heard her comment. We just joked about it a little. It's probably a stretch in my mind to believe that she invented some excuse just to bowl with Shannon and this other guy that she met once. It didn't seem like it and we had a good time talking on the way back.

I'd like to get a little feedback from Mandy on how Tina stands with Rich. She jokingly referred to her target as Rich, but I know she still has some feelings leftover. If Rich is no obstacle, I'll probably just wait for another opportunity when we're alone and tell her that I love the time we spend together and that I am potentially interested in going beyond friendship.
 
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