PE: To tell or not to tell?

Big Schwanz Acht said:
...unfortunately, it's never enough of anything. Women are hard-wired to always be on the look-out for the 'bigger/better deal' (not talking dick-size here). There are always a select few that are honest about where they are and become 'satisfied' with whom they've chosen (or just got tired/lazy), and aren't actively plotting their 'next move' up the ladder, but the vast majority (I'm talking about women in their reproductive phase) see men as 'opportunities' vs. partners.
Men love women with their hearts (we're actually far more romantic) and we only want to feel the same in return (ain't gonna happen)...we're idealistic, they're opportunistic
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They all went out searching for a better deal and they all got traded down. The women that were in my life we’re treated so well and I brought them to places I’ve never been before but I introduce them to things they probably would’ve never been introduced to otherwise. Today all of them are with another man who is half the man I am. I’m not saying that from ego I’m saying that from a position of treating them with respect, working every day to make money, making sure they got their schooling in, helping them with whatever problem they were going through, always being there to help and many other things.

My ex-wife is with a guy that makes boxes for a living and gambles and drinks all of her money away. My other ex Jen, is a stripper in one of the worst strip bars you can possibly strip. She’s with a KKK dude that’s an alcoholic and a part-time pimp. That was a trade up from me LOL????

Women need to be treated with respect in every way but by the same token men should be respected by women in the equal way.
 
aDiscipleofGod said:
My wife has known from beginning and is totally cool with it, she even pops into the bathroom every once in awhile while I'm in the middle of a routine and grabs my penis and says it's so big it looks fake (shes always thought it was very big to begin with). Multiple times she has been in the bathroom with me and just watches me use my bathmate, she likes to see it, but she gives me my privacy as well. I don't really know how wives or girlfriends wouldn't think something is going on from being in the bathroom for an hour or more and then when you come out your penis super engorged larger than it ever is. EDIT: I've even sat on the couch wearing my bathmate while we watch a movie, play a video game etc.
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That's so good.

My wife just controlled my pump just before, after a jelq session she walked in on.
Told her from the start, she's seen pumping, jelqing, phallosan (try to time this so that it's off when I'm around her).
She only hasn't witnessed hanging.
I think it's totally worth telling them. Personally I feel like it's like keeping something from them if I didn't say anything especially when there is so much time that goes into it, that for me would get to me mentally and she would pick up on that. Then there's weird energy and possibly stuffs up bedroom time, the whole reason you're doing it.
If you believe you want it for the right reasons then everything should be on the table. After all you want to pleasure them and also feel more confident and just better, more self respect and gratitude for yourself and your manhood etc, you worked for that penis and gains damn it! Not only for yourself but for them.

We have shown up on this earth and been gifted a body that happens to be male.
The fitness industry is a billion dollar industry for a reason, it's also more common and more accepted, in this people work on their bodies. To me this is showing gratitude and taking care of the body you have.

Why is it so taboo to want the same for your dick. For anyone who doesn't involve them self in PE or male enhancement, are you really grateful? Use it then throw it back in your pants or it won't come back out till you want pleasure either yourself or with someone. This male enhancement business is not easy for the most part, it's a grind.LOL. You are working for what you have and you want it better, cuto's to you!
Male enhancement is like the gym for our sexual health.
With that I think you learn so much about yourself and even your relationship, it builds up resilience, discipline and patients all through dedication working on manhood and overall health.

My wife says "I agree". (clap)

I must say though, the first time around. There was shit and it wasn't an easy road. Didn't like it and ended up ruining the energy for a little while. Not good.

6 month break from PE went by and I was like hang on, came up with all the reasons to why, came up with real honest and genuine reasons. (All steam ahead. Perspective is a beautiful thing when swayed in the right direction).
Haven't read fully into penis envy however I think I get the drift.
I just think balance is necessary. Why is it any different to working out in the gym for 1-3 hours and then doing everything in your power outside of the gym (21-23 hours) to make sure you recover and keep gaining results.

Total honesty and openness is going to 1) Give you the time because she won't think where the fuck is he or why has he been in there so long and 2) Get rid of the unquestionable energy you'll give off trying to hide all this.

I also agree that it may take a certain women. Maybe I have been gifted with one. ?(hearteyes)
 
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You are very lucky to have a woman like you do. Most women are not OK with this and the first sight of it they will have huge issues. There’s another type of woman that we all should be very aware of, the woman who seems like she’s OK with it now but down the road things change and penis and the kicks in. Always be sure to give more attention to your wife’s them to your dick!
 
DLD said:
You are very lucky to have a woman like you do. Most women are not OK with this and the first sight of it they will have huge issues. There’s another type of woman that we all should be very aware of, the woman who seems like she’s OK with it now but down the road things change and penis and the kicks in. Always be sure to give more attention to your wife’s them to your dick!
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I’m starting a YouTube channel on all things Male Enhancement and men’s health and fitness. This is something I want to address, giving insights, tips and so on all around the Male Enhancement because as much as there are product reviews there is nothing on the nitty gritty, the things that aren’t mentioned however eventually get found out and unfortunately this is where PE and Enhancement is over with, this could most likely lead to even more issues if this was going to be the saving grace for the guy to lift his confidence. Also want to make a video or at least cover how to go about it with your partner. I think guys need this, otherwise another negative outcome may manifest which could be resentment to the female for not allowing something that the guy wants. Subconscious or not it’s going to happen I feel.

What do you think @DLD?

I’ll also be referring traffic to the brothers and products here at MOS. ?
 
Starting a YouTube channel is a big challenge today since there’s millions of people with talent and gigantic channels. I suggest if you’re going to do it start right away and be prepared to work day and night to get that channel rocking.
 
DLD said:
Starting a YouTube channel is a big challenge today since there’s millions of people with talent and gigantic channels. I suggest if you’re going to do it start right away and be prepared to work day and night to get that channel rocking.
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That is the least I would expect.
With a topic such as this I think I would give it no less attention and time.
I have run a business before and I know it's not just full time, it's over time on and on and on.
Passion. That's what will get me through.

Thanks @DLD.
 
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MrStockhammer said:
That's so good.

My wife just controlled my pump just before, after a jelq session she walked in on.
Told her from the start, she's seen pumping, jelqing, phallosan (try to time this so that it's off when I'm around her).
She only hasn't witnessed hanging.
I think it's totally worth telling them. Personally I feel like it's like keeping something from them if I didn't say anything especially when there is so much time that goes into it, that for me would get to me mentally and she would pick up on that. Then there's weird energy and possibly stuffs up bedroom time, the whole reason you're doing it.
If you believe you want it for the right reasons then everything should be on the table. After all you want to pleasure them and also feel more confident and just better, more self respect and gratitude for yourself and your manhood etc, you worked for that penis and gains damn it! Not only for yourself but for them.

We have shown up on this earth and been gifted a body that happens to be male.
The fitness industry is a billion dollar industry for a reason, it's also more common and more accepted, in this people work on their bodies. To me this is showing gratitude and taking care of the body you have.

Why is it so taboo to want the same for your dick. For anyone who doesn't involve them self in PE or male enhancement, are you really grateful? Use it then throw it back in your pants or it won't come back out till you want pleasure either yourself or with someone. This male enhancement business is not easy for the most part, it's a grind.LOL. You are working for what you have and you want it better, cuto's to you!
Male enhancement is like the gym for our sexual health.
With that I think you learn so much about yourself and even your relationship, it builds up resilience, discipline and patients all through dedication working on manhood and overall health.

My wife says "I agree". (clap)

I must say though, the first time around. There was shit and it wasn't an easy road. Didn't like it and ended up ruining the energy for a little while. Not good.

6 month break from PE went by and I was like hang on, came up with all the reasons to why, came up with real honest and genuine reasons. (All steam ahead. Perspective is a beautiful thing when swayed in the right direction).
Haven't read fully into penis envy however I think I get the drift.
I just think balance is necessary. Why is it any different to working out in the gym for 1-3 hours and then doing everything in your power outside of the gym (21-23 hours) to make sure you recover and keep gaining results.

Total honesty and openness is going to 1) Give you the time because she won't think where the fuck is he or why has he been in there so long and 2) Get rid of the unquestionable energy you'll give off trying to hide all this.

I also agree that it may take a certain women. Maybe I have been gifted with one. ?(hearteyes)
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You saved me a LOT of typing. I am in the early stages of the exact same thing. I chose to tell for all the same honest reasons, and I view it as you do; identical self care, physical fitness.

The discovery and commitment to PE has wholeheartedly resolved so many insecurities that aren’t even directly related. It’s an amazing feeling, very freeing. The supportive spouse is an incredible blessing.
 
aDiscipleofGod said:
My wife has known from beginning and is totally cool with it, she even pops into the bathroom every once in awhile while I'm in the middle of a routine and grabs my penis and says it's so big it looks fake (shes always thought it was very big to begin with). Multiple times she has been in the bathroom with me and just watches me use my bathmate, she likes to see it, but she gives me my privacy as well. I don't really know how wives or girlfriends wouldn't think something is going on from being in the bathroom for an hour or more and then when you come out your penis super engorged larger than it ever is. EDIT: I've even sat on the couch wearing my bathmate while we watch a movie, play a video game etc.
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Cool my wife if cool with it to as long as I don't get to big for her . I did one time and had to stop and lost some gains but I'm back now . It's like weight lifting one's you got it you always got it . Its easy to get them gains back again
 
MrStockhammer said:
That is the least I would expect.
With a topic such as this I think I would give it no less attention and time.
I have run a business before and I know it's not just full time, it's over time on and on and on.
Passion. That's what will get me through.

Thanks @DLD.
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Yup, lots of passion, lots of answering questions, lots of late night, lots of work but if you got what it takes you can live a pretty comfortable lifestyle with a popular YouTube channel. I would advise you to also uploaded to alternative video platforms in case YouTube decides to be a Nazis, which happens a lot.
 
SSD6t8 said:
You saved me a LOT of typing. I am in the early stages of the exact same thing. I chose to tell for all the same honest reasons, and I view it as you do; identical self care, physical fitness.

The discovery and commitment to PE has wholeheartedly resolved so many insecurities that aren’t even directly related. It’s an amazing feeling, very freeing. The supportive spouse is an incredible blessing.
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An incredible feeling to say the least.
Since being so honest and her knowing everything, the best sex and relationship ever!

So freeing and uplifting!
 
DLD said:
Yup, lots of passion, lots of answering questions, lots of late night, lots of work but if you got what it takes you can live a pretty comfortable lifestyle with a popular YouTube channel. I would advise you to also uploaded to alternative video platforms in case YouTube decides to be a Nazis, which happens a lot.
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Thanks for help and advise @DLD , appreciate it. Where do you suppose I upload videos?
 
I had a idea one day at work allthow I'm sure it will never happen but maybe you now how you go to the gym to work out . I thought what if there was a pe gym where everyone could do there pe exercises without being bothered or interrupted that would be awesome right . I know it sounds crazy but I thank it would make thangs alot better and it would be something fresh & new and you could be motivated a lot more just like going to a gym and working out your body
 
Darkmoon said:
I had a idea one day at work allthow I'm sure it will never happen but maybe you now how you go to the gym to work out . I thought what if there was a ? where everyone could do there pe exercises without being bothered or interrupted that would be awesome right . I know it sounds crazy but I thank it would make thangs alot better and it would be something fresh & new and you could be motivated a lot more just like going to a gym and working out your body
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PE at a gym/men’s spa would be a gold mine. You could treat it just like a gym with trainers that help you along. I’d love to run with it but I have much to learn
 
It's just a dream of mine maybe somedays someone will run with it and make a lot of money. Thank about it if that happened no one would have a small one lol
 
A gym/spa for PE wouldn't work for the simple fact that the vast majority of men still dont believe in it due to the huge amount of time that it takes to make a noticeable difference in size. Is like getting a cosmetic treatment in the face with massage, machines creams. Is expensive, and yes if you get one of those every single day of your life, you will most definitely look way younger than a regular dude at age 65. But nobody will put the money and time to follow it.

The way I think it should have been evolved, is in a cultural way. Every man should have come to the awareness that PE is part of a man life and educate their children aware of this. As a normal part of the civilization. Juts like parents teach a little daughter when she gets her first period how to care for her body, just like a young kid learn the first time he has to shave.

And I say that this is the way that "it should have evolved" because the future looks different. In my opinion the day will come in which trough genetic manipulation every single man will be able to create a giant elephantine phallic apparatus. Of course most will be useless, but it will come down to point in which every man will crete his desired penis size easily and all the penis comparison, competition and romanticism about sizer will come to an end.

It something similar to what happened with breast implants. Remember when the technology and practice was mastered, we had a huge surge of models in the 80's and 90's with huge implants. World record of enormous gigantic balloons. Today that doesnt exist anymore. Brest implant is a common practice and every woman gets the size they want between "normal" parameters.

The future of PE looks similar. In my honest opinion, genetic manipulation of penis size has been already achieved but I strongly believe that is a highly classified top secret in the scientific community. I have been reading for years about the genes, proteins, enzymes involved in fetal penis development and post natal penis development. I have research for years about possible chemicals to enhance PE and experimented with some of them.

I have been worshipping my Lord Priapus for many years and someday I will have a prick like his.
 
Brawn Johnson said:
For those of you with 1) a wife or significant other to notice that your dick is getting huge, and 2) the privacy to perform your PE in secret if you choose...

Is PE something that you keep to yourself? Have you told/will you tell her what you're doing and why? Or do you let her think you've had a random growth spurt or something and it just happened on its own?

I plan on letting my wife know what I've been up to when she notices the results, for a couple of reasons. First, I don't really like it when people think I'm a 'natural' at something. Anything I'm good at, it's because I worked my butt off for it and I want credit for that. :)

Second, it will be a way for me to 'put my money where my mouth is.' She thinks large breasts are really sexy and would make her feel sexy, but she doesn't have them and right now she thinks it's pointless or somehow doesn't count if you do anything -- surgery or natural intervention -- to augment them. I honestly think that's ass backwards (again, I want people to know if I've worked to earn something), and I've told her as much, but I haven't made her feel differently. By showing her the results of my PE and telling her exactly what I did to earn those results -- and how much better I can feel about the results knowing that I've earned them -- I can actually live by what I've preached. And then perhaps she'll feel it's "okay" to improve herself that way, too. She'd be happier with a body more closely reflecting what she likes, and I guess I wouldn't mind if my wife had bigger boobs. ;)

What do you guys think? How do you approach this?
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Let us know if you were able to pull this off.
 
I've always kept PE private when it comes to my women.
Women talk way more than guys so even if you fully trust your significant other everything you tell her she's telling someone else. Its just in their nature.
Now that doesn't stop me from PE. When they ask I've always said yea idk I guess I'm a late bloomer. They don't know anything about male anatomy, growth spurts, and I honestly don't think they care as long as you're getting a big dick.
So let that be the talking point. Instead of them gossiping to her friends about how you yank your dick around to make it grow let that be a mystery and she just talks about how big you're getting.
 
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